Behind The Bum

Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by other Instagram Booty boys; Ties (@Strip.Ties), Daniel (@NKD.Dan) & Jeremy (@Grmhenry). Does posting photos of your butt make you a bottom? How have your friends and family reacted to your social media accounts? When people see you in public do you get nervous? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! If you want to follow the boys from this episode; Ties: https://www.instagram.com/strip.ties/?hl=en https://onlyfans.com/strip.ties Daniel: https://www.instagram.com/nkd.dan/?hl=en Jeremy: https://www.instagram.com/grmhenry/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Ty Talley (@TyTalleyOfficial) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to  discuss what life was like growing up in what they felt was homophobic towns. Does it feel like you need to leave your home town to be accepted for your sexuality? What have you gained from leaving where you grew up? What advice would you give to anyone who is feeling uncomfortable or stuck in a small town? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! https://www.instagram.com/tytalleyofficial/?hl=en --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Brent Everett (@BrentEverett_com) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss his career in the adult entertainment industry. What was his favorite scene? Has doing porn ever affected his relationships?  Do you think gay porn is a good way to educated gay men on sex? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! Website: www.brenteverett.com  Just For Fans: https://www.justfor.fans/brenteverett Instagrams: https://www.instagram.com/brenteverett_com/?hl=en  https://www.instagram.com/caribbeandreamfestival/?hl=en   https://www.instagram.com/be.clothing.apparel/?hl=en Twitter:  https://twitter.com/brenteverett --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) invites on Eddie (@eddiebeiler), Fernando (@fernandodc), & Jon (@jonjondotcom) to discuss life as a sober gay male. At what age did you guys first start experiencing drugs and alcohol? Have you ever had a problem with drugs or alcohol? Do you find it difficult to build friendships and find a safe gay space without the use of drugs or alcohol? Keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! Follow the boys; https://www.instagram.com/eddiebeiler/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/jonjondotcom/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/fernandodc/?hl=en For anyone looking to explore resources, some recommendations are; https://www.amazon.com/Leaving-Rest-Leslie-L-Smith-ebook/dp/B00ED7LHYY https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/0738215678/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_SSlIFb96NSJ34 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) invites Arielle Scarcella (@arielle_scarcella) & JC Dombrowki (@jc.dombrowski) to discuss their final thoughts before Election Day. Who is voting for Trump and who is voting for Biden? Is it possible for someone to vote for Trump if they are in the LGBTQ community? Can you be friends with someone who has opposing political views than you?  Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! Follow! https://www.instagram.com/jc.dombrowski/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/arielle_scarcella/?hl=en --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) invites on 3 guests to discuss sex work. Guests include Peter Pagen (OheyPete), Jimmy Pezzino (@JimmyPezzino), & Kevin Mimms(@TheBlackWidowNYC).  Do you ever feel it is wrong to show off your body to make money? Has a relationship ever failed because of it? Do you think sex work has a negative stigma? How do you change the narrative to make it more socially acceptable?  Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! Follow! https://www.instagram.com/oheypete/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/jimmypezzino/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/theblackwidownyc/?hl=en --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Pavel Paulinich (@PavelPaulinich) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss cancel culture and the creation of his latest Instagram (@KarensGoingWilds). What do you do when you are approached by a Karen? Do you think these people are past the point of educating? How do you step in if you see someone being harassed by a Karen or Kevin? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! https://www.instagram.com/thetravelinbum/ https://www.instagram.com/karensgoingwilds/ https://www.instagram.com/PavelPaulinich/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Host Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) invites 3 guests (@TheJulesCastro, @JMusiel09, & @KevinllWriter) on who have recently gone through navigating a breakup. Did Covid have anything to do with why they broke up? How do you manage a breakup when you can't really see anyone new right now? Is it possible to live with your ex boyfriend during this time? Should you settle to be in a relationship right now just because you're horny?  Listen as Jeff helps these men navigate their breakups. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! Special thanks to; Julian, Joe, & Kevin for coming on. Give them a follow! https://instagram.com/thejulescastro?igshid=shmgkuxh1rfn https://instagram.com/kevinllwriter?igshid=t0h1dzkvy2i0 https://instagram.com/jmusiel09?igshid=n7gzfrcfe4ue --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Todd Masterson (@GayFatFriend) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to share what it's like being the Gay Fat Friend. Have you ever felt fetishized for being chubby? Do you think gay men notoriously hangout with people who look like themselves? If you could give advice to anyone insecure in their own body, what would you say?  Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! Follow Todd at https://www.instagram.com/gayfatfriend/?hl=en --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) organizes a group of men 50+ to share their journeys of coming out. Who was married with children? What was it like trying to explore your sexual identity in the midst of the AIDS epidemic in the 80's? Can you find true love after 50?  Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! I want to give a shoutout to Liam, Edwin, & Michael for sharing their personal journeys with me, it means a lot. Give them a follow. Liam: https://www.instagram.com/liamboston/ Edwin: https://www.instagram.com/edwindouglass/?hl=en Michael: https://www.instagram.com/gagnonmt/?hl=en --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Niko Wirachman (@nikowirachman) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss sexual fantasies.  Do you think as gay men, we are forced to be more sexually exploratory in order to keep a man interested? Do you like when people call you names or use derogatory words? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Andres Simon (@andressimon_) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss the struggles of coming out as Bisexual. Jeff and Andres chemistry sparks as sexual tension builds. Later on Jeff is joined by Ellie Shiovitz (@ellieshiovitz) & Wesley Boyett (@Wesleyboyett) as they discuss what life is like for them fitting into the LGBTQ community. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

JC Dombrowski (@JC.Dombrowski) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss the annoying habits of being a Gen Z'er. JC and Jeff share their thoughts on Tik Tok vs Instagram, LPSG.com, & trying to make gay friends. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) sought out the help of fans to hear about their most embarrassing sexual experiences. Magnus (@potgietermagnus) shares his not so hot experience in Qatar. Anthony (Anonymous) shares what it's like to be walked in on & Christopher (@chrisnemetz) shares what happens once you get catfished. Let's see how many of these stories you boys relate too. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Daniel Koludrovich (@Koludro) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to debate gay stereotypes between the West coast vs East coast. The boys share their perceptions on what the differences are like from the dating scene to going out. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Dr. Leo Nissola (@DrLeoNissola) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss Covid-19 in the United States. We have all been forced to listen to mainstream media and follow the CDC guidelines for the past 4 months, but what really should we be doing? Is a mask essential? When is it appropriate to start hooking up with someone again? If the government says you are allowed to do something now, should you go? How do we feel about the bashing and shaming that is being shown on social media today? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! About Dr. Leo Dr. Leo Nissola is a Brazilian born Medical Doctor, Scientist, and a book author based in San Francisco, CA. Since the beginning of the COVID outbreak in the United States, he has provided advice to multiple efforts to contain the health crisis, such as COVIDActNow.org and National COVID-19 Convalescence Plasma Project. He is a cancer immunotherapy drug developer and an immunology researcher. He is very active on social media

Anthony Velez (@Antnyvlz) & David Leatherwood (@Realbrokebackpatriot) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss the current political climate in the United States. These boys dive into 3 issues in particular; LGBTQ rights, the Black Lives Matter (BLM) Movement alongside police brutality, and also the system and voting in general. Is it a moral obligation for gay men to vote democrat? Is it wrong to be republican and be gay? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Jeff explores his past with 4 different guys who entered his life at various stages. Some of the men left on good terms, others did not. This was extremely eye opening for Jeff and lessons were learned. Special thanks to Mike Hasenaur, Kyle Macchi, Eduardo Figuero, and Chase for joining. Would you ask Jeff out on a date after listening to this? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

As we enter Pride Month, Jeff will be releasing 2 episodes per week. One with a fellow influencer in the gay community and another weekly episode featuring those closest to him. This special episode features 2 of Jeff's closest friends from 7th grade, Shanae Drew & Maria Murray. They discuss what life was like growing up in a private school, when they first learned about the word gay, and when they tried to get Jeff to come out in high school. The second half of this episode takes a weird turn when they share stories of Jeff & Maria's attempt of trying to make him hard & the girls offer advice to any straight ally. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Rick & Griff (@rick_and_the_griffopotamus) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss how social media can effect a relationship. How did Rick & Griff get into the production of their own line of dildos? What were the beginning struggles of being an Instagram couple? Listen as we break down couple questions and get an inside scoop into this couples relationship. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support