Behind The Bum

Zak (@TallZT) & Brian (@yeatheycallmeb) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to share their experiences with straight men. Should you hook up with your straight friends? At what point should you start saying no to them?  Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! You can follow the boys below: https://www.instagram.com/thetravelinbum/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/yeatheycallmeb/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/tallzt/?hl=en --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Couple Marco (@Msivio516) & Arial (@Arialw_) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to share if a 27 year age gap is a factor in their relationship. Later in the episode Jeff is joined by Andre, 21 (@_who_is_Andre) who shares his experience in an age gap relationship, and why it didn't work. Do you think you could be in an age gapped relationship? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Anonymous Guests join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss their "Micro Penis". A Micro Penis has a stretched penile length of a maximum of 3.67 IN (9.32 cm). Should a guy with a micro penis disclose his size prior to meeting up for sex? What is penile humiliation? Sean (Seanlshow) shares his experience hooking up with someone who has one. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Bernard Green M.Ed, Doctoral Candidate (@johnnybgood09) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to challenge him to have a conversation about race. Can white people be victims of racism? Is it ok to use the "N" word in songs? Is racism a power dynamic that is pushed upon others? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Elliott Norris (@elliottnorris) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss everything from Colton Underwood to shirtless selfies. The boys share how they learned to appreciate their bodies and avoid the Instagram explore page expectations. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! https://www.instagram.com/elliottnorris/?hl=en --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by Instagram friends; Andres (@andrespalenciao), Steven (@smccutie) & Javier (@jv.rv) to share their experience as a Twink. At what age are you no longer considered a Twink? Do Twink's have a daddy fetish? Has anyone ever used the term Twink to negatively described someone? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! If you want to follow the boys from this episode; https://www.instagram.com/smccutie/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/jv.rv/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/andrespalenciao/?hl=en --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Frank (@Franekskywalker) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to share what they think is the right or wrong way to use the bathroom. From toilet paper to bidets to going in a hole in the ground. These boys leave nothing to the imagination and share way more than they should have. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! https://www.instagram.com/franekskywalker/?hl=en --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Dr. Evan Goldstein(@DrEvanGoldstein) owner of @BespokeSurgical & @TheFutureMethod joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to talk all things related to your behind. What is the best products and ways to wipe for men? Is douching with water harming your insides? Is there really such thing as the second wall? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! Follow Him Below: https://www.instagram.com/drevangoldstein/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/bespokesurgical/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/thefuturemethod/?hl=en --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Niko Wirachman (@Nikowirachman) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to answer all your personal questions and advise you needed. Have you ever hit your g-spot? What to do if your mans cheats on you? At what age did eating an ass go from being super gross to super hot? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! https://www.instagram.com/nikowirachman/?hl=en --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Harris Stevens (@Heresystevens) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to talk about his experience being "diagnosed" a sex addict. Is being a sex addict a real thing? Does religion play a role in the diagnosis? If you masturbate "too much" are you considered a sex addict? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! https://www.instagram.com/heresystevens/?hl=en --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Traci Carson (@Traci_Carson) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to analyze Jeff's picky eating habits. How restrictive is Jeff's palate? What percentage of gay men actually have an eating disorder? Have you ever skipped a meal because you wanted to look skinnier? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Anthony Guerrieri (@badboyantg) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss their experience hooking up with straight men. What't the appeal? How did it work out for Jeff & Anthony? The boys talk with 3 other anonymous guests who share how some have and some haven't gotten over their first love to a straight man. Jeff & Anthony try to leave the boys with some advice on how to navigate a curious straight male. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! https://www.instagram.com/badboyantg/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

James (@jj1993c) & Nico (@musically_nico) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to share what exactly a Power Bottom is. Is there one sole definition of a power bottom? Does a power bottom mean you can take any dick size? Is a power bottom a sexual position or a personality trait? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! You can follow the boys here: James: https://www.instagram.com/jj1993c/?hl=en Nico: https://www.instagram.com/musically_nico/?hl=en --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by 4 guests; Mike, Derek, Ryan, & Theo who have all been fetishized for their outter appearance. How does it feel when someone treats you like a fetish? Is there a difference between having a type and being a fetish? Is it wrong to be curious about how big a guy's dick is because of his race or what color his pubes are because of his hair color? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! Follow the Boys from this Episode! Derek: https://www.instagram.com/d.nuded/?hl=en Mike: https://www.instagram.com/mikemontiel/?hl=en Ryan: https://www.instagram.com/ryan_sutton87/?hl=en Theo: https://www.instagram.com/the_red_wizard.gr/?hl=en --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by his good friend Jimmy Pezzino (@JimmyPezzino) to share why they motivated one another to make an Only Fans.  What's the craziest request they've received so far? What made Jeff finally pull the trigger? How pissed did Jeff get when he saw his pictures leaked? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! If you would like to follow the boys, you can support them below :) https://onlyfans.com/jeffreyjohn https://onlyfans.com/jimmypezzino?rec=98741474 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by Dr. Greg Cason (@DontAskGreg) a psychologist for over 20 years with an expertise in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy.  The boys go through behavioral patterns of gays traveling to Mexico for New Years Eve. Why did men travel for New Years? If they think people know it is wrong why are they still posting about it? Do people partying during a pandemic have a mental illness? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! If you would like to see more of Dr. Greg Cason you can follow him below! Website: www.drgreg.com Youtube: youtube.com/drgreg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dontaskgreg/  Facebook: www.facebook.com/askdrgreg --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by 3 different couples, who met on various dating apps; Tinder, Scruff, & Grindr. First we have Steven and Connor or married couple VIA Tinder. How did Steven handle being Super-liked by Connor? How far into dating someone do you delete dating apps? Should you talk to a few guys at once to keep your options open? My next couple is Tony & Alejandro from Scruff. After a 15 year marriage Tony dove into scruff. How long did it take to find Alejandro? Last but not least our Grindr couple that has been together for 7 years, Samuel & Euan. Is it safe to lead with naked photos when looking for a boyfriend? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! Tinder Couple Steven & Connor https://www.instagram.com/stevenjaws/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/connorbsenning/?hl=en Scruff Couple Tony & Alejandro https://www.instagram.com/tonyjanczak/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/alealejandro23/?hl=en Grindr Couple Samuel & Euan https

Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by 2019 Mr Gay World South Africa, Charl-jaquairdo van Helsdingen (@charlieboy23) to share his experience with testicular cancer. How did he first find out? What are some ways you can check your testicles from home? Does testicular cancer lead to the removal of your testicles and reproductive organs? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! If you want to follow the Charlie from this episode; https://www.instagram.com/charlieboy23/?hl=en For more information on Testicular Cancer; https://www.loveyournuts.org/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) is joined by Instagram friends; Shane (@theshaneh), Chris (@itsgalby) & Christopher (@cjrfitnessforward) to share their experience being HIV+. When did they first find out? What does it mean to be Undetectable = Untransmittable? How has being HIV+ affected their relationships? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! If you want to follow the boys from this episode; Shane: https://www.instagram.com/theshaneh/?hl=en Chris: https://www.instagram.com/itsgalby/ Christopher: https://www.instagram.com/cjrfitnessforward/ If you or anyone is in need of additional resources: https://www.cdc.gov/hiv/default.html If you have had a possible exposure to someone who is HIV+, look into PEP: https://www.hiv.gov/hiv-basics/hiv-prevention/using-hiv-medication-to-reduce-risk/post-exposure-prophylaxis If you are someone looking to lower your chances of contracting HIV: https://www.descovy.com/prep --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/sup

What's The Craziest Thing You've Done For Money? Alex Vangurp (@Alexvangurp) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss "What's The Craziest Thing You've Done For Money?" The boys are joined by 4 guests throughout the episode; Hayden, Matt, Anonymous Chad, and Rhys to share the craziest things they've done for money.  From farts to blow jobs, you'll need a glass of wine for this one. Keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! Give the boys a follow: https://www.instagram.com/mattdmcknight/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/rhys_ridge_evans_93/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/h4yd3nn/?hl=en --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support