Behind The Bum

Tom Ernsting (@TomDeanErnsting) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to see if there is such thing as too big. You can hear all about what they classify as too big. How they feel about the penis pump& enhancement pills. Tom shares advice on how a parent should approach coming out to their child. And most importantly a genuine conversation between 2 men from different generations sharing stories about gay culture. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with them on this episode of Behind the Bum! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Felipe Borras (@FollowFelipe) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss how photography grew in a world driven by social media. You can hear all about how Felipe got started in Photography, Instagram, and made a professional career out of it. Felipe dives into who if favorite influencers to work with are and who he hopes to never see again. What's the weirdest thing these 2 have done for money? Is a threesome in the future for these Jeff, Felipe, & Felipe's Boyfriend Andrew (@followandriy)? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

John Duff (@IAmJohnDuff) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss similar feelings that we all must be feeling during this time. You can hear how Jeff & John are both dealing with sexual deprivation and this quarantine lifestyle. The boys go in depth in what they are doing to occupy their time, things they miss, and a majority of off topic inappropriate questions along the way. Grab your glass of wine and tune into this episode of Behind The Bum!.  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Dr. Jennifer DiLandro (@dolceaestheticsny) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss common aging signs among men. She offers advice  on how to combat the aging process for guys. She is also the Doctor behind Jeff's laser hair removal on his butt. Find out if getting Botox in your hole is a good idea! What typeof cosmetic surgery is considered the gateway drug? If you have ever been interested in learning about potential treatment options based on your age give this a listen. Grab your glass of wine and tune into this episode of Behind The Bum!. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Logan (@Brogan_NYC) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss what they loved and miss most about their lives traveling. What are the essentials you need to bring to a hookup? Have you ever stolen anything from a hookups apartment? What city has the best gay nightlife? Which city has the friendliest LGBTQ community? Would they hookup with their exes? All that and more on this episode with Brogan. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Michael & Zach (@ZakarTwins) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss what their aspirations were before they pursued "Instagram Fame". You can hear all about someones sexual experience with a fruit, how did Zach take having his nudes leaked on LPSG.com, and why is Michael's penis curved lol. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Dr. Evan Goldstein (@drevangoldstein) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss the best bottoming practices for first timers or those who may be looking to better their skills. Dr. Goldstein is the founder of Bespoke surgical (@bespokesurgical), an elite surgical and sexual wellness practice for today's male. Jeff & Dr. Goldstein share advice from positions to douching and what you can do from home to heighten your experience. Whether you're a top or bottom, everyone can learn something from this episode. The last 15 minutes this duo sits down and answers some of your bottoming questions so grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Enrico (@justasoccerboi) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss what life is like in the gay community here in Sydney. You can hear all about Enrico’s first time bottoming, Only Fans, as well as Jeff and Enrico’s awkward encounters during their time together. At 16:52 you can hear about why Enrico started his Only Fans account and at 26:56 you can hear all about his sexual Bread encounter. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Gabi & Shanna (@27travels) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss Gay & Lesbian stereotypes. Are lesbians truly homebody cat lovers? Are gay men truly obsessed with their physical appearance? Listen as we break down each truth and misconception. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Spencer Olson (@Spencer.T.Olson) long lost cousin to the Mary-Kate & Ashley Olsen, joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss the Hetrick-Martin Institute (HMI) and the amazing work behind this institute.  HMI is a New York City-based non-profit organization devoted to serving the needs of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, or questioning youth between the ages of 13 and 24. Halfway through 18:37 this takes an interesting turn where Jeff and Spencer share some personal stories and techniques that may be NSFW! Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Boyfriends Justin & Shae (@justshaemless) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss gay relationships, Fire Island, & play a very intense game of never have I ever. What happened when Shae walked in on Jeff having sex? Wait what?! Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) is greeted by a surprise guest from his past Gabriel Valentin Clinaz (@Gabrielvalentinclinaz). Gabriel had a 5 hour layover in NYC and ran in quick to visit Jeff after not seeing each other in nearly 2 years. They reminisce on what sent Jeff to the hospital on Halloween 2017, what it's like to eat the "shell", and Gabriel tries very hard to get with Jeff. You can listen to all this and more on this episode of Behind The Bum. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) went to Mykonos with his best friends Reed Buggie (@Reedbuggie), Max Rutcofsky (@Maxrut), and Anthony Guerrieri (@Asguerrieri). If you watched their Instagram stories you may have noticed they were kicked out of their hotel, never slept and lets be honest we have a lot of questions! On this episode Reed joins Jeff to discuss why they were kicked out of the hotel and who won't be allowed to rent an ATV ever again. On the second half of this episode Max and Anthony join Jeff to discuss the Catamaran day, Max's firsts from this trip, and a lot of things none of us ever needed to know. Check out this episode of Behind The Bum! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) sits down with School of Rock icon Brian Falduto (@brianfalduto). What was it like filming School of Rock as a closeted kid? How did you grow up to be a fetish queen? Where was the most public place they each have had sex? Find out on this episode of Behind The Bum! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Matt Bellassai (@Mattbellassai) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss gay culture to pop culture. From Queer Eye (sorry Bobby) to Big Little Lies, from vaginas to nugget porn? Wait what?! Nothing is off topic after 2 bottles of rosè. Grab a glass and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Igee Okafor (@Igeeokafor) joins host, Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) as they discuss what it was like growing up in Nigeria and moving to America? How do you explain to your parents that you are gay? Is it easier to come out once you don't live home anymore? Have you ever experienced racism within the LGBTQ community? Was being shipped off the boarding school like living your best Zoey 101 experience?  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Bradley Miller (@TheArtOfBradley) joins host Jeff Perla (@TheTravelinBum) as they discuss gender identity. Throughout the episode and a few bottles of rosè things take a turn to scrotum detailing VIA Instagram. Hear about the first and last time Jeff sent a naked picture, who slid into Bradley's DM's recently *cough cough* TWINS?! Find out on this episode of Behind The Bum. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Jimmy Pezzino (@Jimmypezzino) joins host Jeff Perla (@Thetravelinbum) to discuss life after pride and 4th of July. Jeff and Jimmy share a story about what it was like doing their first photo shoot together which took a turn for the worst. Between Fire Island, Instagram, Modeling, and a little bit about chicken nuggets listen up on this episode of Behind The Bum! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

James Rogers(@jamesroghairs) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) post wig brunch to discuss everything from life to bottom shaming. Have you ever had an accident when bottoming? Has someone's "O" face ever been so awful you never hooked up with them again? Who has bigger .... Oh wait, find out on this episode of Behind The Bum! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

John Halbach (@johnhalbach) and Kit Williamson (@kitwilliamson) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss when you know you met the one! From their first impressions to their most memorable sexual encounter Jeff learns what it takes to make and keep a relationship. Will Eastsider's see a season 5? Who is the biggest stoner out of this group of 3? Who should never take an edible again? Find out on this episode f Behind The Bum! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support