Behind The Bum

Jeff Perla is joined by Elliott Norris (@Elliottnorris) & Alex Van Gurp (@Alexvangurp), sharing their heights and experiences with taller or shorter men. Does height matter? The boys have been in Curacao for one week. Hear about the trip, our peak and pits, and all the drama in between! Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Jeff Perla is joined by Rob Pugliese (@SouthTampaBob) & David Rumsey (@MusgraveMTNMan),2 men over the age of 60 sharing their life experiences in the gay community! What was it like coming out in the 80's? What does "Side mean"? Want to gain some great life advice as to why you shouldn't spend your time "checking a box"? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Jeff Perla is joined by Tiger Redz (@Tiger.Redz), a femme creator sharing their opinions on toxic masculinity! Is there a difference between internalized homophobia and toxic masculinity? What are the traits of a toxic male? How many of them do these 2 have? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Jeff Perla is joined by Pedro (@_________pedro________) to play a game sharing their wild stories abroad! Pedro is studying to be a urologist so the conversations naturally revolved around... well ya know, dicks. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind The Bum!  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Jeff Perla is joined by Christian Berry (@ChristianTBerry) to reminisce on their sugar daddies! What is the worst situation they've put themselves in with a daddy? How did Christian start on Twitter? What is the most awkward sex video to film of yourself? We talked about a lot more than we cared to share on this but hope you enjoy! If you want to follow Christian @ChristianTBerry on Instagram or @Seateabe  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Jeff Perla is joined by Daniel (@NKD_Dan) to laugh about the odd requests they've been receiving? What would you send out for money? What is something that just no amount of money can get? Who sent out their c*m rag for $200? Oh god... Enjoy If you want to follow Dan @NKD_Dan --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Jeff's back with his good friend Josh Oram (@ooshj) to catch you up on everything you missed? Why was the account disabled? What is The Travelin Bum allowed to post? Do you think "meta" is homophobic? There's a lot to unbox here so we hope this insight into Jeff's life the past month helps answer any of your pondering questions.  If you want to follow Josh @ooshj --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Sebastian (@BashDeltas) joins Jeff Perla (@JeffPerlaa) to talk about what it's like going back to the place you grew up for the holidays. What do you do when you see a family member you don't get along with? Is it normal to get anxious going back home. Why is it so common to leave home and move to a big city? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! You can follow Bash here --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

I'm sure you're all sick of our Puerto Rico content by now, yet here is our recap. Come join Elliot (@ElliottNorris), Spencer (@HoddSuspenders), Barry (@BarryBartlett_) and I (@JeffPerlaa) as we share our peak and pit, first impressions of one another, and all the inappropriate juicy questions you guys asked. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! If you're planning a trip to Puerto Rico in the near future. I suggest Coqui Del Mar in San Juan as well as Casa de Amistad in Vieques. Salty Spirit was our tour guide for the duration of the trip who took us to incredible places from the black sand beach to snorkeling. Last but not least, a car is a necessity in Puerto Rico and we went Lesbian owned at Maritza's Car Rental.  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

You guys ask a lot of questions and I can't send lengthy responses so I let Alex VanGurp (@AlexVanGurp) pick out 15 of your questions that I was forced to answer. Not going to give any hints to what these were but I think you'll like it. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Kendrick (@KendrickLeonVal) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss his weight loss journey and self love. Have you noticed a difference in attention from gay men post weight loss journey? Has your "type" changed at all? What aspects of your mental health have grown throughout the process. This episode takes a lot of twist and turns. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! You can follow Kendrick: https://www.instagram.com/kendrickleonval/?hl=en https://www.tiktok.com/@kendrickleonval?lang=en --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Jimmy (@JimmyPezzino) & Jessa (@TheeJessa) join host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss their new douche @discover_DU. How often do you douche? Is it just me or do you view douching as like arghhh I'm a hungry bottom lets fuck...  Here's the Du's and Dunt's on douching. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! If you'd like to try or purchase your own Du - https://www.discoverdu.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Daniel Cusimano (@Daniel_Cusimano) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to discuss his Virginity, Gay Culture, and his time on The Circle. Has Daniel had his first kiss now? Why is he holding on to his virginity for so long? Who was his best friend and not so favorite person from the show?  Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

With September right around the corner, Tony Santilli (@TonyJoeSantilli) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) as they discuss National Suicide Awareness Month. The Boys dive in on their own mental health journeys. Have they ever contemplated suicide? Men who post shirtless selfies non-stop, are they more narcissistic than others? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! For more information you can visit https://tonyssuperherostory.com/ https://www.instagram.com/tonyjoesantilli/?hl=en --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Joey Gentile (@Joey.Gentile) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to talk about Truvada, Descovy, & Pep. What's the difference between Truvada and Descovy? How many people actually take Prep? Do you need insurance to get Prep? Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! I think my most asked question is "How can I get Prep with or without insurance"? You can checkout Mistr here.  --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Corey Rae (@ImCoreyRae) and host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) share their experiences dating around. Are you a serial killer if you go on a weekend date? Do you know what you want in a relationship? Is it ok to compare new and old relationships? This conversation is a great representation of what it's like to be in my head. Aka unedited and all over the place. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! You can follow Corey Here --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Kevin (@Hoosagoodboy) joins host Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) to share his thoughts on sex before marriage. What is it like to be 53 and never have had penetrative sex yet? Would you be scared to take a guys virginity?  Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) Is joined by 3 guests, David, Josh, & Britt who are all men who were once married to women. At what point did they know they were gay? Why go through with a marriage if you knew you were gay? How one wife went through his phone and discovered ... well grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! You can follow the guys below: https://www.instagram.com/davidstory16/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/evans.britt/?hl=en --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) Is joined by 2 guests, Casey & James who are fathers VIA adoption & surrogacy. What's easier adoption or surrogacy? Is it possible to jerk off into a cup and get a female pregnant turkey baster style? Listen as we hear how these men did it. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! You can follow the guys below: https://www.instagram.com/caseyjackson8312/?hl=en https://www.instagram.com/jaxleejamesly/?hl=en --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support

Jeff Perla (@thetravelinbum) Is joined by 3 guests who have unique piercings and tattoos in their genital areas. Would you bottom for a guy who had a pierced dick? Listen as we break down what is safe or not safe. Grab a glass of wine and keep up with us on this episode of Behind the Bum! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/gaysinthewild/support