How To Be A Submissive Wife

A Submissive Wife should take pride in looking after the home. I advise you have a daily cleaning schedule done with jobs for each day. List your daily jobs such as making beds and your weekly jobs such as cleaning bedrooms. Spread the jobs out, so all rooms are cleaned each week. Having a set rota ensures all jobs get done and get split into manageable tasks, so you don't have all the jobs to do at once. For those wives who are not good with time management or suffer from procrastination, your husband can hold you accountable for all jobs getting done each day /week. Being organised and knowing what has to be done each day does make life easier and less stressful 

If you want a husband that will show you respect, you have to be a woman worthy of his respect. You have to Be humble, kind, gentle, modest and always be on your husband's side, even when times get tough. You have to be the wife he knows will always give him an honest opinion. However, do it with respect even if your opinion differs from his viewpoint.  

A Submissive Wife should remember that she should never put friends, family or work in front of her Husband.   Once you are married, you become one, and your husband is your number one priority.   Being married does not mean you cannot spend time with family and friends it means that you put your husband before your family and friends.  If you put your family and friends before your husband, then you are risking doing damage to your marriage.

  A Submissive should always make sure she stays within her budget. Irresponsible spending puts unnecessary pressure on your husband and your relationship. It is your husband's responsibility to manage the family finances and make sure all the bills get paid.   When you do not control your spending you make his job difficult and in some cases impossible and you leave him with no option but to hold you accountable and take a firm stand for your overspending. 

When you disagree, don't hold a grudge.    Life is to short.   When you hold a grudge and stop speaking to your husband, it shows your lack of respect for your husband and his leadership.   Holding a grudge will only cause him to pull away and be distant, and you want the holidays to be full of love and laughter, not arguing and divorce

  Holiday Tip No8 A Submissive Wife should not forget to take time out to pamper her self for Christmas, remember you want to look your best for your husband.  Wear clothing that he likes to see you in. It is essential that you make an effort to look your best, he will appreciate the effort you make.   Just because you are married, it does not mean that you can stop trying to dress to impress him.   Keep the spark between you alive.

Holiday Tip No7 A Submissive Wife should be grateful for anything her husband buys her for  Christmas. How much the gift/s cost is unimportant the real value of a gift is the thought that went into it.   Do not compare your gifts to what others have received, remember they may have a more expensive gift, but they are not lucky enough to be married to your husband

Holiday Tip No6 A Submissive Wife should not be guilty of spending more time and effort looking at her social media feed than she spends working on her marriage. Your husband should be your number one priority not what your friend wore to a party.   Watch a movie together, go for a walk the important thing is to spend quality time together. If your phone is a constant distraction turn it off Facebook will still be there tomorrow.

  A Submissive Wife should not drink to excess; you do not want to embarrass your husband in front of your family and friends over the holidays with drunken behaviour.   Alcohol alters the way we think and react to situations and things people have said to us. Enjoy a glass of wine or two but be aware of your limits and if you are one of those who can not handle alcohol drink soft drinks only.   You don't have to be drunk to have a good time. 

Holiday Tip No4 A Submissive wife should remember that she is the keeper of the house. Do not nag at your husband to help you with the household chores while he is on holiday. Nagging will not encourage him to want to help you, instead be a pleasure to be around flirt with him, make him want to spend time with you because he enjoys your company not because you nag him constantly. Happier husbands are always more willing to help out in the home. However, if he refuses to help accept his choice and do not start arguing, you are the keeper of the home, and he is the provider of the home. Remember your traditional gender roles

Holiday Tip No3 The holidays are a great time for seeing family and friends but remember not to any invitations or invite people without first consulting your husband. Your husband may want to do something different, don't just take it for granted he will want to do what you want. Your husband is HoH, and his word about arrangements is the final word and you should not go moody if he says no.

Holiday Tip No2 No matter how much your husband gets under your feet during the holidays, do not say to him "I will be glad when you are back at work." Look for the positives in him being at home all day and not the negatives. Having a negative attitude towards him is not showing him the respect he deserves as your husband

How to deal with the stress of having your husband home all day over the holidays. It is a sad fact but many marriages do not survive the Christmas holidays, husbands and wives are not used to spend all day with each other, often this is because with the pressure of work and modern life they have forgotten how to communicate with each other. Over the next few days, I am going to give you some recollection and survival tips Holiday Tip No1 Start the day on a positive note with a cuddle, you don't have to rush to work so enjoy a relaxed start to the day. s[pend 10-15 mins just cuddling in bed.

A Submissive Wife should protect her marriage at all times. Don't allow friendships with males to put your marriage at risk. Being unfaithful is not restricted to have sex or kissing another person, if you start deleting messages on your phone so your husband does not see them or if you start having secret phone calls you are already unfaithful to your husband. The safest thing is not to put your self in these situations where unhealthy relationships can develop. Stay true and faithful to the man you married, let no one come between you ever

A Submissive Wife should never make any comment to her family or friends that ridicules her husband even if it is in jest making a remark that makes fun or is unkind is disrespectful, and your husband deserves better from his wife. As his wife, you should be his number one fan

A question I am often asked is can I be a Submissive Wife and have a career as well? The answer is YES, there is nothing to stop you having a fulfilling career and be a Submissive Wife as well. As long as when you are at home you are the submissive wife who is lead by her husband and abides by his decisions even if she is the main source of income for the family. You may be in charge of hundreds of people at work but your husband is head of the house and his word is the final word.

Are you guilty of this? Turning on the tears during a disagreement to try to get your own way A Submissive Wife should not try to use tears & emotional blackmail to make her husband change his mind, do not take advantage of his kindness and soft heart.

A Submissive Wife should always be honest if you have done something wrong admit to it don't try to hide what you have done wrong or deny what you have done. Your husband deserves your honesty and the truth will always come out in the end. If you are not honest then you will derve the consequences of being dishonest. Honesty is always the best policy. No matter how bad the problem is.

A Submissive wife attending social events & Christmas parties on her own should remember to dress like a lady and be careful what she drinks. You do not want to attract the unwanted attention of other men. You don't have to be nearly naked to look good, and you don't have to be drunk to enjoy yourself.

Before refusing your husbands advances remember A Submissive Wife should want to submit freely to her husband. If you feel unwell explain this to your husband don't expect him to be a mind reader When you got married, you became one body and belonged to each other. There is nothing more lonely than a cold marriage bed. The more time you spend being intimate with your husband, the more you will want to be intimate with him the stronger your bond will become.