How To Be A Submissive Wife

A Submissive Wife knows that her husband cannot force her to submit to his will. The only way she will submit to her husband will is if he is worthy of her special gift of submission and he will then inspire her to be a Submissive Wife

A Submissive Wife knows if she has to sneak about or hide something from her Husband then she has no right to be doing what she is doing. Always be open and truthful to your husband. There is nothing that husband and wife should not be able to tell each other.

A Submissive wife knows that submitting to her husband is not going to be easy. There are going to be times when she will have to fight the urge to shout or curse at him. She has to learn to communicate her feelings in a non-aggressive and respectful manner. She knows that raising her voice in a disrespectful voice will not help resolve any disagreement only make it worse. She knows her husband will listen and take more notice of what she says and thinks if she is calm and respectful.

 A Submissive wife knows that when she accepted her husband's request for her hand in marriage, she also recognised that he would be Head of The House and she will be happy to follow his lead. She gladly gives him authority over her body and is proud to submit to her husband. 

A Submissive Wife should remember that marriage is a union of two people Husband & wife. Do not share your intimate secrets with friends your marriage is not a community project that gets discussed and commented on by your friends. Your friends do not need to know when and how you made love or why you and your husband disagree. Show your husband the respect and privacy he deserves. The only person you should discuss your intimate details with is your husband; he is the only one whose opinion that matters 

A Submissive wife should remember if you are feeling tired and you reject your husband's romantic advances his brain is wired differently to yours where sex is concerned, and he will see your rejection differently than you just being tired, he will see it as rejecting him. You might not feel in the mood at first but if you allow your mind to unwind from the day while taking things slowly and think romantic thoughts your body will soon catch up.   So instead of instant rejection start slowly and let nature take its course.

A Submissive Wife should remember to dress modestly when out of the house without her husband; you do not want to send out the wrong signals and attract attention from other men. You can look classy and stylish in modest clothing you do not have to look frumpy,   Dress with class, your smile is what people notice and remember not your chest.

If your marriage is not what it used to be and the flame is dying. Ask yourself does this verse apply to you and your marriage "If you are too lazy to plough then don't expect a harvest." If you don't put effort into your marriage how can you expect it to grow and thrive? Marriage is a life long commitment that needs attention and effort if you don't give it love and care your relationship will wither and die.

As a Submissive Wife, you should always be striving to be the best wife you can be. Help and support him every day and always be the one he knows he can rely on to be in his corner.   If you want the husband of your dreams, you have to be the Wife he always prayed he would marry.

A Submissive Wife should not criticise her husband's choices. It is rude and disrespectful to criticise him if you think he has made a wrong choice look for a respectful way to get your message across and learn to trust his choices and that he has your best interests at heart. If you think his judgement is that wrong asking you to marry him was one of his choices

As a Submissive wife, it is not always going to be easy to submit to your husband. If you are finding it hard to submit to your husband's will and follow his lead remember to pray for help & guidance so that you will be more open to submitting to your husband's will.

As a Submissive Wife in this modern world, you will encounter lots of contempt for your lifestyle choice, don't take any notice of other peoples negative opinions about your lifestyle choice. It is your life, and you have the right to live your life as you wish. You know that living a life where you submit to your husband and follow his lead is what makes you happy and that is all that matters. No one has the right to tell you that you are wrong for what you believe is the right way to live.

Sadly modern society is attacking the authority of the man in the home and family values are suffering because of this, more and more parents are treating their children as though they are best mates.   You and your husband are not their friends you are their parents, the two people your children can rely on and who should be teaching them right from wrong and how to behave. Your children need a Father who leads his house and a mother who supports her husband.  

A Submissive Wife should remember that men and women were not created to be able to do the same things as good as each other. Men are good at providing and building while women are good at caring and homemaking. It does not mean that one is superior to the other. They are both equal in value and were created to compliment each other; there is nothing wrong with traditional gender roles

When your husband comes home from work, let him have time to unwind before you start telling him all about your day and it's problems.  He will want to hear about your day but not the minute he walks through the door. Let him take his shoes off make him a drink and let him unwind a little first.  Save your news for the dinner table.

Sex is not just something you provide for your husband's satisfaction The purpose of sex is to create connection and oneness with each other, so don't take the attitude of lying back and letting him get on with it,  instead grab the opportunity to become one with your husband both physically and mentally.  Sex was given to us for pleasure

Don't bring other people into your bedroom. There should only be you and your husband, do not bring your phone to bed with you. Focus on your husband and not on your social media feed. Your husband is the one that matters, and he will still be there when all the online friends have long gone 

Have you discovered these holidays how distant you and your husband have become?  Have you noticed large cracks appearing in your marriage? Are you ready to give up take the easy option and get divorced or do you want to fight for your marriage because your vows meant something to you? If they did have you considered how being a Submissive wife in a traditional style marriage could bring you and your husband back together as husband and wife. Being a Submissive wife does not mean you are a doormat for your husband to walk all over.   Once you stop fighting over who is in charge and adopt you natural gender roles the tension and friction in your home will subside and be replaced with calmness and love.  As you fight less with each other you will rekindle your love and look forward to spending time together again. Marriage is for life and not just a till you get bored 

The grass is not greener on the other side of the fence it only looks like it. Please do not compare your husbands against other men; they will have different strengths and weaknesses, this does not mean that they are better than him. Your friends may go on about how their husband is good at this and that or buy them things you wish you had. Remember the reasons you feel in love with your husband; no other man has the same qualities he has. He is a complete package good and bad.

When celebrating the New Year tonight, you should remember Once you are married you and your husband become one, and nothing or no one should be allowed to come between you in deed or thought.   The only man you should have any sexual thoughts about is your husband, do not commit adultery in mind or body.   The only man you should be kissing or wanting to kiss tonight is YOUR HUSBAND