How To Be A Submissive Wife

A Submissive Wife should remember it is only natural and healthy for your relationship to have disagreements in a marriage. What is important is how you conduct yourself in these disagreements, you can disagree with your husband without being disrespectful and hurtful. Do not say things that are designed to hurt your husband's feelings. You love your husband and "Love Is Kind."

A Submissive Wife should never forget the importance of fun and laughter in her marriage. Make time to watch a funny movie together, share jokes with your husband, make each other laugh, the more you laugh together, the more your brains associate fun and happiness when you are together, making your bond even stronger. Your home should be a place of fun not war

A Submissive Wife should never question her Husbands authority in front of the children. Children need to see that husband and wife treat each other with respect and that the husband is the Head Of The House and his word is the final word.

Stop trying to change your husband he is who he is. If you were able to change your husband, he would no longer be the man you fell in love with. Is that what you would want to happen.

React in a positive way to what your husband has said How many arguments have started because you reacted in a negative way to something your husband said or did? If you are unable to answer your husband respectfully and positively, then keep your opinion to yourself. Always try to look for the positive in every situation, he is your husband, not your enemy. Would you like it if your husband reacted negatively towards you all the time? He will see negative remarks as a challenge to his authority in the home.

A Submissive Wife should remember there will be times when she will desire to control her husband. Having these thoughts is a normal part of married life, but you have to fight them, you may see your husband making decisions you would make differently but you have to hold back that urge to take control. Remember that you gave him authority over you the day you married him and that you trust that he will always have your best interests at heart. In a traditional gender role marriage "Your Husband Will Rule Over You"

Learn to listen and let your husband speak without interruption from you Are you guilty of the following: Interrupting your husband when he speaks Finishing his sentences for him Talking over him because you feel what you have to say is more important Looking around instead of at him while he speaks Checking your phone while he speaks Stat talking to another person It is only good manners to stop what you are doing and give your husband your full attention when he speaks. Anything less is disrespectful, and you deserve your husband to hold you accountable for being disrespectful to him. Remember you have two ears and one mouth for a reason

A Submissive Wife should manage her home well, it takes a great deal of skill, and hard work to do it properly, being a Submissive wife is a full-time job 24 hours a day seven days a week with no holidays. As a wife, you have many roles to fill Childminder, Nurse, Cleaner, Cook, Teacher etc. Hopefully, your learning on how to be a good wife will of started when you were a child it is the mother's place to teach her daughters the skills she will need later in life. Unfortunately, modern life is changing how the families live, and many mothers do not have the time or even want to teach their daughters the skills either because they have to work full-time jobs then come home and start again or that they have modern views on marriage. There is now lots of pressure on young women not to be "Submissive" in the home; women get told that she should be in charge as well. The sad fact is that it has never been harder than it is now for a young woman to get married and live a traditional lifestyle where she is the

A Submissive Wife should not worry about ageing, just because your skin ages, your hair greys and you gain a little weight does not mean that you are no longer desirable to your husband. You are still the same beautiful, radiant woman inside and out; you still have what it takes for your husband. Your husband has aged the same as you; you are growing old together your love for each other will become stronger each day. Your sex life will change with time, things may be slower but this does not mean your husband does not want you, with age comes "experience" you have both learnt over the years how to please each other. The knee trembler in the kitchen will still happen, not at the same frantic pace but the love you feel will be way more intense than it was Any husband worthy of a Submissive Wife would never think of leaving his wife because she has aged, a worthy husband only sees the beauty in his wife. So stop worrying about ageing and enjoy growing old together

A Submissive Wife should be an active partner in the marriage bed; it is not enough to lie there think about your day or the things you have to do. You need to mentally and physically engage with your husband. If you are not careful sex can become tedious for both you and your husband over time. Don't allow sex to become a set routine, vary when and how you make love. Flirt with your husband, make your husband feel wanted. The more effort you put into your sex life, the stronger the bond with your husband will become. Sex is not just for reproduction it is a gift for married couples to enjoy. If you think sex for pleasure is dirty, wrong or sinful then why were you given a clitoris it's purpose is to provide you with pleasure, nothing that happens is a marriage bed that gives pleasure and does not harm or hurt is wrong.

Party season is here a Submissive Wife should remember that she is a married lady and act accordingly. Be careful about the amount of alcohol you drink it is easy to get carried away on large glasses of wine. You don't want to embarrass your husband by getting drunk. Drunken behaviour never looks good and often gets you into situations that leave you vulnerable to other men's advances or saying and doing things that you will regret tomorrow or even far longer. A submissive wife should dress like a lady with class and only wear clothing that your husband approves. Remember you are dressing for his pleasure and attention not to attract other men. Remember the three S's this party season Sober, Safe & Sin Free Parties are about enjoying the company of the people there, they are not a competition to see how much alcohol you can drink,

A Submissive Wife should remember before making any social arrangements it is respectful to ask her husband if he has any plans for then and also if he would like to go. It's not a matter of having to ask permission to go out it is about showing respect for your husband's role as head of the house. If your husband does say no, then you should respect his decision and not go and not argue about it. You can, of course, ask your husband why he has said no and give your opinion but you should accept that his word is the final word. Your Husband is the Head of the house

A Submissive Wife should refrain from gossiping about her friends and neighbours. If you don't have something positive to say about them, don't say anything. You don't want to embarrass your husband by having the reputation of being the local gossip. A Submissive wife should be meek and humble at all times.

A useful tip I recommend to use when you hit a through a rough patch in your marriage is to write down the reasons you love your husband, make a list of all the positives about him from bigs things to the little things that mean so much to you. Also, write down why you chose to submit to your husband. Then the next time you hit a rough patch sit down with a coffee and read the list to remind yourself why you are so lucky. There are always going to be rough patches in any marriage what matters is how you work through them together.

Submission to your Husband means "Choosing to yield to your Husbands will." It does not mean that you have no say in your marriage; you are an active participant in the union. Your opinions are just as important as his, but you have given him the final say, and you are trusting him to make the right decisions.

A Submissive Wife should remember that what goes on in a marriage is between husband and wife. Marriage is not a community project that is up for open discussion on social media or with friends. Do not share details of your romantic night or arguments. What goes on in the marital bed should stay between husband and wife. Your husband doesn't want to hear that your friends know his likes and dislikes in the bedroom.

As a mother, it is essential that you teach your children the importance of families spending quality time together each day, talking and sharing things about their day. The ideal time to do this is when you are all sitting around the table for the evening meal. Ban all phones and tablets from the table, have a family rule that all phones are placed in a box in another room while you have your family meal. Children need to learn how to communicate in a family environment and also experience what it is like to be part of a loving, caring family. Modern families are losing these precious times help keep these traditional family values alive.

A Submissive Wife should not be having conversations she would not want her husband to be part of or to hear. Never text anything or say anything that you would not share with your husband. If you feel you have to say something negative about your husband or hide things from your husband, then you need to work on your relationship, devote the time to your marriage and not building a wall between you and your husband.

A Submissive Wife knows that is her place to serve her husband she should not exercise authority over him but learn from him quietly. Do you have a habit of trying to tell your husband to do this then do that and only end up irritating him? It is not your place to give him orders; you gave him the authority over you when you became his Submissive Wife. If a job needs doing bring it to your husband's attention, don't tell him to do it Stop challenging his authority

A Submissive Wife should always make intimacy a priority in her marriage. Do not let the lack of intimacy force a wedge between you. Make time for your husband; schedule regular date nights be an active partner in the marriage bed. The more effort you put into pleasing your husband, the more pleasure you will receive, sex is a two-way street. The more intimate time you share, the stronger your bond will be.