How To Be A Submissive Wife

A Submissive Wife should always be honest if you have done something wrong admit to it don't try to hide what you have done wrong or deny what you have done. Your husband deserves your honesty, and the truth will always come out in the end. If you are not honest, then you will deserve the consequences of being dishonest. Honesty is always the best policy. No matter how bad the problem is.

A Submissive wife attending social events & Christmas parties on her own should remember to dress like a lady and be careful what she drinks. You do not want to attract the unwanted attention of other men. You don't have to be nearly naked to look good, and you don't have to be drunk to enjoy yourself.

Before refusing your husbands advances remember A Submissive Wife should want to submit freely to her husband. If you feel unwell explain this to your husband, don't expect him to be a mind reader When you got married, you became one body and belonged to each other. There is nothing more lonely than a cold marriage bed. The more time you spend being intimate with your husband, the more you will want to be intimate with him the stronger your bond will become.

A Submissive Wife should remember it is only natural and healthy for your relationship to have disagreements in a marriage. What is important is how you conduct yourself in these disagreements, you can disagree with your husband without being disrespectful and hurtful. Do not say things that are designed to hurt your husband's feelings.

A Submissive Wife should never forget the importance of fun and laughter in her marriage. Make time to watch a funny movie together, share jokes with your husband, make each other laugh, the more you laugh together, the more your brains associate fun and happiness when you are together, making your bond even stronger. Your home should be a place of fun not war

React in a positive way to what your husband has said How many arguments have started because you reacted in a negative way to something your husband said or did? If you are unable to answer your husband respectfully and positively, then keep your opinion to yourself. Always try to look for the positive in every situation, he is your husband, not your enemy. Would you like it if your husband reacted negatively towards you all the time? He will see negative remarks as a challenge to his authority in the home.

Think about what your husband has said instead of reacting hastily.  How often do you react to what your husband has said without thinking about it first?

A Submissive Wife should remember there will be times when she will desire to control her husband. Having these thoughts is a normal part of married life, but you have to fight them, you may see your husband making decisions you would make differently but you have to hold back that urge to take control. Remember that you gave him authority over you the day you married him and that you trust that he will always have your best interests at heart. In a traditional gender role marriage "Your Husband Will Rule Over You"

Learn to listen and let your husband speak without interruption from you Are you guilty of the following: Interrupting your husband when he speaks Finishing his sentences for him Talking over him because you feel what you have to say is more important Looking around instead of at him while he speaks Checking your phone while he speaks Stat talking to another person It is only good manners to stop what you are doing and give your husband your full attention when he speaks. Anything less is disrespectful, and you deserve your husband to hold you accountable for being disrespectful to him. Remember you have two ears and one mouth for a reason

A Submissive Wife should manage her home well, it takes a great deal of skill, and hard work to do it properly, being a Submissive wife is a full-time job 24 hours a day seven days a week with no holidays.

A Submissive Wife should remember when her husband says something she does not like that a harsh answer will stir up anger, but a soft, gentle response will discourage his wrath.

A Submissive Wife should be an active partner in the marriage bed; it is not enough to lie there and think about your day or the things you have to do. You need to mentally and physically engage with your husband. If you are not careful sex can become tedious for both you and your husband over time. Don't allow sex to become a set routine, vary when and how you make love. Flirt with your husband, make your husband feel wanted. The more effort you put into your sex life, the stronger the bond with your husband will become. Sex is not just for reproduction it is a gift for married couples to enjoy. If you think sex for pleasure is dirty, wrong or sinful then why were you given a clitoris it's purpose is to provide you with pleasure, nothing that happens is a marriage bed that gives pleasure and does not harm or hurt is wrong.

A Submissive Wife should remember before making any social arrangements it is respectful to ask her husband if he has any plans for then and also if he would like to go. It's not a matter of having to ask permission to go out it is about showing respect for your husband's role as head of the house. If your husband does say no, then you should respect his decision and not go and not argue about it. You can, of course, ask your husband why he has said no and give your opinion but you should accept that his word is the final word. Your Husband is the Head of the house

A Submissive Wife should refrain from gossiping about her friends and neighbours. If you don't have something positive to say about them, don't say anything. You don't want to embarrass your husband by having the reputation of being the local gossip. A Submissive wife should be meek and humble at all times.

A useful tip I recommend to use when you hit a through a rough patch in your marriage is to write down the reasons you love your husband, make a list of all the positives about him from bigs things to the little things that mean so much to you. Also, write down why you chose to submit to your husband. Then the next time you hit a rough patch sit down with a coffee and read the list to remind yourself why you are so lucky. There are always going to be rough patches in any marriage what matters is how you work through them together.

Submission to your Husband means "Choosing to yield to your Husbands will." It does not mean that you have no say in your marriage; you are an active participant in the union. Your opinions are just as important as his, but you have given him the final say, and you are trusting him to make the right decisions.

A Submissive Wife should remember that what goes on in a marriage is between husband and wife. Marriage is not a community project that is up for open discussion on social media or with friends. Do not share details of your romantic night or arguments. What goes on in the marital bed should stay between husband and wife. Your husband doesn't want to hear that your friends know his likes and dislikes in the bedroom.

As a mother, you must teach your children the importance of families spending quality time together each day, talking and sharing things about their day. The ideal time to do this is when you are all sitting around the table for the evening meal. Ban all phones and tablets from the table, have a family rule that all phones are placed in a box in another room while you have your family meal. Children need to learn how to communicate in a family environment and also experience what it is like to be part of a loving, caring family. Modern families are losing these precious times to help keep these traditional family values alive.

A Submissive Wife should not be having conversations; she would not want her husband to be part of or to hear. Never text anything or say anything that you would not share with your husband. If you feel you have to say something negative about your husband or hide things from your husband, then you need to work on your relationship, devote the time to your marriage and not to build a wall between you and your husband.

A Submissive Wife knows that is her place to serve her husband she should not exercise authority over him but learn from him quietly. Do you have a habit of trying to tell your husband to do this then do that and only end up irritating him? It is not your place to give him orders; you gave him the authority over you when you became his Submissive Wife. If a job needs doing bring it to your husband's attention, don't tell him to do it Stop challenging his authority