How To Be A Submissive Wife

As a Submissive wife, it is not always going to be easy to submit to your husband. If you are finding it hard to submit to your husband's will and follow his lead remember to pray for help & guidance to be more open to submitting to your husband's will.

As a Submissive Wife in this modern world, you will encounter lots of contempt for your lifestyle choice, don't take any notice of other peoples negative opinions about your lifestyle choice. It is your life, and you have the right to live your life as you wish. You know that living a life where you submit to your husband and follow his lead is what makes you happy and that is all that matters. No one has the right to tell you that you are wrong for what you believe is the right way to live.

Sadly modern society is attacking the authority of the man in the home and family values are suffering because of this, more and more parents are treating their children as though they are best mates. You and your husband are not their friends you are their parents, the two people your children can rely on and who should be teaching them right from wrong and how to behave. Your children need a Father who leads his house and a mother who supports her husband.

A Submissive Wife should remember that men and women were not created to be able to do the same things as good as each other. Men are good at providing and building while women are good at caring and homemaking. It does not mean that one is superior to the other. They are both equal in value and were created to complement each other; there is nothing wrong with traditional gender roles.

When your husband comes home from work, let him have time to unwind before you start telling him all about your day and it's problems. He will want to hear about your day but not the minute he walks through the door. Let him take his shoes off make him a drink and let him unwind a little first. Save your news for the dinner table.

Sex is not just something you provide for your husband's satisfaction The purpose of sex is to create connection and oneness with each other, so don't take the attitude of lying back and letting him get on with it, instead grab the opportunity to become one with your husband both physically and mentally. Sex was given to us for pleasure

The grass is not greener on the other side of the fence it only looks like it. Please do not compare your husbands against other men; they will have different strengths and weaknesses, this does not mean that they are better than him. Your friends may go on about how their husband is good at this and that or buy them things you wish you had. Remember the reasons you feel in love with your husband; no other man has the same qualities he has. He is a complete package good and bad.

Be careful with the words you use in anger. Once they have been said they can only be forgiven, not forgotten. How many times have you said something in anger that you still regret today? An uncontrolled tongue can lead to a life of regret

When celebrating the New Year tonight, you should remember Once you are married you and your husband become one, and nothing or no one should be allowed to come between you in deed or thought. The only man you should have any sexual thoughts about is your husband, do not commit adultery in mind or body. The only man you should be kissing or wanting to kiss tonight is YOUR HUSBAND

A Submissive Wife should take great pride in looking after the home. I advise you to have a daily cleaning schedule done with jobs for each day. List your daily jobs such as making beds and your weekly jobs such as cleaning bedrooms. Spread the jobs out, so all rooms are cleaned each week. Having a set rota ensures all jobs get done and get split into manageable tasks, so you don't have all the jobs to do at once. For those wives who are not good with time management or suffer from procrastination, your husband can hold you accountable for all jobs getting done each day /week. Being organised and knowing what has to be done each day does make life easier and less stressful

If you want a husband that will show you respect, you have to be a wife worthy of his respect. You have to Be humble, kind, gentle, modest and always be on your husband's side, even when times get tough. You have to be the wife he knows will always give him an honest opinion. However, do it with respect even if your opinion differs from his viewpoint.

A Submissive Wife should never put friends, family or work in front of her Husband. Once you are married, you become one, and your husband is your number one priority. Being married does not mean you cannot spend time with family and friends it means that you put your husband before your family and friends. If you put your family and friends before your husband, then you are risking doing damage to your marriage.

A Submissive should always make sure she stays within her budget. Irresponsible spending puts unnecessary pressure on your husband and your relationship. It is your husband's responsibility to manage the family finances and make sure all the bills get paid. When you do not control your spending you make his job difficult and in some cases impossible and you leave him with no option but to hold you accountable and take a firm stand for your overspending.

A Submissive Wife should not drink to excess; you do not want to embarrass your husband in front of your family and friends over the holidays with drunken behaviour. Alcohol alters the way we think and react to situations and things people have said to us. Enjoy a glass of wine or two but be aware of your limits and if you are one of those who can not handle alcohol drink soft drinks only. You don't have to be drunk to have a good time.

No matter how much your husband gets under your feet during the holidays, do not say to him "I will be glad when you are back at work." Look for the positives in him being at home all day and not the negatives. Having a negative attitude towards him is not showing him the respect he deserves as your husband

A Submissive Wife should not be guilty of spending more time and effort looking at her social media feed than she spends working on her marriage. Your husband should be your number one priority not what your friend wore to a party. Watch a movie together, go for a walk the important thing is to spend quality time together. If your phone is a constant distraction turn it off Facebook will still be there tomorrow.

A Submissive Wife should protect her marriage at all times. Don't allow friendships with males to put your marriage at risk. Being unfaithful is not restricted to have sex or kissing another person, if you start deleting messages on your phone so your husband does not see them or if you start having secret phone calls you are already unfaithful to your husband. The safest thing is not to put your self in these situations where unhealthy relationships can develop. Stay true and faithful to the man you married, let no one come between you ever

A Submissive Wife should never make any comment to her family or friends that ridicules her husband even if it is in jest making a remark that makes fun or is unkind is disrespectful, and your husband deserves better from his wife. As his wife, you should be his number one fan

Are you guilty of this? Turning on the tears during a disagreement to try to get your own way A Submissive Wife should not try to use tears & emotional blackmail to make her husband change his mind, do not take advantage of his kindness and a soft heart.  Turning on the tears during a disagreement to try to get your own way A Submissive Wife should not try to use tears & emotional blackmail to make her husband change his mind, do not take advantage of his kindness and soft heart

A Submissive Wife should make sure that she makes a conscious effort every day to make time for her husband. Your husband needs your affection and he needs your time. The gift of time is precious because once you give it to him you can never get it back and it will mean so much to him. As a married couple, you should Love one another and never stop letting your husband know that you love him.