How To Be A Submissive Wife

A Submissive Wife should always make intimacy a priority in her marriage. Do not let the lack of intimacy force a wedge between you. Make time for your husband; schedule regular date nights be an active partner in the marriage bed. The more effort you put into pleasing your husband, the more pleasure you will receive, sex is a two-way street. The more intimate time you share, the stronger your bond will be.

A Submissive Wife Chooses freely to place herself under her husband's authority. Her husband knows that her gift of submission is very precious and only given to the man she loves and trusts. She is safe in the knowledge that he loves and respects her just as much and that he would never do anything that would damage that special precious gift of submission. He will be her rock to lean on and fair when he needs to be firm with her.

A Submissive Wife should not feel ashamed to tell her friends and family that she is happy to stay at home to take care of her husband, home and their children.

One way a Submissive wife can show respect to her husband is to seek his approval before she arranges any social events. Even if this is unnecessary it will show him you value his support and put his wishes before that of your friends. Should your husband not approve of a social event then respect his wishes and trust he will have a valid reason for not wanting you to go. Don't put friends before your husband You are married, so it is now MR before Sister!

Be happy with the home & fittings that they have worked for together and not always be asking for more. Like having to have this season's new soft furnishings, for example, it won't matter next season that you had last seasons furnishings. Don't waste time "wishing you had this and that" Never being satisfied will only make you and your husband unhappy, instead be happy and proud with what you have, the important thing is you did this together, whether you are a stay at home wife or career wife you are still a team, a team that built your home together.

A Submissive Wife should remember that using sex as a weapon to anger or hurt your husband is wrong. Do not deny your husband your body because you are angry with him or because you want something he has said you couldn't afford. When you get married you became one body, you give your body to him. What's yours is his and what's his, is yours. Sex is a gift to bring you closer together and make your bond stronger not to use as a weapon to cause hurt and push you apart.

A Submissive Wife should be proud to dress like a woman. Take pride in your appearance, dress in the clothing and colours you know your husband likes to see. You should be dressing for his approval and pleasure, not for the admiration of others. Enjoy being a woman, be proud to dress like a woman and do it with class and style that makes your husband proud to be seen out with you.

A Submissive Wife should only have eyes for her husband. Don't start comparing your husband to movie stars, work colleges or your friend's husbands. When you start comparing him, you are making him sound inadequate, and he will feel as though he is not good enough for you. He will think you wish you had married someone else. Comparing him to others is disrespectful and not worthy of his love .Remember your husband is the man you fell in love with; no one else could capture your heart as he did

A Submissive Wife should not let petty arguments turn into battles that steal your happiness. Instead, see them as a chance to work on your communication skills, the better you are at communicating your feelings without showing anger, the more your husband will understand your point of view the happier your marriage will be.

A Submissive Wife should remember that her husband cannot take control of his home if his wife will not take a step back and stop trying to make the decisions. You have to show your husband that you trust him and allow him to become the Head Of The House

A Submissive Wife should remember that your submission should always be your choice. Your submission is a precious gift, one that should be treasured by your husband. Being submissive does not mean your husband has the right to abuse you or your children physically or mentally, Your husband has to be faithful, and he has to be worthy of your precious gift of submission. A Submissive Wife is a strong woman and not a punch bag or doormat.

A Submissive Wife should be careful of the friends that she keeps. If your friends do not show respect to your husband or your way of life, then you need to find new friends. A true friend will respect your views even if they don't agree with them.

A Submissive wife should remember the "D" word has no place in her relationship. Your marriage has to be worked at; there will be difficult times, your relationship would not be healthy if you did not disagree from time to time. Work through your problems. When you get married, you become one body. Divorce is not an option.

A Submissive Wife should get rid of all distractions in the bedroom; you don't need to check your text messages or Facebook feed while connecting with your husband. Don't allow pings from your phone to distract you and your husband from becoming one. Enjoy the moment together

A Submissive Wife should try to remember when her husband is talking it is more respectful to listen and concentrate to what he is saying, rather than concentrating on your response to the little bits of conversation you have actually listened to. The more you listen, the more you will understand what your husband means.

A Submissive Wife should have no secrets. A Wife should share everything she does with her husband and keep nothing from him. The passcode to her phone should not be a secret A Wife should have nothing on her phone that she would not want her husband to see. If you keep secrets from your husband, you are encouraging him to become suspicious of your actions, and that can lead to a break down in your marriage.

If you are struggling with sexual intimacy with your husband, you should not keep this to yourself. You need to talk to your husband about your concerns; it is not enough to be one in the body you have to be one in mind as well. Sex inside the marriage bed is to enjoy, and it is not dirty or wrong and was intended to be enjoyed by both Husband and Wife

A Submissive Wife should remember that just because she has chosen to submit to her husband's authority, it does not give him the right to be physically or mentally abusive towards her. Husbands are told they have authority over the wife, but they are also told to love their wives and not be harsh with them.

It will soon be the Christmas; it is a wife's duty to plan and budget for Christmas so she can give her family the best Christmas she can with the money her husband gives her for the household budget. With planning and careful shopping, it is surprising how much you can save so you can buy the luxury's your family love at Christmas.

A Submissive Wife should show her gratitude to her husband for taking charge of his wife and home. She can do this in several ways, work hard and diligently to keep their home clean and tidy, cooked good wholesome home-cooked meals. A Submissive Wife should also remember it is her duty, and it should be her pleasure to take care of all his physical and emotional needs as a man.