How To Be A Submissive Wife

A Submissive Wife knows that marriage is not 50-50. Marriage has to be 100-100 you have to give marriage your all for it to last When you get divorced, you split everything 50-50 Marriage has to be 100-100 you have to give marriage your all for it to last When you get divorced, you split everything 50-50

A Submissive wife knows that if she wants her husband to lead her, she has to get out of his way and let him lead. You have to learn to take a step back and trust your husband's judgement. Today's society tells men repeatedly that they are not leaders they are taught modern women no longer want a man to take charge of the home. Today's modern woman wants to be in charge of her own life; marriage vows no longer contain the word honour and obey.   Men have forgotten how to be men in the home. They don't realise that their wives' unhappiness and dependence on anti-depressants are because women are not happy with their modern lives.   They don't know that you want them to take charge and be a traditional man who leads and protects. Every time you question his judgement, you knock him back down because modern man no longer has any confidence. Take a step back, and learn to trust his judgement, encourage him to grow as a man so you can become a woman again.   

A submissive wife knows that she should learn to control her tongue when annoyed with her husband.   It is easy to get carried away in the heat of the moment when you are angry and find yourself saying cruel and hurtful things and that you don't mean. Instead of getting into a heated argument with your husband, take a step back and wait until you are not angry and calmly discuss your point of view.   Once you have said hurtful things you can apologise but you can never take them back.  They will always remain said, and the hurt that they caused will always be there.  People often ask why they should back down first, don't think of it like that, and instead look at it as taking control of the argument and stopping it from escalating further. It will take a lot of self-control to learn to control your tongue, but it will save a lot of future pain.  

A Submissive Wife should be proud to dress like a woman.  Take pride in your appearance, dress in the clothing and colours you know your husband likes to see wearing.  You should be dressing for his approval and pleasure, not for the admiration of others. When not with your husband, make sure you dress in a manner that will not attract other men's attention toy don't want them to think that you are available.  If you have to be careful how you bend or sit, ask yourself is this clothing is appropriate should I be wearing it when I am out without my husband. Enjoy being feminine, be proud to dress like a woman but do it with class and style that makes your husband proud to be seen out with you. You don't have to be half-naked to look good. 

As a submissive wife, you should never hide the pride you feel when telling people that he is your husband and that you enjoy taking care of him and your home. Don't feel embarrassed admitting you live a traditional way of life. Let them know how fulfilling your life is raising your children and tending to the home while he is at work. Being a fulltime housewife should not be thought of as demeaning, you and your husband each have important roles to play and are equally as important. Don't allow people to convince you that you will be happier, allowing others to raise your children while you go chasing extra income. Material things do not replace the magic moments and memories of raising your children.

A Submissive Wife should not forget the importance of sex in her marriage. Don't allow a busy life to stop you from having romantic evenings with your husband. Remember the time and effort you spent get ting ready for a date with him before you were married. Can you remember when you last went to that much effort to look your best for him? A marriage without intimacy will wither and not grow; intimacy is a vital part of married life.

If you want your marriage to last, remember this tip. Never make your husband feel alone, especially when you are with him. When you are alone with him, make sure that he is the focus of your attention, your social media feed will still be there tomorrow. It is rude and disrespectful to continue looking at your phone while talking to him, and it will make him feel that you value the content on your phone more than you appreciate what he has to say. Take your eyes off your screen and look at him when you are talking to him. Make sure he knows you are always there for him.

When you choose to become a Submissive Wife and agree to follow your husbands lead, you are also giving him authority over your body. Sex is a gift for married couples to enjoy; it is not a weapon to use against your husband. If your husband has been unfair or upset, you talk to him discuss the problem. If you use sex as a weapon to get your way, then you risk pushing him away for good. Sex should bring us together, not divide us.

Marriage should last forever; it is not just a chapter in your life; it should be a whole new book. This book should be full of how you and your husband enjoyed the good times and worked through the bad times when you die. Don't start thinking about divorce because you have grown bored with each other and the passion has died, don't look for the excitement outside of the marriage bed, instead work on rekindling your love, remember why you fell in love with your husband. Don't let another separate you.

Being a Submissive Wife is not about being powerless and doing as your husband wishes because you do not have the strength to stand up for yourself. Submission is making a conscious decision to submit to your husband because you know he loves you, and you trust him to be a man worthy of your gift of submission. He is a man who will always have your best interests at heart and put your needs before his own. He is a man who will provide for you, protect you, correct you when necessary and a man who will guide you spiritually.

Remember that going to bed together is one of the crucial parts of the day. Many couples do not go to bed together. Often one will watch TV or catch up on work instead.   You find that if couples don't go to bed together, they tend not to spend lots of time together, then they start losing connection, leading to unhappiness, loneliness and divorce. Make an effort to go to bed together, discuss your day have a cuddle spend the last moments of the day together.

Financial pressures of modern life now mean that many wives have to work, which means that many husbands and wives have to share household duties. In some cases, the wife is the primary income earner while the husband stays at home to tend to the house and children. What should not alter is your husband's position of authority and spiritual leader in the home.

A Submissive wife knows that having a bad attitude when trying to get her point of view across during a disagreement will not help and will only make the situation worse. It is better to talk to him calmly, and with respect your husband deserves.

A Submissive Wife knows if she has to sneak about or hide something from her Husband then she has no right to be doing what she is doing. Always be open and truthful to your husband. There is nothing that husband and wife should not be able to tell each other.

A Submissive Wife should remember that marriage is a union of two people Husband & wife. Do not share your intimate secrets with friends your marriage is not a community project that gets discussed and commented on by your friends. Your friends do not need to know when and how you made love or why you and your husband disagree. Show your husband the respect and privacy he deserves. The only person you should discuss your intimate details with is your husband; he is the only one whose opinion that matters.

A Submissive Wife should remember to dress modestly when out of the house without her husband; you do not want to send out the wrong signals and attract attention from other men. You can look classy and stylish in modest clothing you do not have to look frumpy,  Dress with class, your smile is what people notice and remember not your chest.

If your marriage is not what it used to be and the flame is dying. Ask yourself does this verse apply to you and your marriage "If you are too lazy to plough then don't expect a harvest." If you don't put effort into your marriage how can you expect it to grow and thrive? Marriage is a life long commitment that needs attention and effort if you don't give it love and care your relationship will wither and die.

As a Submissive Wife, you should always be striving to be the best wife you can be. Help and support him every day and always be the one he knows he can rely on to be in his corner. If you want the husband of your dreams, you have to be the Wife he always prayed he would marry.

As a Submissive Wife, you have to remember it is not just your tongue you have to learn to control. You also have to learn to manage the look you give him and to stop rolling your eyes. Yes, ladies, he does notice you disrespectfully rolling your eyes. Often your look can say more than any words coming from your tongue. Learning control is going to take some work at first, but it will pay dividends

A Submissive Wife should not criticise her husband's choices. It is rude and disrespectful to criticise him if you think he has made a wrong choice look for a respectful way to get your message across and learn to trust his choices and that he has your best interests at heart. If you think his judgement is that wrong remember that asking you