How To Be A Submissive Wife

Don’t use sex as a tool to get what you want. Don’t deny your husband sex in the hope he will change his mind if he has said we can not afford to buy you that new pair of shoes this month. Accept his word with good grace

Only have eyes for your husband. Don’t compare your husband with other men. Your husband is unique, he will not be perfect but neither are you and he is the one who you chose to marry. Comparing him is disrespectful and will breed discontent and unhappiness in your marriage.

Don’t wait until the end of the day when you are tired to share an intimate moment; sex will be much more rewarding when you are both full of energy. When was the last time you had morning sex after breakfast in the kitchen?

A wife who guards her tongue Keeps her soul from trouble There is a good reason we are given two ears, two eyes and only one mouth. Listen and observe before making any hasty comments. Once words have been spoken you can not take them back, what has been said has been said.

A successful marriage is based on these principles Man loves, protects and cherishes his wife Woman submits to a worthy husband

A man cannot make a woman submit to him. Submission can only be given, no one can take it. It is a precious gift that shouldn't be abused

A Submissive wife should remember that her husband cannot be the leader until she steps back and stops trying to make the decisions

When you are talking to your husband, put your phone down. When you keep your phone in your hand, you are talking to your husband he will subconsciously feel that he is not the most important person in your life right now. He will feel you are talking to him till someone more important calls or texts; then you will give them your attention and not your husband.

A Submissive wife should remember just because you are married does not mean you should stop flirting with your husband.

The early days of marriage is exciting, but life gets in the way after the honeymoon period ends. And while you may have the most beautiful marriage, even the most devoted couple is sure to find the married lifestyle to be at times, well, let’s say, less than exciting.

As A Submissive Wife You should be your  HUSBANDS SAFE PLACE The one person who is always on his side and that he can depend on when times get tough. You should be his comfort, his best friend and his lover.

Remember, men are visual. Always try to look your best for him. A wedding ring on your finger does not mean you don’t have to try anymore to look good. Eat a healthy diet and exercise regularly to help maintain your health and looks.

Take time out of your busy day to connect with your husband while he is at work. Don't phone him with problems or expect lengthy conversations that will stop him working but a quick message to let him know this you are thinking of him and how you can't wait to be in his arms tonight

Tonight try doing something unimaginable!. Switch off your TV, put down your phone and tablet; everything on your social media feed will still be there tomorrow. Disconnect from the outside world entirely and spend the evening connecting with your husband and family.   Play a board game, do a jigsaw, anything that does not involve looking at a screen and talk to each other.   Spend quality time together forget the outside world for one night.

When was the last time you told your husband that you loved him or how lucky you feel being his wife?  A Submissive Wife should remember to start and end each day by telling her husband how much she loves him and how blessed she feels to be his wife.  Don't take it for granted that he knows how you feel, and it takes less than a minute to tell him you love him and appreciate everything he does for you.

A Submissive Wife is happy to have rules and boundaries in her life. These boundaries make her feel safe and secure, and she can enjoy being a woman safe in the knowledge that her husband will look after her She trusts her husband to cherish her unique gift of submission and not abuse his position as HoH.

Make sure you spend time with your husband. You must do lots of fun things together and not just the tedious daily chores because if you start neglecting to spend fun time with him, and go out with friends, on your own instead of as a couple, he will get used to you not being around and your marriage will suffer. Remember you married him because you wanted to spend the rest of our life together, you became one body when you married.

Choosing to submit to your husband does not mean you are a weak person. By choosing to submit to your husband, you tell him that you are a strong person who will do what it takes to live the life you want. You know that the traditional gender role way of life is the life for you. Your submission means that you trust your husband will always do what is best for you and your family. Your submission is a sign of your love and that you will always puy him before others. He is your number one priority each day.

A Submissive Wife wants him to look forward to coming home after a day at work. She wants it to be welcoming, clean, tidy and peaceful.   When he walks through the door, she knows he wants to walk into a warm, loving atmosphere and not a cold war zone. Keeping the home clean is easier if you have a weekly / daily cleaning schedule and work through this each day.  Breaking the weeks cleaning down into small manageable tasks is more manageable than leaving it to one day. It is also a good idea 30 mins before he comes home to take a few mins to have a coffee and fix your hair and makeup, you want to be relaxed and looking your best when he comes through the door.  Let him know that you are pleased to see him and give him a few mins to unwind before you start telling him about your day. Try not to dominate the conversation and take a break and let him speak. Give him your full attention and do not expect him to share it with your social media feed.  

Once you become parents, you have to remember that you have to find the time to work on your marriage no matter how tired you are.   If you start to neglect your relationship, you begin to lose the connection between you and your husband.   Make sure that you find time each week. to do something together even if it is just cuddling up on the sofa. Take advantage of grandparents offering to have the children for sleepovers, plan on having a special date night with no need to get up early for work the next day, make the most of the time together.  Being a parent is a full-time job, but everyone deserves needs a break and time for self-care.