Havilah Cunnington

Havilah is back with another behind the scenes peak of what’s going on in the Cunnington world. Tune in to hear some vacation tips and how they make vacations cost effective, thoughts about their eldest going into high school this year, and are the Cunnington’s moving?! If you heard Havilah’s latest Cunnington Catch Up, you know they were on their way to Nashville. (If you haven’t heard it, stop and go listen to episode 172 first!) Have you ever asked God the question, “What’s next?” Hear how Havilah and her family walked through this process with Him and what He showed, or didn’t show, them through it. Did you hear about everything Havilah and her family had to go through when they realized Grayson’s passport had expired RIGHT before they left for vacation? It was an eye-opening experience! Get the full story that you didn’t get on socials. “I don’t know what He’s going to do. All I know is that as long as I’m where God has me, that’s all that matters, and if He has me somewhere, I’m going to give it all I’v

Always a bridesmaid and never a bride? Ever feel advertised as the token single girl who everyone is trying to marry off? Christa Smith knows how you feel. There is a constant message of: you need to be in a relationship. And that singleness is a curse. That is not Godly, and not Truth. Being single is not a bad thing. A journey of singleness is an invitation to truly trust God with your life. Do not settle for a relationship that is anything less than God’s best, which will always be first and foremost: HIM. Learn what will help shift your perspective from a place of waiting to a place of contentment. Hear about what specific tips Christa has for you in your season of waiting and find out WHY your single years are not ‘filler years’ until you get married. Shift your perspective from waiting to be chosen to a place of a God-focused, empowered place of CHOOSING. Healed and whole marriage doesn’t happen unless you are actively chasing being healed and whole as a single person. Listen in as Christa brings the fi

You can’t run from the waiting! In this episode, Havilah interviews and chats with Christa Smith, Pastor, Preacher, Teacher and Author. Content while contending for what you want. If God isn’t enough for you now, in the absence of something, He won’t be enough when you get it. In order to get to a place of contentment, you have to grieve what you don’t have. Often times the depths of your desire will connect you with the true surrender needed to carry the dream that awaits you. Listen in as Christa shares about the journey of singleness that lasted far longer than when she wanted. When you aren’t in an ‘encounter’, can you still walk out your declaration? We believe that this episode is for the single woman OR the woman who is in a painful season of waiting or who is facing longsuffering. You will find freedom in the encouragement Christa has for you, through her inspiring story and deep wisdom. DON’T FORGET: Havilah is hosting a LIVE, FREE Message Prep Masterclass this Thursday, July 15th at 10am and 5pm PST

Are you content while contending for God’s future for you? Often times we think we are ready, but really, we aren’t. God is preparing our minds and our bodies to carry the responsibility that lies ahead. Anyone else been in love with love? Anyone have their future spouse ‘checklist’? That’s right, I see you. Laying our romantic lives down in front of God is not easy. Waiting on God to bring you the things that are the deepest desires of your heart is really hard. But spoiler alert: the waiting never ends. Even if you get the one thing, there is always something else you’re waiting for. When God asks us to wait, He doesn’t give us a time frame. His timing is not our timing. Even if He says suddenly, that doesn’t mean it’s our definition of ‘suddenly’. God likes to keep the mystery. In this episode, Havilah reveals the two things you can control in the waiting season: how you wait and who you become in the journey. Listen in as she unpacks the rich treasure that awaits you in the waiting. Calling all Communicat

Going back to basics, we are going to talk about how to starve your fear and feed your faith. Fear can be good for us, it can protect us. But sometimes our fear gives us the problem but not the solution. That’s where FAITH comes in. Faith provides the solution. Havilah goes through many fears we all face and what the solution is! We don’t want you to dismiss facts. That’s delusional. God sees fact and truth differently. John chapter 11 - God does not need additional motivation to set you free, to heal you, to save you. We believe if God cared, He’d save us right now. He’d move on our behalf right now. Often times we get the promise, the prophesy, and we wonder what the holdup is. We feel God is holding out on us. But keep in mind, sometimes it takes time in our stories to give us the promise AND give God the glory. Don’t give up hope! People blow up their lives in the waiting. People start to take over because they feel the waiting is ‘too long’. Waiting on God is tough. If you don’t hang on to the vision of

Is your future compelling? Or are you just living in an anxious present? In the second of a two-part episode Joelle and Havilah talk through finding your PURPOSE, living a compelling life and how the two are linked. Don’t miss the wrap up of what special word Havilah has for you in this season! Take advantage of our special discount for ANYTHING on our site, for podcast listeners only: use SUMMER15 at checkout. shop.truthtotable.com Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

Is your future compelling? Or are you just living in an anxious present? In the first of a two-part episode Joelle and Havilah talk through finding your PURPOSE, living a compelling life and how the two are linked. Special discount for anything on our site, for podcast listeners only: SUMMER15 use at checkout. shop.truthtotable.com Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

If you follow Havilah on socials, you’re only getting half the story! In this episode hear Havilah give you the full story on what’s been going on behind the scenes for the Cunnington Crew. Hear the full story of Bear, and all of the other things that have been going on and that are upcoming! Attention podcast listeners! Save 15% on anything from our store all summer long. Use code SUMMER15 at checkout. shop.truthtotable.com Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

God’s voice speaks to us from our future. He wants to lead you to the future He knows He has created for you! What does it look like to live a life you want to wake up to? How is your grief affecting your ability to go after your dreams? It’s time to get up! Ask yourself: What is my future self trying to tell me? Let's talk about the power of Spirit-led living and get you to a place where you can answer: when I leave this earth, do I know that I fulfilled my God-given potential? Listen in as Havilah unpacks how, when our future or our present is more compelling than our past, we will become the men and women we need to be to follow the voice of God. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

Welcome back after a little break to our I Do Boundaries Series, episode 4!  We’re going to look at how boundaries are part of being a spiritual grownup! Part of being a spiritual grownup is understanding what is not only permissible for you, but what is actually helpful in your life. This week we will learn about how your beliefs, emotions, and decisions all belong to YOU and how that actually puts you in a position of power. Listen in as Havilah shares about how we can’t protect what matters most if we’re busy protecting our reputation and how living with Godly boundaries is understanding that you are not created to do all things. Listen in to understand fully how freedom awaits you through boundaries... - Start the free I Do Boundaries 15 day study HERE - Buy the book I Do Boundaries HERE Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

In today’s episode we’re going to look at why boundaries aren’t just helpful but profoundly spiritual. Boundaries are a popular topic. But make no mistake, property lines have been an idea from the very beginning. He’s very passionate about boundaries. He knows that when we have ownership, love is protected. When we allow love to motivate us, we can live whole lives by clearly knowing where we end and others begin. His Kingdom works! God created boundaries for the sake of order, ownership and protection. God holds Himself to the same order, ownership, and protection. - Start the free I Do Boundaries 15 day study HERE - Buy the book I Do Boundaries HERE Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

Loving ourselves and others well begins with healthy boundaries! Just in time for Valentine’s Day Havilah shares what the big deal is about boundaries. Our world consists of boundaries. It’s easy to see them all around us. We’ve built fences, signs, walls, and hedges. We’ve created cities, counties, states and countries. We use them to clarify ownership. These lines help us know who owns what and where. Once we know who the owner is, we know who is responsible. The owner of the property is legally responsible. The non-owner isn’t. As our physical world has boundaries, so, too, our spiritual world. They are harder to see, but just as important. Boundaries don’t just keep the good in, but also keep the bad out. Listen to week 2 of our I Do Boundaries series as Havilah unpacks how boundaries keep us from harm and protect safe and healthy love. Start the free I Do Boundaries 15 day study HERE  Buy the book I Do Boundaries HERE Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.co

The first of our I Do Boundaries series, Havilah begins to walk us through finding our power, finding out how to protect what matters most to us and to stop feeling bad about it. Being nice out of fear doesn’t work and people-pleasing will keep us stuck in the cycles of powerlessness that we are trying to break away from. Learn how to do the right thing, when the right thing won’t make everyone happy. Being at war with the internal narratives you have about people’s opinions of you and the affect/perceived control you have over it can be confusing. Good news: you don’t have to betray who you are to make others comfortable! Likely, being a good Christian girl isn’t what you’ve been taught it is. Where do your responsibilities end and others’ begin? Find out as you listen in to this week’s episode as Havilah begins to walk you through interrupting the pattern of making others happy and empowering you to live life the way God wants you to! Get ready to show up in the world as the powerful person He created you t

In this episode Havilah has a conversation with Jason Vallotton about developing a healthy inner dialogue. Jason is a husband, dad, pastor, counselor and leads a Men's Ministry called Brave Co. Tune in to hear the keys Jason shares to overcome the obstacles of life, develop a healthy game plan for challenges and become an expert and finding the help you need. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

In this episode, Havilah has a conversation with Lauren Vallotton about blended family. Lauren shares openly about the unique experience of stepping into a marriage as a step-parent. Tune in to hear the trials and success that have shaped the journey and what keys have been essential to stepping into such a unique role. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

In this episode, Havilah has a conversation with Rebekah LaRobadiere. Rebekah is a sex and relationship coach, wife and mom. Tune in to hear the very real and open conversation about sex, as Rebekah brings clarity to the confusion of what intimacy and a "great sex life" truly means, what lies and beliefs keep you from having a healthy sex life and how to talk about sex with your children. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com Resources: Getting The Love You Want: https://www.amazon.com/Getting-Love-You-Want-Couples/dp/1250310539 Website: https://www.rjlcoaching.com/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

In today's Part 2 episode, Barry and Lori Byrne, Founders of Nothing Hidden Ministries, continue their discussion on cultivating a healthy marriage. This dynamic duo teaches us that the Holy Spirit uncovers what years of counseling may not have revealed. Their workshops globally have helped thousands of couples restore their marriage. Listen to these wonderful stories, and hear God’s heart for marriage! https://nothinghidden.com/ Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

In today's Part 1 episode, Barry and Lori Byrne, Founders of Nothing Hidden Ministries and family therapist, discuss the secrets of having a healthy marriage. They are passionate about bringing spiritual, relational, and emotional breakthrough. It always takes two people showing up fully. Listen in to uncover real solutions when pitfalls happen in marriage! https://nothinghidden.com/ Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

Christa Smith joins Havilah in a conversation about single-life. Christa openly shares her journey of waiting until the age of 39 to marry the man of her dreams. So often we find ourselves waiting for a promise from God. It's easy to start to compare your story or even question God's character in the waiting. Tune in to hear how this journey produced intimacy, faith and joy in the Lord. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

In this episode, Havilah and Ben Cunnington have a very real conversation about marriage. They talk openly and honestly about the reality of building a healthy marriage in the midst of all that life brings at you. Tune in to learn some keys to building a healthy marriage, that builds intimacy and connection. Love After Marriage book: https://www.amazon.com/Love-After-Marriage-Spiritual-Emotional-ebook/dp/B00LA9FLPE Keep Your Love On book: https://www.amazon.com/Keep-Your-Love-Connection-Communication/dp/0988499231 Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support