Havilah Cunnington

This week Havilah interviews Kris Vallotton about the Gift of Discernment. Listen in as Kris breaks it down as the gift of discerning the spirits and how you might already be operating in that gift without realizing it! Havilah and Kris share their personal experiences of how this gift shows up in daily life - how it might be that you are ultra perceptive of the atmosphere that someone else is bringing into a room. Hear them discuss how to discern what belongs to you and what does not, how to operate in this gifting with vision, grace and love and common pitfalls that can occur. Also - learn how you can begin to activate the gift of Discernment in your own life right now! Kris Vallotton mentions his book Spiritual Intelligence which can be found here. Kris is a foremost authority and expert on operating in Spiritual Gifts and has numerous books and resources which can be found here. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com --- Support this pod

It’s been TOO long since Havilah has been able to catch you all up on what’s going on in their world. Well today, she’s back and she’s sharing all the details about what’s going on in their world. They’ve had to ask themselves hard questions in this last season and lean on the Lord for those answers. Hear about where they are headed and about some amazing testimonies that have happened in the past few months. Havilah is dishing out all the details about her new position, their new home, and new season. Make sure to follow along at @homewithhavilah ! Pre-order a discounted book now HERE Join our FREE study HERE Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

Francis Anfuso was an atheist before he had a radical encounter with the Lord during his conversion. When he started to consider ministering to others, he didn’t want to be disingenuous or inauthentic. He looked at the evangelists, preachers and church leaders at the time and he didn’t want to look like them or sound like them. He never loved labels, but rather, functions. How do you function? He wanted to function like Jesus. How did Jesus function while He was on the earth?  Answer: A continuous dependence on God. Listen in as Havilah and her father talk about how activating your spiritual gifts is best done in low-stakes environments. It should be with friends, neighbors, family, not with a mic in your hand on a stage. Get ready to take notes this week because you will learn practical ways to operate in your spiritual gifting in your every day life as Francis and Havilah uncomplicate the topic of Spiritual Gifts. Pre-order a discounted book now HERE Join our FREE study HERELearn more and connect with

This week we are kicking off the first episode of our Spiritual Gifts Series where Havilah will be discussing the 9 spiritual gifts, what they are and how God uses them and us to reach the world in tangible ways! But let’s be honest: depending on your upbringing and experiences around spiritual gifts or moves of the Holy Spirit, you might have a preconceived notion of what is or is not biblical. People tend to fall into one of two camps: either really comfortable with gifts of the Spirit or really UNcomfortable or unsure. (Yes, that’s simplifying it!) This episode and Havilah’s new book will build a bridge between both worlds to bring us back to Jesus’ heart and mind on the topic of Spiritual Gifts. Get your pens ready, because this week’s conversation is with Proverbs 31 Ministries’ Director of Theology and Research - Joel Mudamalle - where Havilah asks him to set a theological foundation for our journey into discovering and activating our Spiritual Gifts. Pre-order a discounted book now HERE Join our FREE s

In the Cunnington household this year, we are going to do the Holidays differently. We are contemplating what matters most in life and we know that our podcast community is doing the exact same thing. Feel like the world is a dark place? Today you’ll get to meet mom and substitute teacher Norah - who tells her life story as the youngest of 6 children growing up in Uganda. Norah’s story will bring you joy! Everything that the holidays are supposed to be about - good gifts, joy, peace, love and the light of Jesus… is wrapped up in this powerful testimony. Hallmark movies and cozy candles have nothing on this podcast for getting you in the Christmas spirit! Our core values in the Cunnington home and at Truth to Table are generosity and a spirit of giving back in tangible ways. As a mama, I’m raising global citizens serving the God of the Universe who loves every child of every nation. To release children from poverty in Jesus’ name is the mandate on our hearts as we walk into this holiday season. Xx- Havilah Lis

Do you have a big, seemingly scary task ahead of you? Something beyond your ability to pull off? Is God calling you into unchartered territory with no guarantees? In this episode, hear Havilah teach on how to move forward in the face of fear. This teaching is so jam-packed full of wisdom and biblical teaching - so get your journals ready, God has a word for you in this season! Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

Remembrance is a sacred act. We wanted to throw it back and share with you one of Havilah’s first seasons’ episodes where she shares her journey from doing an online YouTube study with a max audience of 20 (counting her mother) and getting discouraging feedback. She shares the process of growing her audience in pace with the Lord’s leading and by making small but healthy steps forward. Wherever you are right now in the call and purpose on your life, do not diminish it! Sowing tiny seeds still can grow into a full harvest if watered well and sown on fertile soil. Do not diminish your hope for the harvest by the size of the seed. As we take this moment to share this episode in the freshness of Havilah’s announcement of being the Women’s Pastor at Bethel Church, we thought it would be a good reminder that she started small. She was faithful with whatever God placed in her hands, she took initiative and kept stewarding well whatever opportunities she took hold of. Be encouraged as you listen to this episode and k

From the Mountain Mover Conference in Moses Lake, WA comes today’s episode where Havilah talks about how the storms we live through in our lives makes our message more impactful. We can preach about God when we are safely on the shore, but it’s in the storm that true trust and relationship is forged with God. This message was recorded in October and is a timely word spoken over people in this specific season of personal and global tumult. You’re not alone and Jesus lived life on earth to show us how to do it best. Stay tuned we have business focused episodes coming up and a prophetic series we have in the works! You’re going to love it ALL! If you haven’t already, please subscribe and leave us a review! It will bring hope to others and help this get into the hands of people just like you who need encouragement and solid, biblical teaching. We love and appreciate all of your support, social posts and tags and reviews! It means more than you know! Join our email list which is where we always drop the news first

This week in the final episode of the Marriage Is Series, Havilah chats with Clint Davis who talks about trauma within a marriage and what to do if there has been a betrayal or trauma within the marriage. What do you do if your marriage is ‘broken’? Covid has done a number on marriages. Pastors report seeing more divorces in the past year than they have in all of their cumulative years in ministry. Why? Clint explains that up until covid and the lockdowns we had maladaptive coping skills and were able to distract ourselves until we were all given no where else to turn but our homes. It either drove people closer or the wheels came off. Listen in as Havilah and Dr. Clint discuss how we try to put bandaids over bullet holes, how important community is for healthy feedback to know whether or not your situation is truly abusive, and how to heal from betrayal trauma. Clint Davis is an Army Veteran who has a Bachelor's in Psychology from Louisiana Tech University and Master's in Marriage and Family Therapy from Ful

Ben and Havilah take this episode on together as they share their story of how they almost didn’t get married (whaaat??) how to navigate different callings, what to do if it seems your spouse is unsupportive of your calling and how to partner together. Marriage is contending and fighting together for what matters. Hear practical tools to go after the calling on your life without negating the call on your spouse's life and learn how to contend side by side for the things of the Kingdom! Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

Certified Master Sex Coach Rebekah LaRobardiere has a degree in Psychology and is on the show talking with Havilah about why marriages are struggling sexually especially in the covid season. Listen in as they talk about what is ‘normal’ what is not, what part we as individuals play in our sexuality, how our perspective and beliefs about sexuality affects how we show up in our marriage, how to improve intimacy and your sex life in marriage and a few myths that you might not have known! As a bonus, Rebekah has a special journal that will help you in your journey you can find here if you’re interested! Also don’t miss Havilah’s LIVE Masterclass TOMORROW, October 14, 2021 to give you the keys to be a powerful communicator and get you ready for the stage! Kick fear in the face so when God calls you to communicate next you will be able to step confidently into what He has for you! Register HERE. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com --- Support t

Havilah has been getting so many messages and emails about marital struggles. She wants to get you resources and help in the best way she can! One of the things that has been so helpful for Havilah has been Connection Codes. Listen in as Havilah interviews Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill, creators of the Connection Codes Courses. It applies not just to marriages but to parent/child and family relationships, work relationships, roommates and friendships. We are hardwired for connection and identity. How our brains work and how our bodies are triggered by what happens in the brain are all factors in how we experience one another and the world around us. Get ready to take notes because this will help you immensely in whatever relationships you’re struggling with! They are offering an exclusive code: home25 for Havilah’s community to give you 25% off their course! Click HERE to get the discount!  BONUS: Free 3-Day Course is happening right now and link is here: 3-day course and follow them on Instagram here.

Enjoy this message Havilah preached earlier this year at the She Conference. The Church is usually in one of two camps when it comes to spiritual warfare: the devil is everywhere or we ignore the devil. The war is already won, but we still have to know how to fight in the battles that come our way in life. Enjoy this profound teaching as Havilah breaks down how to fight a very real enemy who is coming to steal, kill and destroy the purpose and call on your life! You are meant to live the abundant life so you can know if you’re feeling mentally, emotionally or spiritually depleted it’s because your enemy is stealing from you. Listen in as Havilah restores your hope with a now message for you in this season. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

Enjoy this message Havilah preached in San Jose earlier this month at the Unique Conference. Your call is too great and your purpose too essential to be deterred by offense. Shake the dust of offense off of you so you can go into your promised land free and clear! You don’t want to take the offense of the desert in with you to the next season and land God has sent you into. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

Havilah has so many things she wants to catch you up on today! Remember when the Cunnington’s started asking God if they were in the right place back in June? Remember when they visited Nashville? Tune in to hear their new thoughts on this and where God is leading them. Havilah shares the importance of really leaning into what God has for them instead of doing it and then asking for blessing in it. Waiting sucks, we get it! But waiting on God is never a bad idea. Havilah shares encouragement if you’re in a season where you don’t know what’s next and you’re longing for something different. What you have control over is today! So let’s focus on the one thing you can do to give God glory TODAY. You won’t want to miss the BIG NEWS that came out of a meeting with a few Bethel leaders recently and how it affects everything else in their world. Did someone say new home? Havilah is excited to dive head first into something new and we hope you stick around for the ride! P.S. Make sure you go back and listen to our Bou

In today’s podcast with special guest Danny Silk, Havilah and Danny discuss how to set boundaries in a ministry setting. Listen in as they talk about common themes that are experienced in ministry like how no one has taught Christians to say no to one another or how to be unhappy with one another. It sounds funny, but it’s true. We have been taught that people pleasing is ‘Godly’ and having people upset with us means we did something wrong. But is that true? Find your answers to the questions of what is AND IS NOT healthy in ministry and how to set boundaries in a ministry setting. Also: Don’t forget to sign up for Havilah’s FREE EVENT: CREATED FOR MORE event at: https://www.thetruthacademy.com/created-for-more Get clear on boundaries and how to maintain them, how to chase your dream God’s way and how to hear God’s voice in every circumstance in your daily life! We are taking all of your most-asked questions and rolling it into a 3-Day exclusive event where Havilah will teach you everything you need to know a

How do you set Boundaries in your workspace and still work with integrity? Having boundaries in the workplace is the kindest thing you can do for your employers. When you figure out your YES’s - your core values - your NO’s will get really clear. Your boss doesn’t burn you out - YOU burn you out. You train your employers what access they have to you. That doesn’t make you a bad employee it makes you more reliable and trustworthy. Boundaries are FOR us, not AGAINST someone else. Showing up like a spiritual grownup means you set boundaries, which is showing up more obediently to God. We serve God and not man; a fear of man will likely result in boundary issues in the workplace. Being clear on the boundaries of your role and duties, your boss’s role and duties and what hours you will be able to work to produce with excellence and bring maximum value to your role and responsibilities is foundational. Then, sticking to it and not allowing guilt or shame to run the show is the key to maintaining boundaries in your

Family of origins is tricky especially in the faith space There’s the verse: “Honor your father and mother in the Lord for this is right.” So how do we reconcile that and live with healthy boundaries and apply them to our family of origins? Isn’t it disrespectful to come up against your parent’s wishes and say ‘no’? This week licensed therapist Dr. Alison Cook @alisoncookphd is on the show and shares about how honoring our parents isn’t about how they feel, but rather, about becoming the person God wants us to be. Dr. Cook and Havilah about how to set boundaries in the relationships in life that tend to be the relationships that are the most sticky: family. Nothing is off-limits, we talk about relationships with mothers, in-laws, children, what does actual toxicity in a relationship look like? We took questions we heard from you on socials and got answers straight from Dr. Cook! Listen in and find out the key signals that clue you in that there is an issue with unhealthy boundaries in your life. --- Suppo

Boundaries in marriage might sound like it’s a contradictory statement. Anyone else have a hard time knowing how to be ‘one’ with someone while also maintaining boundaries? The biggest question I get when speaking is “How do I know I’m in unity and still say no when it’s healthy?” Following the example of the Trinity and God and creation we find some key markers for how boundaries in marriage work. There is no whole, pure love where there is no power of choice. Distinctly different entities and yet they are wholly and fully God as one. Living powerfully means you don’t need to wait for anyone else to participate. You living the abundant life only requires one participant: YOU. He knows how to make 2 one - but He also doesn’t require us to lose ourselves for the sake of our spouse. Are you showing up wholeheartedly in taking ownership of your attitudes, choices and feelings and stewarding them in a way that doesn’t require your spouse's participation? Listen in as Havilah shares a real, personal story that ill

Join Havilah in the last of a relationship series for those who are in a season of waiting or singleness. This week, Havilah invited Courtney Cruz, a Truth To Table staff member to share her story of not waiting well and how that played out in her life. Married at 21, Courtney’s dream life of doing ministry and starting a family was turned upside down pretty quickly. What transpired after that was messy. Single parenthood, more than one marriage and divorce, the consequences of chasing her dreams over God’s best carried a heavy price. Hear Courtney’s journey of trying to write her own love story and chasing after her own romantic dreams and what it took for God to get her fully to Himself. Listen in as Havilah chats with her about how Ishmaels get created when we aren’t willing to wait for our Isaac and the beauty and hope that await those that truly surrender to allow God to write the story for their lives. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.c