Havilah Cunnington

In this episode, I want to talk to you about your most productive moments, the hours in your day that you use to build your life on purpose, with clarity and passion. These are your tiger hours. They are those two - three hours a day that are your perfect work hours, where you get so much done! I know what it's like to have a busy life and I also know that I am not the only one. So let us steward those hours well, in order to be as productive as possible. That includes setting boundaries, prioritizing our time well and guarding those special hours. When are your tiger hours? Can you set them aside to tackle those things that build and grow you? You'll be amazed how far you can go by simply investing a small amount of time each day! Thanks for tuning in! Book recommendation: Manage Your Day-to-Day: Build Your Routine, Find Your Focus, and Sharpen Your Creative Mind By Jocelyn K. Glei https://www.amazon.com/Manage-Your-Day-Day-Creative/dp/1477800670 Also, everything I do is over at truthtotable.com. A place

In this episode, I talk about how we can navigate conflict well. Conflict is normal and sometimes we think without conflict we are peaceful people. It’s important to realize that we can’t resolve everything but we do have a part to play. Today I want to share some things with you that I use almost on a daily basis to resolve conflict and live through conflict. 1. You are fully responsible for yourself. 2. Use empathy and put yourself in someone else’s shoes for a minute. 3. Own up with what you have and ask yourself if you should have a conversation about it. What can you do without the other person participating? 4. Practice saying: “I am so sorry, will you please forgive me?” 5. Let it go and keep no record of wrongs (1 Corinthians 13:5). 6. Come up with a plan and ask yourself the right questions. I hope this helps you today. Always ask the Lord to guide you. Let go of the things He is asking you to let go of and fight for the things He is asking you to fight for. “My dear brothers and sisters, take

In this episode, I talk about how we grow and develop our lives especially when we find we are struggling and it feels like we are walking on water. What you are feeling today may not be directly linked to what you invested in today, prayed today or developed today. Everything is because of yesterday. The Bible is very clear that we will reap what we’ve sown, however, what we don’t often realize is that our harvest is directly linked to what we’ve sown long ago. Where are we sowing today in order to reap next year? How are you stewarding what God has given you so that you can double it by next year? What do you want to reap in 2019? It’s important to take ownership of the seeds we’ve been given to sow and steward them well because He wants to entrust more to us. Don’t be discouraged by the doing, step out in confidence and keep going because you are going to reap a great harvest in the future. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

We are back for part 3 of the Conversations on Motherhood series! In this podcast, my mother and I have a conversation about the joys and challenges that come with parenting children. We cover topics like fun, the importance of intentionality and taking advantage of every opportunity to sow into our children. My prayer is that this podcast will leave you empowered and ready to sow into the next generation of world changers! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

We continue in our series on Motherhood with a special guest and great friend of mine, Lisa Bevere. I blitz Lisa with a handful of questions on what motherhood was like for her and we'll talk about the good, bad and ugly seasons of life as a mom. *Find and connect with Lisa Bevere: www.lisabevere.com www.instagram.com/lisabevere *Buy Lisa's latest book "Adamant" here: www.amzn.to/2KNAefc --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

In this podcast, I start a new series of conversations on motherhood with a wonderful friend of mine Andi Andrew. We chat about the real-life joys and challenges of motherhood and more. This is the first of a few conversations I'll be hosting on this very relevant and fun topic. To connect with and learn more about Andi Andrew, visit: www.andiandrew.com www.instagram.com/andiandrew Get the Mother's Day gift set here: www.bit.ly/2FvuAug Order by May 9th for delivery for Mother's Day - Signed copy of my newest book Stronger than the Struggle - 12- part E-Course Mom's of Men with Havilah and Lisa Bevere - Beautiful Journal --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

We are His creation. If we constantly hate what we see every time we look in the mirror, how can we trust that God has a great plan for our lives? The reality is that the picture we see in the mirror is His greatest work. We are His creation. How He created us, whether we like it or not, was part of His plan and there is an acceptance we have to come to. The message of Jesus has always been one saying we are accepted, made perfect, and loved beyond comprehension. Ground yourself in this reality and self-rejection will begin to lose its power. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

In this podcast we're continuing with our Growth series. Tune in as we talk all about "development" as a stage of growth. If we miss the season, we will miss the moment. If we don’t know what season we are in and what stage of development we are in, we can often times miss the moment entirely. In order to develop our spiritual life, we need to know what season are in. We need to acknowledge that the season you were in may not be the same season you are in today. “There is a season (a time appointed) for everything and a time for every delight and event or purpose under heaven” Ecclesiastes 3:1 (MSG) You must embrace the season you’re in because the moment you embrace the space it becomes easier. “Let us not grow weary or become discouraged in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap, if we do not give in.” Galatians 6:9 *To learn more and join our Truth to Table membership community visit: www.truthtotable.com/membership *To save $10 on your first month register with this podcast only link: ht

Can a Christian have a meltdown? We often times know that a crash or meltdown is coming but we don’t know what to do. In this week’s class, we’re going to talk about "environment." Who are you waiting for to participate for you to live an abundant life? We are called to live an abundant life without anyone else participating. How do you get your power back? Galatians 6:5 (MSG) Make a careful exploration of who you are and the work you have been given, and then sink yourself into that. Don’t be impressed with yourself. Don’t compare yourself with others. Each of you must take responsibility for doing the creative best you can with your own life. The environment in which you are growing life is your responsibility. God is the gardener, he is the center of our life! For more information about becoming a Truth to Table member, visit: www.truthtotable.com/membership Join membership today and save 50% off with this podcast only link: https://truthtotable.com/courses/register/the-table-membership/?coupon=tttria

In this podcast, we'll be starting a new series on Growth: Subtle Changes for Radical Growth. This series will actually give you a sneak peek into our Truth to Table membership experience. Part 1: All growth starts at baseline. It’s often the incremental growth that causes us to become who we want to be and who we are called to be. In this week’s class, we’ll be discussing subtle shifts for radical change. “I Should” is based in shame and it doesn’t allow us to be in the process. It requires us to be perfect and causes discouragement. God does not hold us to the “I Should’s”, he is the ‘I Am” and “I will”. He operates in timing and seasons. Activation: We encourage you to soak in God’s love by listening to “Reckless Love” by Cory Asbury here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6xx0d3R2LoU **Special podcast promotion ==> Join Truth to Table Membership and save 50% on your 1st month. (enrollment closes April 17th, 2018) Join here ==> https://bit.ly/2GMtlYN --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spo

In this episode Havilah has a conversation with Kris Vallotton about about spiritual battle and warfare. There are two kinds of people in the world, those who are sensitive to warfare and those who are victims of it. Fear is faith in the wrong god and when you believe it you empower it. Havilah and Kris talk about living intentionally and partnering with the truth that will cause us to rise in strength. *This interview was recorded earlier in January 2018 as part of the Online Empowerment Summit + Kris Vallotton is the Senior Associate Leader of Bethel Church in Redding, California and co-founder of Bethel School of Supernatural Ministry (BSSM). Kris travels internationally training and equipping people to successfully fulfill their divine purpose. He’s a bestselling author, having written more than a dozen books and training manuals to help prepare believers for life in the kingdom. He has a diverse background in business, counseling, consulting, pastoring and teaching, which gives him unique leadership i

In part two of this podcast Havilah continues her conversation with Christine Caine of A21 Campain and Propel Women about our spiritual battles. The fight to bring heaven on earth is real and the day we forget we are in a fight is when disappointment and discouragement will take us out. We often forget we are in a spiritual battle. If we don't know how to war spiritually, we will not succeed. Havilah and Christine share their hearts on how to navigate the unexpected well and fight to build eternity now. To learn more about Christine Caine and find all of her resources visit: christinecaine.com A21.org propelwomen.com To order Havilah's new book Stronger than the Struggle: Uncomplicating Your Spiritual Battle, click here: amzn.to/2EWT94d To join the FREE Global Book Club visit: truthtotable.com/strongerthantthe…ruggle/book-club --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

In this episode Havilah talks with Christine Caine of A21 Campain and Propel Women about our spiritual battles. It's a fight to bring heaven on earth and the day we forget we are in a fight is when disappointment and discouragement will take us out. We often forget we are in a spiritual battle. If we don't know how to war spiritually, we will not succeed. Havilah and Christine share their hearts on how to navigate the unexpected well and fight to build eternity now. To learn more about Christine Caine and find all of her resources visit: christinecaine.com A21.org propelwomen.com To order Havilah's new book Stronger than the Struggle: Uncomplicating Your Spiritual Battle, click here: amzn.to/2EWT94d To join the FREE Global Book Club visit: truthtotable.com/strongerthantthestruggle/book-club --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

Today I have some exciting news to share with you! Every January over at Truth to Table we take thousands of you through a Bible study. We have had over 100 nations tune in and it quickly became an unintentional God-moment. Growing up, I often struggled and had to overcome many mountains. My goal for this book is to be your tour guide through the mountains and spiritual struggles you face. We will uncomplicate your spiritual battle by answering questions like, what it looks like to be empowered and how to know exactly what you are doing. We all struggle, so what are we missing? I invite you to come and sit at my kitchen table this January and spend some quality time receiving down-to-earth tools that will help you overcome your daily struggles. It is completely FREE but I do recommend you pick up a book for an even better experience. Purchase your book here: http://amzn.to/2zAAY0b How to join the FREE study? Visit www.truthtotable.com/strongerthantthestruggle/book-club and SIGN UP for FREE. We'll walk

Have you ever been in a spiritual situation that has left you more confused than empowered? In this Podcast episode, I share a story of the first time I witnessed something spiritual happen. I talk about how it left me confused and terrified. It wasn’t until I started to read and study the idea of spiritual battles that I was reminded of this moment. Many of us have experienced things like this happen, and people have shut it down. Our spiritual battle was never meant to be fear-driven and something we can’t talk about. We were born into battle. We must understand that we can't be ignorant of the enemy's schemes (2 Corinthians 2:11). When we decide to live for Christ, we are stronger than any struggle we will ever face. Does this mean we will never face any struggles? No, because we still live in a fallen world. But why does He allow all these struggles? God in his mercy does not interrupt our free-will because controlling love is not real love. No one is immune to the struggle, but our firm foundation in

Sometimes in life things actually get harder before they get easier. It doesn't always mean you're going in the wrong direction when things feel off. Radical change happens sometimes as our situation gets worse. The beautiful lesson in all of this is that God always has a redemptive plan in mind. He already has a beautiful future set out for us, we might just have to wait a little longer than we might have thought. For more resources including online Bible studies and courses, visit: www.truthtotable.com Find out about my upcoming speaking events at: www.havilahcunnington.com/events --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

In this Podcast episode Havilah shares some thoughts on how to navigate your December. The more you have going on, the more critical it is to have a strategy. There is a downside of December and the feelings it provides. A lot of us have expectations that come with Christmas-time, but the reality is completely different. Havilah gives you 5 keys to a peaceful December Admit you have expectations. If you do not admit it, you will feel more and more disappointed when reality hits you. This is called maturity. What are you expecting and what are your limitations? What is most important to you? What feeling do you want to have during this season? Sometimes these are two different things. Schedule things to facilitate your feelings. What can you do to connect with your people, God and yourself? Set expectations for others. You need to get in a place of throwing things, not always catching. People have expectations, but if you know you can’t do it all, you have to say no. Consider January. You cannot ignore Janu

* This episode was recorded during a Facebook Live broadcast. In this podcast, Havilah and her husband Ben discuss the topics of marriage and raising boys. They talk about the different dynamics of men and women and the learning process of not trying to change each other or expect them to act like the opposite sex but to validate and value how God designed both men and women to function differently. They share some personal experiences from their own lives about communication, emotions and expectations of raising boys and how boys operate and the shared responsibility of raising boys into men. *If you want to learn more about raising boys in to healthy, Godly men you can preview and sign up for the Moms of Men E-course: https://truthtotable.com/moms-of-men/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

Today on the podcast I talk about the hard work that comes with change. It’s fall and the right season for change, shift and new beginnings. I am still in the thick of transition as you might know if you have been following this podcast. In this episode I talk about how we often wish that what God asks us to do is magically easy and doesn’t require any effort. But the truth is, sometimes doing life is just hard and not fun. With change comes hard work, adjustment and a different way of thinking, a process. The acknowledgment of it being hard does not make us weak but normal and human. It’s not a definition of our purpose but a reality. I love Psalm 90:17 in the Passion Translation, it says “O Lord, our God, let your sweet beauty rest upon us and give us favor. Come work with us, and then our works will endure. And give us success in all we do!” We want favor not just our own effort. We want to come and have God’s sweet beauty resting upon us. I know this is going to be work and it’s not going to be an e

In this episode, I share about our final day to enroll in the Table Membership. It's now or never guys! We are closing membership tonight at 11:59 pm PST. Also, I share about a mistake I made recently and offer an apology if you experienced this...it's important to me to make things right so tune in. For all the details on how to join the Table Membership and get in before it closes, visit: https://truthtotable.com/membership-options/ The Table Membership is an online monthly membership to help you grow step by step in your spiritual life. We offer video Bible studies, full-length teachings, a brand new weekly class, e-courses and more. It's a community of like-minded people who want to grow their life on purpose and become all God's called them to be. You can find out more about Havilah and Truth to Table below: http://havilahcunnington.com https://truthtotable.com https://www.instagram.com/havilahcunnington https://www.instagram.com/truthtotable --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotif