Shameless Sex

Let's Get Real About Anal: Breaking Down Fears and Unlocking Pleasure Are you ready to talk about the butt? Like, really talk about it? Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the world of anal sex with Jamie Joy, a certified sex educator and self-proclaimed "hungry slut for freaky fantasies". With over a decade of experience in spreading joy, consent, and pleasure, Jamie is here to dispel the myths and misconceptions surrounding anal sex and give you the lowdown on how to make it a pleasurable experience for all involved. Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode: • How Jamie's journey in the field of sexuality led them to become a leading expert in anal play • The most common fears and concerns people have about anal sex (yes, poop is on the list!), and how to overcome them • The benefits of anal plug training and how it can help first-timers ease into anal play • Tips and techniques for smooth insertion, whether you're using a plug, dildo, or something a little more... na

UTIs: the ultimate party crasher in the world of sex and relationships. But what's the real deal behind these pesky infections? Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the wild world of urinary tract infections with Megan Henken, Co-Founder and Chief Marketing Officer of MyUTI. With over two decades of experience in diagnostics and biotech, Megan's on a mission to transform women's health through innovation, education, and empathy. Here's what you'll learn from this episode: • The lowdown on UTIs: what they are, how they're caused, and why they're not just a vulva-owner problem • UTI myths busted: separating fact from fiction and tackling the shame and stigma surrounding vaginal health • How to ID UTI symptoms and what might feel like a UTI but isn't (psst... it's not just about the burning sensation) • The scoop on Micro Plasma, BV, and other mysterious conditions that might feel like a UTI • Home remedies to keep UTIs at bay and promote vaginal wellness • How hormones and aging affe

Can you really overcome the shame and guilt tied to your religious upbringing and find your authentic, sexy self? Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the complex world of sex, shame, and spirituality with certified sex and relationship coach, Erica Lemke. With a background in community counseling, kinesiology, and dance instruction, Erica brings a unique, holistic approach to helping midlife women and couples reclaim their sensuality and confidence. Here's what you can expect to learn from this powerful conversation: • How Erica's own journey led her to become a sex coach and her experiences working with clients who've been impacted by purity culture • The challenges of overcoming sexual shame related to religion and Erica's expert tips for navigating this complex issue • The good, the bad, and the ugly of purity culture: can it ever be a positive force in someone's life? • The transformative power of saying yes to your desires and how it can help you break free from shame • How Er

Happy Anal August! Is Your Behind Getting the Love it Deserves? In this episode of Shameless Sex, we're diving into the world of anal health and pleasure with the one and only Dr. Evan Goldstein - the leading anal health expert in the US and founder of Future Method. Tune in as we explore the importance of proper anal care, why it's often left unspoken, and how to take your anal game to the next level. Here's what you can expect to learn: • Why proper anal care is a total game-changer for your overall health and sex life • The reasons behind the anal care taboo (and why it's time to break the silence) • Expert tips for proper anal care, tailored for both pussy owners and penis owners • Dr. Goldstein's top tips for anal pleasure, from beginner to advanced • The lowdown on "jizz in the ass" etiquette (because we know you’re curious) • An inside look at The Future Method and how it's revolutionizing anal care • How to get your hands on Dr. Goldstein's book, Butt Seriously, and work with him one-on-one

Can you handle a double dose of Shameless Sex? In this sizzling mashup episode, we're bringing together two of our hottest episodes featuring the one and only Layla Martin, the visionary founder of the VITA method and the "Headmistress of Pleasure" herself. Here's what you'll learn from this shameless mashup: • The secrets to having mind-blowing sex that will leave you breathless (and wanting more) • How to break free from mediocre sex and ignite a passion that will transform your relationship • The art of tantric sex and how it can revolutionize your love life • Tips and tricks for communicating your desires and needs to your partner • How to cultivate a deeper connection with yourself and your partner By listening to this episode, you'll gain a deeper understanding of what makes great sex, and how to bring that magic into your own life. Whether you're looking to spice up your relationship or simply want to learn more about yourself, this episode is for you. Layla Martin, our fabulous guest, is a re

Ready to Unlock the Secret to Mind-Blowing, Life-Changing Orgasms? We're talking cervical orgasms, folks - the kind that leave you breathless, bewildered, and begging for more. But what exactly is a cervical orgasm, and how can you experience one for yourself? Join us as we dive into the world of transcendent pleasure and feminine liberation with the incredible Catrina Armendariz, a former dominatrix turned somatic guide for visionary women. With over a decade of experience in coaching, trauma-informed embodiment, and sacred sexuality, Catrina knows a thing or two about helping women tap into their deepest desires and unleash their full feminine power.  Here's what you'll learn from this episode: • The difference between cervical and A-spot orgasms (because, let's be real, it's time to get specific) • What a transcendent orgasm is, and how it can transform your sex life (and beyond) • Tips and tricks for receivers and givers on how to experience and give cervical orgasms (because practice makes perfect,

What if you could unlock a secret world of pleasure, connection, and transformation? Join us on this episode of Shameless Sex as we dive into the world of upscale play parties and sex-positive communities with Alain and Marz, the dynamic duo behind the Top Floor Club in New York City. Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode: • The fascinating story of how Alain and Marz created and evolved the Top Floor Club into the vibrant community it is today • The cultural shifts that are drawing people to these types of spaces, and what it says about our current society • The intentional design and secrets behind creating a truly safe, welcoming, and sexy play party experience • The do's and don'ts of sex parties, including essential etiquette and mindset shifts for first-timers • How to navigate your first play party as a couple, and what to expect • What Alain and Marz hope you'll take away from attending a Top Floor party (hint: it's not just about the sex) With their combined expertise and pas

Welcome to a no-filter tour of Gen Z hookup culture with Sienna Alexandra—rising sophomore at San Diego State, soulful singer-songwriter, and daughter of legendary sexologist Dr. Sadie Allison. Part “mini Dr. Sadie,” part dorm-room oracle, Sienna pulls back the covers on what sex, dating, and everything-in-between look like for today’s college crowd. What you’ll learn in this episode:   The real story behind Gen Z buzzwords—translated, Shameless-style   How hookups actually happen (spoiler: Hinge still has a hinge in the game) and the surprising script Gen Z follows once the bedroom door closes   What it means to be in a situationship, sneaky-linking your way through campus life because you’re not clapped, you’re fine shYt! Sienna’s top 3 tips for navigating college sex with confidence, consent, and zero cringe   Why casual doesn’t have to mean careless—and how to keep pleasure, safety, and self-respect at the center of every swipe   The musical side of sexual expression (p

In this episode, we dive deep with repeat guest Dr. Sadie Allison, pioneering sexologist and bestselling author of Ride ’Em Cowgirl, who’s been helping people tap into their sexuality for 25 years. She has been featured on The Howard Stern Show, Discovery Health, Playboy Radio, and in Cosmopolitan and has been a guest on over 1,000 radio shows and podcasts.  In this episode, you’ll learn: `How Dr. Sadie became the “penis genius” and a pioneer in sex education (and what inspired her iconic books) The most common fears and challenges people face when it comes to “getting on top”—and how to overcome them without breaking a sweat (or a hip) The crucial but often-overlooked role of foreplay, arousal, lubrication, and entry—why the beginning can make or break the ride Underrated sex positions that can totally transform your pleasure (plus, Dr. Sadie’s personal favorites!) The one riding technique everyone should know for mind-blowing penetration Dr. Sadie’s compassionate advice f

In this episode, Amy and April sit down with Leah Piper and Dr. Willow Brown—founders of the Sex Reimagined Podcast and holders of 40 years of combined tantric-taoist wizardry—to demystify Sexual Mastery for penis AND pussy owners alike. From ancient bedroom secrets to modern day, melt-your-mind techniques, these ambassadors of love drop the mic (and maybe your jaw) on what it really takes to become the most attuned, electrifying lover in the room. What you’ll learn (and be dying to try):   What sexual mastery truly entails for men/penis owners and how it goes beyond just being a "great lover." The top roadblocks keeping men from full-on bedroom freedom (and how to smash them).   Ancient beliefs about men's sexuality and their relevance today. Practical steps for advancing sexual mastery that anyone can embrace. The transformative results these practices can bring to your sexual experiences. Communication tips for partners seeking more in their sexual relationships. W

Are you curious about the irresistible allure of daddies, dominance, and the playful power dynamics that spice up your sex life? Dive into our latest mashup episode of Shameless Sex, where we celebrate everything about the daddy universe — from nurturing to naughty, tender to commanding. This isn’t just about taboo; it’s about embracing desire in all its forms and exploring what makes your fantasies come alive. What you’ll discover in this special episode:   The different facets of “daddy” — from caring protector to dominant force — and what they reveal about desire.   Insightful clips with top educators and authors, including Watts the Safeword, Zachary Zane, Mischa Byruck, and King Daddy Heff, sharing their expertise on kink, bisexuality, daddy dynamics, and domination.   How to navigate power dynamics safely and consensually, enhancing trust and intimacy.   The role of dirty talk and verbal dominance in turning up the heat.   The playful and empowering side of kink and BDSM, i

Ready to demystify multiple orgasms and discover how to tap into full-body pleasure? We’re joined by one of our favorite sex educators, Sarah Tomchesson—a Certified Sex Educator, Intimacy Coach, Magic Wand’s Marketing Director, Vice Chair of SIECUS, and co-host of the queer feminist podcast Fuck Yeah—to unpack everything you need to know about expanding your orgasmic potential. In this episode, you’ll learn: What exactly are multiple orgasms, and can everyone experience them?   The common roadblocks that make multiple orgasms tricky to achieve (and how to overcome them)   Essential mindset and environmental tips to set the stage for mind-blowing pleasure   What to avoid—because sometimes the biggest pleasure killers are the things you don’t realize   The concept of “full body arousal” and practical ways to cultivate it   Why breath-work is a game-changer—and beginner-friendly breathing techniques tailored for all bodies   The ins and outs of edging: what it is, why it

Ready to keep the spark alive in your long-term relationship — without feeling like you're stuck in a rut? On this episode of Shameless Sex, we’re diving into 4 Top Tips to Keep Your Long Term Relationship Spicy—straight from our recent couples retreat where attendees said we “changed their lives” (and even saved marriages!).  Ever wonder how to stay endlessly curious about your partner? Or how to master those tricky conversations that keep your connection thriving? We’ve got you covered with playful, practical advice that will make your relationship feel fresh, exciting, and deeply connected every day. What you’ll learn in this episode:   The secret to staying endlessly curious — inspired by Esther Perel’s wisdom   How to give and ask for permission to navigate tricky conversations with ease   Creative ways to spice things up, including fun photoshoots and the magic of always using lube (yes, really!)   Why communication is the ultimate umbrella for all relationship growth—plus the b

Dustin Rybka, host of the Sex Party podcast, joins us to share his story of moving from being a club promoter in the nightlife scene into the world of sex podcasting.  It’s a no-holds-barred, laugh-out-loud conversation about his  adventures, the crazy stories that kept him up all night, and how he went from innocent to insatiable—sometimes all in the same weekend. In this episode, you'll discover:   How Dustin’s journey from the nightlight industry led him to podcasting about sex and dating  Stories about  asked to have sex with someone’s girlfriend or wife at the club The biggest lessons learned from 3 years and 170+ episodes of the Sex Party podcast   Dustin’s future plans—-think OnlyFans, relationship adventures, and building his “Sex Party Empire” To join the fun and listen to his podcast, Sex Party with Dustin Rybka, visit sexparty.fm Santa Cruz! Come to one of our next live shows for our Who's Your Daddy Tour: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.shamelesssex.com/whos-your-daddy-tour⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

In this mini episode we share a clip from episode ⁠#415 ⁠featuring dream couple Jamilah Mapp, a passionate author, sexologist, and tantric practitioner, alongside the charismatic Divine Masculine Orlando Roye, a sex-positive wellness advocate and educator. This dynamic duo is passionate about helping couples (re)connect, dive into deeper intimacy, and turn up the heat in the bedroom. Join them (we highly recommend it!) for their upcoming Good LOVE Couple’s Retreat⁠ in beautiful Costa Rica June 14-19, 2025. To sign up or learn more go to ⁠https://tinyurl.com/2hddekcx

In this electric Shameless Sex episode, BDSM mastermind Orpheus Black returns to decode the art of the Switch—the deliciously fluid player who can dominate, submit, and glide between the two with swagger and grace. Whether you suspect a Switch lives inside you or you’re already toggling roles but want more skill (and less whiplash), this conversation hands you the roadmap. What you’ll learn before the flogger even warms up:   • Switch 101: how Orpheus defines Dominance, submission, and the magic zone where they meet.   • The “Am I a Switch?” checklist—desires, tells, and green-flag feelings to watch for.   • Rookie rules: scene negotiation, consent choreography, and aftercare when both partners’ needs flip.   • Level-up tactics: pacing power exchanges, reading energy shifts, and avoiding the dreaded role-confusion hangover.   • Lifestyle vs. play-only switching—how to keep everyday power dynamics healthy (and brunch-friendly).   • The Ultimate Switch toolkit: mindset exercises, communication hacks, and

Novelist, curator, humanitarian, conscious business leader and modern mystic Renee Blodgett has lived multiple lives in one. Having traveled around the world, she has plenty of stories, from riding elephants in the Indian jungle and photographing polar bears in northern Canada to teaching English in Kenya, exploring glaciers in Iceland and selling kilims in Turkey. She has lived in eleven countries, including South Africa during Apartheid and the Gaza Strip.  Her multicultural background and years of experience as a communications strategist have led to a career of uplifting others through content, speaking, coaching and leading. Known as a master of storytelling, she has written for several magazines and networks and her own award-winning online travel magazine, We Blog the World, which reaches over half a million globally.   Renee has launched award-winning campaigns for start-ups and Fortune 500 brands for nearly thirty years and has appeared as a spokesperson on major network broadcast stations and glob

Want to have the ultimate sex—whether you’ve got a pussy or a penis?   In this Shameless Sex mashup episode, we’re diving deep into the most unforgettable moments with Keeley Rankin, M.A., a leading intimacy and relationship coach since 2010. From decoding orgasms to overcoming shame, Keeley’s expert insights will help you unlock new levels of pleasure, confidence, and connection.   Here’s what you’ll learn:  Proven techniques to enhance and expand your orgasmic pleasure (#199 All About Orgasms)   How to navigate and overcome premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, and erectile challenges (#184)   Powerful tools to shed penis shame and embrace your sexual self without judgment (#403 Overcoming Penis Shame)   The transformative practice of “less doing, more being” to invite deeper pleasure and presence (#351 Less Doing + More Being = Hello Pleasure)  Listen to the full episodes here: #199 All About Orgasms #184 Premature Ejaculation, Delayed Ejaculation and Ed  #403 Overcomi

Get ready for a shameless discussion with the legendary, the iconic, and the amazing…Nina Hartley!  Join Amy and April as they sit down in person with the iconic Nina Hartley on the Shameless Sex podcast. Known as "a legend in the adult world" by CNBC and an "advocate for sexual freedom" by Las Vegas Weekly, Nina brings decades of experience and insight to this candid conversation. With a career spanning over 1,000 adult films, numerous awards, and a reputation as a fierce advocate for sexual freedom, Nina brings her unique perspective and expertise to the conversation. Here's what you can expect to learn from this episode: How Nina went from nurse to sex educator to porn performer and creator, and what she's learned along the way A game-changing pussy-eating tip that will leave you (and your partner) begging for more The surprising truth about skin hunger and why we're all aching for touch What Big Dick Energy really means (and how to get it) The powerful ways in which embracin

In this epic mashup episode of Shameless Sex, we're throwing it back to some of our favorite conversations with the incomparable Reid Mihalko. As a renowned sex educator, Reid has been a repeat guest on our show, and for good reason - his expertise and charisma are simply irresistible. Join us as we revisit some of the hottest topics from his previous episodes, guaranteed to leave you feeling informed, empowered, and maybe even a little bit naughty. In this mashup episode, you’ll hear clips and tips from Reid about: #105 Threesomes #326 Orgies and Play Parties #423 Are Unicorns Real?  #5 Casual sex - first episode with a guest!  Here's what you can expect to learn from this mashup episode: The dos and don'ts of navigating threesomes, orgies, and play parties The lowdown on unicorns: are they real, and how can you find (or become) one? The art of casual sex: how to do it right, wit Reid as our very first guest on Shameless Sex Tips and tricks for managing jeal