Bedtalks

Hi Fam- We're back with another episode with Anthony Gonzalez, a Licensed Social Worker and therapist with 20-plus years of working with clients and helping them deal with trauma, PTSD, complex relationship issues, and so much more. In this episode, we dive deep into the complexities of relationships affected by childhood trauma and our life experiences. Trauma isn't just an event in the past—it leaves a "trauma footprint" that can shape how we connect with others, often in ways we're not fully aware of. We explore the spectrum of trauma, discussing why certain behaviors make sense as coping mechanisms, even when they create challenges in relationships. From poor communication patterns to emotional reactivity, we uncover how unresolved trauma can interfere with intimacy and trust between partners. We discuss strategies for healing, emphasizing the importance of recognizing patterns, regulating emotions, and fostering open, validating communication. Understanding these dynamics is cru