10 Minutes To Save Your Marriage

Our 100th episode!!! And not a moment too soon... The question this week is quite topical, as the hosts discuss marital quarantine -- how to keep things safe, sane, and stable during SO much time together. Listen, laugh, and learn and a psychologist and a comedy writer chat about this important topic.

A listener writes in amidst the coronavirus quarantine, and asks how to keep from being around her parents so much. She's not currently living with them, but is beginning to feel their visits take a toll on her. James and Dr. Steve give advice that seems practical, and also helps spare the feelings of all involved.

A listener writes in with a bit of an unorthodox question for the show: She's about to play Dungeons & Dragons with her children, and wants to know how to be the best Dungeon Master she can! Clearly up James' alley, he takes point on this reply, but Dr. Steve discusses fostering imagination and creativity through the art of story-telling.

A listener writes in to say that she had a difficult decision to make -- and it is affecting her marriage. She was the boss to a good friend of her husband, and had to fire the friend. Now she doesn't know how to proceed, as it has created stress in their private life. James and Dr. Stev (of course!) have thoughts -- listen and see if ours match YOURS!

A listener writes in because he feels uncomfortable about an aspect of his new girlfriend: her name! Exactly the same as an ex of his, and he's wondering if there is a way to make this easier in his mind. James and Dr. Steve do what they do best: give some practical advice, despite each other!

A young listener writes in for some advice: He was politely rejected by a girl when he asked her to prom -- but wants to pursue a possible romantic relationship with her in the future. James and Dr. Steve weigh in... and seem to be on the same page with this one...

A listener writes in and asks a basic question: How do I go about finding a GOOD therapist? And while this is basic on the surface, the process can be tricky... and frustrating. James and Dr. Steve give some pointers, and try to direct ALL listeners in the right direction, should their situation ever call for a good therapist.

A male listener writes in and reports that his wife waits a full 20 seconds before responding to his statements or questions. He asks what we think about it, and we (of course) rise to the challenge! See if you agree with us, and what YOU would tell this listener.

A listener writes in this week, and mentions she is struggling with a decision to move out of the area her husband grew up in -- because she keeps running into ex-girlfriends of his... There is a complicating factor -- he loves it there! Listen along as James and Dr. Steve break down the problem, and offer some practical advice!

A frustrated listener writes in and asks for advice regarding the sexual part of his marriage. It seems he and his wife have been trying for years to get pregnant, up to and including rounds of IVF. Well, his wife is now grieving, and the sexual side of the relationship has suffered greatly. Steve gives practical advice, and James plays devil's advocate, as we try to help this couple move forward and remain satisfied in the marriage.

A listener writes in because she and her husband are struggling with the decision to have him quit his job and stay home with the kids. She is worried about his mental health after undergoing such a change... and James & Dr. Steve take very different approaches to responding! See who you agree with, as parenting sometimes requires difficult life decisions!

Our question this week comes from a listener who is concerned that her fiancé may be on the Autism Spectrum. James and Dr. Steve look at aspects of the diagnosis, and talk through the concerns of the listener -- surprisingly, we arrive at roughly the same conclusion, and offer the same advice!

A frustrated listener writes in and asks about a feud brewing between he and his wife: They have different opinions about the appropriateness of certain television programs for their children. There is no single answer, but James and Dr. Steve give honest responses to a problem that is present in many modern families.

A listener writes in, and in painful detail, discussed the death of their family pet -- and their subsequent grieving process. Dr. Steve and James talk about their own experiences, and offer condolences & some advice to move through the grief.

A listener writes in and says his wife is no longer interested in living life according to the particulars by which he lives his life. He feels he has never lied to her, and that she is now trying to change the rules after they've been together for awhile. What should he do? James and Dr. Steve weigh in -- a complicated issue, see if you agree with what they said!

A young listener writes in and asks about how he may better deal with the other duo in a polyamorous triad. It feels like he's the odd person out, and is experiencing jealousy. James and Dr. Steve try to bridge the gap between conventional and non-conventional relationships, and offer advice that is practical and useful.

We get a question this week that draws some "tough love" advice from both James and Dr. Steve. A listener writes in to ask how to curb his habit of being too generous with gifts to girlfriends and casual friends -- this has been (it seems) scaring people away. Listen in and see if you agree with the co-hosts as they try to swiftly help this young man!

Family game night turns into a nightmare when a grown man throws a fit over losing children's games. His wife doesn't know what to do. Is there any way to fix his attitude?

A listener writes in to vent - his good friend (a female) has a new boyfriend, and is now growing more distant in their friendship... despite all he feels he continues to do for her. He asks what he can do, and James & Dr. Steve unite over their rather specific advice!

A 13yo listener writes in and asks about a situation that is rather upsetting - their best friend moved 30 minutes away, and (of course) neither can drive. What can/should they do? James takes the lead in this episode, and offers sage wisdom for the youngster -- another practical, straightforward solution!