10 Minutes To Save Your Marriage

A listener writes in and wonders if his feelings for an ex will hamper his involvement with a new woman he is dating. A common problem, but troubling nonetheless. Listen in and see if you agree with James and Dr. Steve as we analyze and advise.

A frustrated listener writes in to ask about her family situation. She is in her 30s, and supporting her parents. She is trying to move out and live on her own, but wants to know how to create a life for herself without ruining life for her parents. A tricky situation -- see if YOUR thoughts match James and Dr. Steve!

James and Dr. Steve get a question about a writer's mother -- and the drama that seems to follow her everywhere. The two co-hosts disagree somewhat on their advice, but both have valid points, and YOU can decide with who's you most agree!

Title says it all -- should he be upset?

A listener writes in and asks about a podcast they listen to -- and the co-hosts can't seem to get along (*cue shocking music)!?! James and Dr. Steve dive in, as we go META this week!

A listener writes in, concerned because he is in a "perfect" relationship--but does not feel any 'zing' toward his girlfriend. Should he stay, or should he break it off? James and Dr. Steve break it down and offer some advice.

A listener writes in out of frustration -- she has an elderly parent who refuses to take her advice. The writer feels she is just trying to make life better for the parent, but is met with staunch resistance when she makes suggestions. James and Dr. Steve offer some advice and their takes on the aging process. An episode everyone needs to listen to!

Straight forward question this week - a wife writes in and talks about feeling guilty for putting her needs ahead of others', so constantly prioritizes herself last. She mentions some family issues brewing between she and her husband (and kids, to some extent) that definitely play a part in this dynamic. Listen in as James and Dr. Steve respond to her email -- then see if you agree with their advice!

A worried listener writes in and asks about her husband--who doesn't seem excited about their upcoming baby. She's pregnant with her first, but he has three from a previous relationship. What would you tell her? James and Dr. Steve give their thoughts... do yours match?

Ever heard of a "situationship"? Dr. Steve hadn't--but a listener question caused James to look up the actual definition, at which time both hosts could dole out some advice to the listener who asked how to get over the ending of one.

A listener writes in and asks about her gifted child. She wonders if she should homeschool or send her child to their regular classroom school. James and Dr. Steve discuss their views on pros and cons.

Common relationship issue-- one partner is cleaner and more organized than the other. Leads to resentment on both sides. What can they do? Get some answers here...

We bought a dog together before we broke up. NOw the dog is dying; should I tell my ex?

When thinking about getting back into the dating scene, how do you know if you're completely over an ex, and when is the right time to date again?

James began recording after a meltdown in the Breakwell household -- so fresh on his mind is the burning question about sibling conflict and/or rivalry: Is it healthy? Dr. Steve helps break down the issue, and then both discuss their experiences growing up, contrasting with their points of view as parents. A strong episode, relevant to anyone with more than one kiddo!

All kids lie as they test their ability to control the world around them... but which lies are okay to let slide, and which should be addressed? Should ALL lies be addressed? Are all lies bad? James and Dr. Steve peel the onion a bit as they break down lying in children and what parents should do in response.

James couldn't get to a listener question this week (don't ask), so he and Dr. Steve discuss how to survive the Shelter in Place. The hosts provide some good tips and ensuing discussion, as they want their listeners to stick around and continue to enjoy life!

Good question this week - a mother writes in and asks about if her two young boys (sons/brothers) should share a bedroom. One son has some personality variables which may make it difficult, but overall it seems mom and dad have a difference of opinion about how to proceed. James and Dr. Steve go both pragmatic and emotion-based in their advice, but give a concerned mother some direction.

A listener writes in and asks if there is anything she can do to ease the couples' current issue: her husband is going to go away to college, for at least one year. James and Dr. Steve break down the problem, and offer different pieces of advice -- see if you agree, as we guide this couple into a tough transition.

A listener writes in with a problem we haven't talked about yet on this show: He works in a special needs facility, and during the COVID furlough, he is getting harrassed via phone by one of the residents. He asks for advice, as his supervisor did not seem to provide any guidance. James and Dr. Steve approach from different directions on this one, but give some good pointers.