How To Be A Submissive Wife

A Submissive Wife should never put friends, family or work in front of her husband. Once you are married, you become one, and your husband is your number one priority. Being married does not mean you cannot spend time with family and friends it means that you put your husband before your family and friends. If you put your family and friends before your husband, then you are risking doing damage to your marriage.

A Submissive should always make sure she stays within her budget. Irresponsible spending puts unnecessary pressure on your husband and your relationship. It is your husband's responsibility to manage the family finances and make sure all the bills get paid. When you do not control your spending you make his job difficult and in some cases impossible and you leave him with no option but to hold you accountable and take a firm stand for your overspending.

A Submissive Wife should protect her marriage at all times. Don't allow friendships with males to put your marriage at risk. Being unfaithful is not restricted to have sex or kissing another person, if you start deleting messages on your phone so your husband does not see them or if you start having secret phone calls you are already unfaithful to your husband. The safest thing is not to put your self in these situations where unhealthy relationships can develop. Stay true and faithful to the man you married, let no one come between you ever

A Submissive Wife should never make any comment to her family or friends that ridicules her husband even if it is in jest making a remark that makes fun or is unkind is disrespectful, and your husband deserves better from his wife. As his wife, you should be his number one fan

Are you guilty of this? Turning on the tears during a disagreement to try to get your own way A Submissive Wife should not try to use tears & emotional blackmail to make her husband change his mind, do not take advantage of his kindness and a soft heart. Are you guilty of this? Turning on the tears during a disagreement to try to get your own way A Submissive Wife should not try to use tears & emotional blackmail to make her husband change his mind, do not take advantage of his kindness and soft heart

A Submissive Wife should make sure that she makes a conscious effort every day to make time for her husband. Your husband needs your affection and he needs your time. The gift of time is precious because once you give it to him you can never get it back and it will mean so much to him. As a married couple, you should Love one another and never stop letting your husband know that you love him.

A Submissive Wife should always be honest if you have done something wrong admit to it don't try to hide what you have done wrong or deny what you have done. Your husband deserves your honesty, and the truth will always come out in the end. If you are not honest, then you will deserve the consequences of being dishonest. Honesty is always the best policy. No matter how bad the problem is.

 A Submissive wife attending social events & parties on her own should remember to dress like a lady and be careful what she drinks. You do not want to attract the unwanted attention of other men. You don't have to be nearly naked to look good, and you don't have to be drunk to enjoy yourself.

Before refusing your husbands advances remember A Submissive Wife should want to submit freely to her husband. If you feel unwell explain this to your husband, don't expect him to be a mind reader When you got married, you became one body and belonged to each other. There is nothing more lonely than a cold marriage bed. The more time you spend being intimate with your husband, the more you will want to be intimate with him the stronger your bond will become.

A Submissive Wife should remember it is only natural and healthy for your relationship to have disagreements in a marriage. What is important is how you conduct yourself in these disagreements, you can disagree with your husband without being disrespectful and hurtful. Do not say things that are designed to hurt your husband's feelings. You love your husband and "Love Is Kind."

A Submissive Wife should never forget the importance of fun and laughter in her marriage. Make time to watch a funny movie together, share jokes with your husband, make each other laugh, the more you laugh together, the more your brains associate fun and happiness when you are together, making your bond even stronger. Your home should be a place of fun not war

Stop trying to change your husband he is who he is. If you were able to change your husband, he would no longer be the man you fell in love with. Is that what you would want to happen.

React in a positive way to what your husband has said How many arguments have started because you reacted in a negative way to something your husband said or did? If you are unable to answer your husband respectfully and positively, then keep your opinion to yourself. Always try to look for the positive in every situation, he is your husband, not your enemy. Would you like it if your husband reacted negatively towards you all the time? He will see negative remarks as a challenge to his authority in the home.

Think about what your husband has said instead of reacting hastily How often do you react to what your husband has said without thinking about it first? Moreover, how often have you overreacted? Engaging your mouth before you engage your brain is one of the biggest causes of petty arguments in a marriage. If you stop and think before you react, you will eliminate lots of petty arguments from your marriage. A calm, considered reply will be received better by your husband; he will listen and be more likely to see your point of view when you talk to him calmly instead of an instant heated reply. Often when you stop and think you will react entirely differently, you will see that what your husband has said is not as bad as you first thought and is not worth an argument and in many cases he is probably right to have said what he said. When you don't stop and think before replying you are creating a more relaxed atmosphere in the home, instant heated replies cause unnecessary tension and in some cases, the husband

A Submissive Wife should remember there will be times when she will desire to control her husband. Having these thoughts is a normal part of married life, but you have to fight them, you may see your husband making decisions you would make differently but you have to hold back that urge to take control. Remember that you gave him authority over you the day you married him and that you trust that he will always have your best interests at heart. In a traditional gender role marriage "Your Husband Will Rule Over You"

Learn to listen and let your husband speak without interruption from you Are you guilty of the following: Interrupting your husband when he speaks Finishing his sentences for him Talking over him because you feel what you have to say is more important Looking around instead of at him while he speaks Checking your phone while he speaks Stat talking to another person It is only good manners to stop what you are doing and give your husband your full attention when he speaks. Anything less is disrespectful, and you deserve your husband to hold you accountable for being disrespectful to him. Remember you have two ears and one mouth for a reason

A Submissive Wife should manage her home well, it takes a great deal of skill, and hard work to do it properly, being a Submissive wife is a full-time job 24 hours a day seven days a week with no holidays. As a wife, you have many roles to fill Childminder, Nurse, Cleaner, Cook, Teacher etc. Hopefully, your learning on how to be a good wife will of started when you were a child it is the mother's place to teach her daughters the skills she will need later in life. Unfortunately, modern life is changing how the families live, and many mothers do not have the time or even want to teach their daughters the skills either because they have to work full-time jobs then come home and start again or that they have modern views on marriage. There is now lots of pressure on young women not to be "Submissive" in the home; women get told that she should be in charge as well. The sad fact is that it has never been harder than it is now for a young woman to get married and live a traditional lifestyle where she is the Submi

A Submissive Wife should not worry about ageing, just because your skin ages, your hair greys and you gain a little weight does not mean that you are no longer desirable to your husband. You are still the same beautiful, radiant woman inside and out; you still have what it takes for your husband. Your husband has aged the same as you; you are growing old together your love for each other will become stronger each day. Your sex life will change with time, things may be slower but this does not mean your husband does not want you, with age comes "experience" you have both learnt over the years how to please each other. The knee-trembler in the kitchen will still happen, not at the same frantic pace but the love you feel will be way more intense than it was Any husband worthy of a Submissive Wife would never think of leaving his wife because she has aged, a worthy husband only sees the beauty in his wife. So stop worrying about ageing and enjoy growing old together

A Submissive Wife should be an active partner in the marriage bed; it is not enough to lie there thinking about your day or the things you have to do. You need to mentally and physically engage with your husband. If you are not careful sex can become tedious for both you and your husband over time. Don't allow sex to become a set routine, vary when and how you make love. Flirt with your husband, make your husband feel wanted. The more effort you put into your sex life, the stronger the bond with your husband will become. Sex is not just for reproduction it is a gift for married couples to enjoy. If you think sex for pleasure is dirty, wrong or sinful then why were you given a clitoris it's purpose is to provide you with pleasure, nothing that happens is a marriage bed that gives pleasure and does not harm or hurt is wrong.