How To Be A Submissive Wife

Financial pressures of modern life now mean that many wives have to work and it means that many husbands and wives have to share the household duties between them. In some cases, it is the wife who is the primary income earner while the husband stays at home to tend to the house and children. What should not alter is your husband's position of authority and spiritual leader in the home.

A Submissive wife knows that having a bad attitude when trying to get her point of view across during a disagreement will not help and will only make the situation worse. It is better to talk to him calmly and with respect your husband deserves.

A Submissive Wife knows if she has to sneak about or hide something from her Husband then she has no right to be doing what she is doing. Always be open and truthful to your husband. There is nothing that husband and wife should not be able to tell each other.

A Submissive Wife should remember that marriage is a union of two people Husband & wife. Do not share your intimate secrets with friends your marriage is not a community project that gets discussed and commented on by your friends. Your friends do not need to know when and how you made love or why you and your husband disagree. Show your husband the respect and privacy he deserves. The only person you should discuss your intimate details with is your husband; he is the only one whose opinion that matters.

A Submissive wife should remember if you are feeling tired and you reject your husband's romantic advances his brain is wired differently to yours where sex is concerned, and he will see your rejection differently than you just being tired, he will see it as rejecting him. You might not feel in the mood at first but if you allow your mind to unwind from the day while taking things slowly and think romantic thoughts your body will soon catch up. So instead of instant rejection start slowly and let nature take its course.

A Submissive Wife should remember to dress modestly when out of the house without her husband; you do not want to send out the wrong signals and attract attention from other men. You can look classy and stylish in modest clothing you do not have to look frumpy,  Dress with class, your smile is what people notice and remember not your chest.

If your marriage is not what it used to be and the flame is dying. Ask yourself does this verse apply to you and your marriage "If you are too lazy to plough then don't expect a harvest." If you don't put effort into your marriage how can you expect it to grow and thrive? Marriage is a life long commitment that needs attention and effort if you don't give it love and care your relationship will wither and die.

As a Submissive Wife, you should always be striving to be the best wife you can be. Help and support him every day and always be the one he knows he can rely on to be in his corner. If you want the husband of your dreams, you have to be the Wife he always prayed he would marry.

As a Submissive Wife, you have to remember it is not just your tongue you have to learn to control. You also have to learn to manage the look you give him and to stop rolling your eyes. Yes, ladies, he does notice you disrespectfully rolling your eyes. Often your look can say more than any words coming from your tongue. Learning control is going to take some work at first, but it will pay dividends

A Submissive Wife should not criticise her husband's choices. It is rude and disrespectful to criticise him if you think he has made a wrong choice look for a respectful way to get your message across and learn to trust his choices and that he has your best interests at heart. If you think his judgement is that wrong remember that asking you to marry him was one of his choices

As a Submissive wife, it is not always going to be easy to submit to your husband. If you are finding it hard to submit to your husband's will and follow his lead remember to pray for help & guidance so that you will be more open to submitting to your husband's will.

As a Submissive Wife in this modern world, you will encounter lots of contempt for your lifestyle choice, don't take any notice of other peoples negative opinions about your lifestyle choice. It is your life, and you have the right to live your life as you wish. You know that living a life where you submit to your husband and follow his lead is what makes you happy and that is all that matters. No one has the right to tell you that you are wrong for what you believe is the right way to live.

Sadly modern society is attacking the authority of the man in the home and family values are suffering because of this, more and more parents are treating their children as though they are best mates. You and your husband are not their friends you are their parents, the two people your children can rely on and who should be teaching them right from wrong and how to behave. Your children need a Father who leads his house and a mother who supports her husband.

A Submissive Wife should remember that men and women were not created to be able to do the same things as good as each other. Men are good at providing and building while women are good at caring and homemaking. It does not mean that one is superior to the other. They are both equal in value and were created to complement each other; there is nothing wrong with traditional gender roles.

When your husband comes home from work, let him have time to unwind before you start telling him all about your day and it's problems. He will want to hear about your day but not the minute he walks through the door. Let him take his shoes off make him a drink and let him unwind a little first. Save your news for the dinner table.

Sex is not just something you provide for your husband's satisfaction The purpose of sex is to create connection and oneness with each other, so don't take the attitude of lying back and letting him get on with it, instead grab the opportunity to become one with your husband both physically and mentally. Sex was given to us for pleasure

Don't bring other people into your bedroom. There should only be you and your husband, do not bring your phone to bed with you. Focus on your husband and not on your social media feed. Your husband is the one that matters, and he will still be there when all the online friends have long gone

The grass is not greener on the other side of the fence it only looks like it. Please do not compare your husbands against other men; they will have different strengths and weaknesses, this does not mean that they are better than him. Your friends may go on about how their husband is good at this and that or buy them things you wish you had. Remember the reasons you fell in love with your husband; no other man has the same qualities he has. He is a complete package good and bad.

A Submissive Wife should take great pride in looking after the home. I advise you have a daily cleaning schedule done with jobs for each day. List your daily jobs such as making beds and your weekly jobs such as cleaning bedrooms. Spread the jobs out, so all rooms are cleaned each week. Having a set rota ensures all jobs get done and get split into manageable tasks, so you don't have all the jobs to do at once. For those wives who are not good with time management or suffer from procrastination, your husband can hold you accountable for all jobs getting done each day /week. Being organised and knowing what has to be done each day does make life easier and less stressful

If you want a husband that will show you respect, you have to be a wife worthy of his respect. You have to Be humble, kind, gentle, modest and always be on your husband's side, even when times get tough. You have to be the wife he knows will always give him an honest opinion. However, do it with respect even if your opinion differs from his viewpoint.