Tj Loefflers Audio Channel

Have you ever thought about what you're coming into agreement with in your daily conversations? Learn how to break the power of lies --- and why it's important. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Agreements are reflections of our beliefs. But we're not always aware how those beliefs are impacting us physically. For example, did you know that when we're driven by fear we're actually operating out of a survival instinct that narrows our focus and therefore prevents us from seeing opportunity? Something to chew on. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We're imperfect people. So how can you have authentic confidence if you know you'll inevitably fail? For me, the key to authentic confidence comes from finding strength in my weakness. And seeing how God is still faithful to help and strengthen me.   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Have you ever wondered why you're stuck in unhealthy patterns? This short clip will explain a new perspective. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We often make the mistake of thinking that more confidence comes from more "doing". But authentic confidence starts at the foundation of who we choose to be --- in our character. God values our character because He knows it's the foundation. Are there specific ways of thinking or behaving God wants you to change? Think about it. Ask Him. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This new season is all about what you can "absorb", not what you can "consume". If you've ever been "afraid of the unknown", this episode has a powerful truth waiting for you. The unknown existed well before COVID. People want to blame the pandemic. But the pandemic just revealed the truth that existed well before it. Instead of living in fear of the unknown, what if you woke up each day valuing the gift of being present? Would it change any decisions? See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Don't change who you are...but maybe you need to change who you are. Learn the difference between who God designed you to be and your reality. And get the right mindset you need to feel empowered to make those changes immediately. In this episode you'll learn about what identity practically means, and you'll leave with a new perspective about "how to stay true"...in a world that wants to do nothing but change you. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Even if you're already naturally great at relationships, this episode as something for you. I'm drawing out lessons from some practical stories to help you cultivate better relationships in your life - daily. Stay until the end to learn about an often overlooked idea regarding roles and responsibilities, relational duality, and a few other important things to help you stay healthy as you grow. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Getting raw and real here. My goal is for you to get a new perspective on what the healing journey can look like. You'll learn about the culture of honor vs. manners, the dysfunction that can exist in relationships through upbringing, relational rupturing and how that ended.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode will transform your relationships. Relationships are never meant to be based on false / misguided loyalty or obligation. If you've experienced any kind of toxic relationships (work, church, family, friends, and love life), this episode is for you. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Agreement is the foundation to any relationship. In this episode we're diving into the more fundamental agreements like, "Who or what do you give authority to?" The answer to this question is what's going to govern your decisions - which will ultimately impact your relationships. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What does it mean to be healthy in relationships? You don't have to have something be immediately or obviously "wrong" in your relationships to work on improving them. In this episode we're going to go deeper --- diving into the idea of "healing" and how that even impacts how we perceive what other people say. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Are you evaluating your own relationships right now? Learn how to have healthy relationships through growing in your awareness about dysfunction that be hiding in your existing relationships. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Sometimes the other person doesn’t know what they need. Sometimes they’re in so much pain they might not even be thinking clearly. So what do you do? Do you choose to lean in or let them be? If you’ve been in an up and down relationship, how do you know when the other person is ready? Join this honest, unscripted, zero hype conversation with my wife Savannah to hear some lessons we’ve discovered on our journey. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

You may choose to be with someone totally different than your preconceived ideas of what you expected. Join this honest, unscripted, zero hype conversation with my wife Savannah. We’re authentically sharing the perspective we’ve gained from reconciling major differences in education, faith, family, upbringing, communication style...among others. Can you really overcome this? Yes. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

You don’t have to be perfect to find the person you’re going to be with. Join this honest, unscripted, zero hype conversation with my wife Savannah. You’ll hear about some of the real challenges and growth that can happen when two broken people choose to pursue Jesus in their relationship. My wife has shown me a different way of thinking about how to live my life. Whether you’re a man or a woman, single or married, I believe anyone can benefit from her perspective. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This was a great (late) episode we wanted to be sure was included in Season 3 so now you can listen to this "bonus" addition. Learn why awareness is the first and most important step to improving your sleep and resetting your body, the science behind the two most important hormones supporting your natural circadian rhythm, and five very practical strategies to help you achieve the rest you need. Shift your sleep psychology in this bonus episode with Naturopathic Physician and Executive Emotional Health Coach, Dr. Karthik Ramanan. PS - thanks for being patient with the less than ideal quality audio on my end during this episode :) For more on sleep and all the six core pillars you need to establish a healthy foundation to a more fulfilling life, grab a copy of my book at corepillars.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This is for you if you've only known God through "religion" but not "relationship". Jesus came to leave us with an opportunity to be with Him. We get to experience His presence and power in our life every day, if we let Him. It's through these encounters that my life and my heart has really been transformed. It's one thing to know God exists. It's another thing to know He knows you exist. You may have gone to "Church" growing up, or your parents taught you how to "live right". But do you know how to live "free"? Are we adhering to rules from a manuscript or are we choosing to live from a place of authentic faith because we've been encountered by a God who has changed us by His love? I hope these stories inspire you and help you strengthen your faith. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Listen to this live Q&A with founder and career strategist, Jena Viviano. In this session you'll learn how to know when it's time to "quit", three steps anyone can use to make their own career pivot, a simple strategy (and script!) to make $10k+ in less than 10 minutes, what to do when you're good at a job you don't like and how to know if you're made to start your own business, tips to navigate positioning in a totally new industry, gaps on a resume, getting your first client, overcoming rejection, and more. If you're at a point where you're tired of overworking your way to fulfillment, learn more about working with us: https://tjloeffler.com/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Claire and I first got connected through a friend that asked for her clinical feedback about my podcast episode titled "Anxiety" (Season 2). Since then she's contributed commentary in my book "Back to Basics" and been such a valuable friend, connection and now partner in work. This session was very engaging, especially if you're looking for practical tools and wisdom that will help you get reconnected to your full self. You'll learn what being "anxious" actually means, what's healthy vs. unhealthy emotionally, how your emotions connect to your body, apractical process for acknowledging your emotions, the difference between emotions and feelings, "name it to tame it" and other new skills to change old habits of shutting down emotions, and more.   If you'd like to grab a copy of my book, visit corepillars.com See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.