The Susan Winter Show

You loved each other— so why did it still fall apart? Discover the hidden reasons couples break up even when the love is real. Here’s what no one tells you about the heartbreak that makes no sense.It can seem as though the breakup makes no sense when love is involved. But sometimes love is not enough. Here are the reasons a relationship can end when two people still love each other:Unresolved Internal ConfusionPersonal Growth NeedsLoss of Self and IdentityRelationship Reality vs FantasyWork with Me:Consultation:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

You’re trying to recover from a breakup and need to move on. BUT… you’re still hoping for a future together. Can the two desires exist simultaneously? Here’s how this works: #breakuprecoveryGrieve- But Move OnHope- But Move OnPrepare For Both OutcomesWork with Me:Consultation:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

The Empath’s Romantic DownfallEmpaths face a hidden challenge: absorbing too much of others emotions can block the ability to find a mutually loving partnership. Here’s how to overcome this inherent issue and receive the depth of love you deserve. #empathsOver giving and OverdoingRecalibrating Your EnergyOpening to Receive and be LovedWork with Me:Consultation:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

The dating and relationship world is rife with blindsided breakups. Is this the hallmark of an Avoidant? Counsellor Ken Reid is here to discuss Fearful and Dismissive Avoidants and explain why this heartbreaking scenario is so often the upshot of their relationship trajectory.Counsellor Ken Reid is the go-to source for all things ATTACHMENT THEORY. His work includes relationship challenges, breakups, grief, and communication skills. He also serves the LGBTQIA+ community.Defining fearful and dismissive avoidantsHallmarks and “Tells” of an AvoidantThe Blindsided Breakup StrategyWebsite: https://www.kenreidcounselling.com.auSpotify: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kenreadsWork with Me:Consultation:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: Ti

How can they say, "I'll always love you,” then leave? The pain, confusion, and heartache demand answers. Here's how to make sense of it and move forward. The emotional whiplash is devastating—one moment, you feel safe in their love, the next, you’re left questioning everything. It shatters your trust, making you wonder if anything they said was ever real.Why Did They Do It?Did They Ever Love Me?How To Handle It.Work with Me:Consultation:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Are you unconsciously driving your partner away? What appears as helpful information can also be why they’re losing interest, attraction, and desire. Here’s how to get back on course and reignite your relationship.Your Attempt to Fix ThemPulling Away and Losing InterestCommunicating DifferentlyWork with Me:Consultation:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

The avoidant craves you when you're distant but loses interest when you're available. Hot/cold. Push/pull. It will remain the same… until you do this: #DismissiveAvoidant #HotandColdThe avoidant’s attraction is fueled by longing, not love. It’s easy to hope your absence has sparked their desire. But once you’re back in their arms, their fear of engulfment triggers them to pull away. This cycle keeps them uncommitted, always seeking greener grass while leaving you questioning if the connection was ever real. The Avoidant’s Push-Pull Dynamics Their Fear of Intimacy Ending Your Emotional RollercoasterWork with Me:Consultation:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Don’t Fall for This!Learn how the ‘frailty factor’ blindsides you every time. Here's how cons and scammers break your heart (and bank account)— and how realizing this dynamic shuts it down. #healthydating #scammers #onlinescams #romancescams #datinggamesHuman beings are built to love and be loved. It’s our natural desire. But in the hopes of being loved, we’re also vulnerable to those who’d prey upon us. Awareness of our internal weakness will assist us in filtering out the scammers from truly interested partners. What Is The ‘Frailty Factor’ Identifying its Hallmarks Self-Correction, Boundaries, ReassessmentWork with Me:Consultation:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Unleash Your Personal Power-What is personal empowerment? What does it look like? How do we get it? My interview with award-winning Wellness and Relationship coach Teresha Young answers these questions and offers directives for setting boundaries, communicating effectively, and trusting yourself. What is Empowerment? What does it look like in the real world? How do we cultivate it?Website:https://tereshayoung.comPodcast:https://tereshayoung.com/real-ationship-talk-the-podcastYouTube channel:https://www.youtube.com/c/tereshayoungWork with Me:Consultation:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Are you together, broken up, or something in between? Relationship limbo put you in a state of ongoing anxiety and confusion. Here are the steps to gain clarity and remove the mixed messages and ambiguity. Mixed Messages Delaying DTR Uncertainty About Your Future Communication TipsWork with Me:Consultation:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Do you know how to love yourself unconditionally? Does it seem like an impossible task? Here’s what it takes to get into agreement with yourself, your choices, and your journey.Stop ComparingMacro not Micro YOUThe ‘Dirty Mirror’ RealizationWhere Self-Love Went WrongWork with Me:Consultation:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Expressing sexual preferences can be challenging. In this interview, America's leading midlife dating and relationship coach, Jonathan Aslay, provides clear guidelines and practical speaking points to help you communicate your desires with confidence and ease.Stating Your PreferencesDating Contracts, Exclusivity, and Romantic GoalsFeedback and Honest DialogueYoutube:JonathonAslaywww.jonathonaslay.comWork with Me:Consultation:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Tired of dead-end relationships? Are you filtering for love? Or just wasting time. Here’s how to know if someone wants what you want and wants it with YOU. Filter From the Start Clarify Your Goals Discern, Assess, and Be DecisiveWork with Me:Consultation:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Unlock the secrets of magnetic attraction. Discover the 3 proven strategies to becoming irresistibly desirable and alluring. If you’re looking lasting success in relationships, these factors make you stand out and captivate effortlessly. True interest in others. Ask questions about them. Warm personality – opposite of cold/aloof (which equals fear/protection) Conversational skills – knowledge of various topicsWork with Me:Consultation:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Obsessed with your ex and stuck in a breakup loop? Learn how negative scripts hijack your mind and keep you from moving on—here’s how to break free and reclaim your peace. #BreakupAdvice #MoveOn If he/she doesn’t want me = no one will.They are irreplaceableThey’ll give all their love to someone elseUnnecessary suffering, through negative overthinking and projectionWork with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

You have innate human rights as a dater. Know what constitutes proper treatment, and what is unacceptable. Here’s how to communicate your needs so that they will be honored. #DatingRightsYour Right to be RespectedRespecting OthersBoundaries and ResentmentsHow to Communicate Your NeedsWork with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Are You Subconsciously Dating for Approval? Men date women for the approval of other men. Women date men for the approval of other women. Here’s how the desire for social approval impacts mate selection and our future happiness. #ApprovalPrisonSocial InfluenceGroup Acceptance and StatusIndependent ThinkingAuthentic Choice of MateWork with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

You can feel it—they’re pulling away but insist everything’s fine. Who’s right: your gut or their words? Here’s how to uncover the truth:Is It Your Fear or Their Actions/Inactions?How to Speak UpLanguage and ToneHonest CommunicationAnswersWork with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Are you stuck in 'The Approval Prison,' constantly chasing likes, status, or validation? Learn how external evaluation systems keep you trapped and discover the key to securing real self-worth on your terms.Externalized Version of WorthSecuring Inner WorthSocial Media ConformityAccepting Your ChoicesWork with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

The partner you say you want isn’t the one you’re actually choosing. Why? It’s the Dating Paradox. Learn how to stop picking the wrong person and get out of your own way. Here’s how to find lasting love.The Dating ParadoxWhy We Choose Blindly (with our eyes)Edifying Our EgoSocial Status and Peer ApprovalWork with Me:Consultation:The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle:The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile