The Susan Winter Show

Do you know how to love yourself unconditionally? Does it seem like an impossible task? Here’s what it takes to get into agreement with yourself, your choices, and your journey.Stop ComparingMacro not Micro YOUThe ‘Dirty Mirror’ RealizationWhere Self-Love Went WrongWork with Me:Consultation:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Expressing sexual preferences can be challenging. In this interview, America's leading midlife dating and relationship coach, Jonathan Aslay, provides clear guidelines and practical speaking points to help you communicate your desires with confidence and ease.Stating Your PreferencesDating Contracts, Exclusivity, and Romantic GoalsFeedback and Honest DialogueYoutube:JonathonAslaywww.jonathonaslay.comWork with Me:Consultation:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Tired of dead-end relationships? Are you filtering for love? Or just wasting time. Here’s how to know if someone wants what you want and wants it with YOU. Filter From the Start Clarify Your Goals Discern, Assess, and Be DecisiveWork with Me:Consultation:Books:Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:Connect with Me!Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

   Unlock the secrets of magnetic attraction. Discover the 3 proven strategies to becoming irresistibly desirable and alluring. If you’re looking lasting success in relationships, these factors make you stand out and captivate effortlessly. True interest in others. Ask questions about them. Warm personality – opposite of cold/aloof (which equals fear/protection) Conversational skills – knowledge of various topics Work with Me:Consultation: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

   Obsessed with your ex and stuck in a breakup loop? Learn how negative scripts hijack your mind and keep you from moving on—here’s how to break free and reclaim your peace. #BreakupAdvice #MoveOn  1.     If he/she doesn’t want me = no one will. 2.     They are irreplaceable  3.     They’ll give all their love to someone else 4.     Unnecessary suffering, through negative overthinking and projection Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

   You can feel it—they’re pulling away but insist everything’s fine. Who’s right: your gut or their words? Here’s how to uncover the truth: 1.     Is It Your Fear or Their Actions/Inactions? 2.     How to Speak Up 3.     Language and Tone 4.     Honest Communication  5.     Answers Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

   Are you stuck in 'The Approval Prison,' constantly chasing likes, status, or validation? Learn how external evaluation systems keep you trapped and discover the key to securing real self-worth on your terms.  1.    Externalized Version of Worth 2.    Securing Inner Worth 3.    Social Media Conformity 4.    Accepting Your Choices Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

   The partner you say you want isn’t the one you’re actually choosing. Why? It’s the Dating Paradox. Learn how to stop picking the wrong person and get out of your own way. Here’s how to find lasting love. 1.     The Dating Paradox 2.     Why We Choose Blindly (with our eyes) 3.    Edifying Our Ego 4.    Social Status and Peer Approval Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

   Rejection hurts. And it’s hard not to personalize it. But what if the real reason someone walked away has nothing to do with you as a person? Here’s how to decode the real reason for their rejection and gain insight to the bigger picture at hand. Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

   We often hear in dating advice, “Don’t give your power away.” How does that look in the real world? Here’s how to never feel like you’ve lost your power, no matter the circumstance. 1. Power Dynamics In A Relationship 2. Keeping Control, Independent Of Circumstances 3. How To Do It Examples Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

   Feeling judged? Here’s Why—Being judged hurts, but it says more about them than you. Here’s the reason and how to confidently flip the tables to your favor.   1. Judgement Speaks Volumes About the Judger 2. Fear of Difference and the Unknown 3. Only Two Positions- Open/Closed 4. The Closed Position 5. Evolving Toward Open Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

   Obsession enables us to ignore red flags. We’ve locked onto the moment we felt desired and adored. Now, that moments gone. But we’re still trapped in a loop of yearning...until we understand the Relevancy Principle.  1.     The Mental Snapshot That Hooked You 2.     Why We Ignore Red Flags  3.     Assessing Present Behavior- Relevancy Principle Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

   Is your obsession real love or just loneliness playing tricks on you? Here’s how to pull back the curtain on lingering feelings of melancholy and determine the truth of your feelings. Here’s how to view our ex in totality and see the complete picture in full dimension.  1.    How To Know If It’s Love Or Loneliness 2.    How And Why You Got Stuck 3.    Deconstructing Your ‘Perfect Partner’ 4.    Clarity = Freedom From Melancholy Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: Ti

   Thinking of getting back with your ex? Learn to spot the line between positive hope and harmful delusion. Here’s how to get what you truly want… 1.    Consider the past- positive or negative 2.    Are there lingering unresolved issues? 3.    Do they care to try again? Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

   Thinking of getting back with your ex? Learn to spot the line between positive hope and harmful delusion. Here’s how to get what you truly want… 1.    Consider the past- positive or negative 2.    Are there lingering unresolved issues? 3.    Do they care to try again? Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

We often hear it said that you have to love yourself before you can love someone else. But is that true? And, what about your partner? Can they love you if they don’t love themselves? Here’s the surprising answer:  1.    How do you know if you love yourself? 2.    How do you know if your partner loves themselves? 3.    How important are these two factors in a relationship? 4.    What’s the line between narcissism and self-love? Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profil

How slow is ‘too slow’ in dating? What’s the difference between waiting and wasting time? Here’s how to tell if your partner’s legitimately setting a reasonable pace as opposed to playing you. We know ‘too hot too soon’ will ruin a relationship. But what about too slow? When is slow way too slow?  1.    The Difference Between Pace and Playing You 2.    Setting a Reasonable Timeframe 3.    Self-Worth vs. ‘The Dream’ How do you tell your new dating app match that you want to keep your options open and see others before committing? Here’s how to handle this early relationship conversation with diplomacy and ease. Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook:

   Has your self-esteem taken a hit from too much dating drama? Are you starting to doubt yourself? Questioning your instincts or wondering if there’s something wrong with you? Here are some tips on how to gain (and maintain) your self-esteem.   Gaining and maintaining self-esteem during the ups and downs of modern dating can be exhausting. One minute you’re up in the hopes that you’ve met somebody, the next minute they reveal themselves to be false. Not to worry. There is a way to survive and thrive in modern dating. Here’s how:   1.     The Key to Staying Centered 2.     Discerning Your Stuff vs Their Stuff 3.     Creating a Positive Vision for the Future Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Ver

How do you tell your new dating app match that you want to keep your options open and see others before committing? Here’s how to handle this early relationship conversation with diplomacy and ease. Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: Instagram ProfileTwitter: Twitter ProfileFacebook: Facebook PageLinkedIn: LinkedIn ProfileTikTok: TikTok Profile

Wondering if your player has any real feelings for you? Here’s what you need to know about your hot and cold player, and how they play the game.   The reality of dating a player can be excruciating. Their attention is intoxicating. It seemed like they truly cared… Until they didn’t. You can often get hung up and wondering if they ever cared at all. Here is the better line of thinking to assist you in your recovery and future partnerships. 1.      You Can’t Change a Player 2.      Assessing What Really Happened 3.      Charting a Course Forward Work with Me:Consultation: The Dating Games Guide: Dating Games Decoded Bundle: The Older Women | Younger Men Dating Guide: Older Women and Younger Men Bundle: Books: Breakup Triage; The Cure for Heartache AudibleAllowing Magnificence; Living the Expanded Version of Your Life - Book and Audiobook: Connect with Me! Website: susanwinter.netYouTube: YouTube ChannelInstagram: I