Healing Broken Trust | Affair Recovery | Marriage Help | Couples Therapy | Infidelity | Cheating | Relationships | Marriage C

We've compiled 12 warnings signs that someone is vulnerable to cheating. In this episode we talk about 3 of them. You can download the full report at healingbrokentrust.com/dangersigns

Pornography many times leads to infidelity. We discuss how porn can influence a person to be unfaithful and a few ways you can protect yourself and your marriage. We have partnered with Covenant Eyes so if you are wanting a resource to keep porn out of your home this can help: https://covenanteyes.com/affiliates/idevaffiliate.php?id=1190

This episode is all about the pursuer's affair. We talk a lot about the Avoider's affair but we forget that hey pursuer's have affairs too! You'll find this episode interesting as we take a look at how a pursuer can betray as well. Let us help you heal by going to healingbrokentrust.com

In this episode we talk about what research says about re-engaging the withdrawn spouse. The specific steps you can take to make sure you get the much needed feedback from the partner who traditionally withdraws and pulls away.

Without this missing link you will have a hard time fully recovering after infidelity. Make sure you do this for your relationship!  We even give you 2 actionable things you can do right away to make it happen. Learn how to work with us by visiting healingbrokentrust.com

It can be challenging to encourage the truth as a betrayed partner but in this episode we outline 3 reasons the betrayer struggles to be honest and a few ways you can encourage the truth so you get what you need. Honesty is sometimes hard to come by but this episode is a quick reminder of how to encourage it and we briefly review the most important things to remember Go to healingbrokentrust.com to learn how to get personalized help for your relationship.

We talk about 2 things you can do when they won't end the affair. 

Boundaries are so incredibly important for healing a marriage after infidelity and are important for preventing infidelity as well. If you would like more personalized help visit us at healingbrokentrust.com to learn how we can help you.

Is it wrong for me to check up on my spouse and look through their Facebook and bank accounts? We answer this question in this episode.

We talk about the one thing you need to know when healing after broken trust. We hope you have a wonderful 4th of July full of fun with your family. We are recording this from our hotel room and you'll never guess where we are!

Many times the person who is betrayed wonders what's going on in the mind of their partner who's having an affair. It's important to deal with the reality of the (typical) affair. If you're the betrayed partner, you may only see your partner pushing you away. It's easy to think that they really don't want to be with you....but could they be pushing you away because of their own shame and guilt?  Maybe they're afraid the marriage can't change...so they do things to push you away? Here are a few of the questions we discuss in this episode: Does the affair partner make them happy? Do they normally want to leave for the affair partner and why? What are some of the things the betrayer wants? What do they get out of the forbidden relationship? What is the betrayer thinking when they're unsure if they want to stay married? We answer these questions (and more) in this weeks episode.

A listener submitted question is answered that revolves around the issue of sexual assault that results from infidelity. How do we go from here? What can be done? Will they make it?

Sometimes people contemplate leaving their spouse for the affair partner. Let's talk about if that works and a few things you'll want to consider if you are wanting to leave and possibly marry your affair partner.  Can a relationship built on infidelity work?

Shame comes when we feel rejected.  So when we feel accepted we begin to heal the shame.  How do we feel accepted after infidelity?  We learn to share our vulnerable feelings.  How do we learn to share our vulnerable feelings?  You go to healingbrokentrust.com and book a 1-on-1 retreat.

You're not a failure but your methods are probably failing you. Make sure to avoid these 7 things so you can be sure to succeed in healing after betrayal.

This episode answers the questions why does the betrayer get so defensive when we need to talk about the details and when I ask simple questions about what happened?

It's hard enough dealing with the affair in private but Brad & Morgan provide valuable advice for when the affair becomes public. Whether you're the average person, a CEO of a large company, or a celebrity or high profile person this advice will help you navigate the pain of infidelity in the public eye.

You want the person who betrayed trust to become trustworthy which is completely understandable BUT what happens when the betrayer finds it hard to trust the partner they betrayed? How is this even possible? What you can do now.

Do you feel that your spouse hasn't been totally transparent with the finances? Have you considered doing something to manage your money like the Dave Ramsey method but you can't seem to get it together and you don't know why? Maybe you're the one in the relationship who just can't seem to let your partner into that part of your life and you don't know how to make them happy? This episode will really help you iron out this part of your relationship.

Sometimes children are born because of infidelity. In the midst of your suffering, now there is a little human reminder of your pain. What should you do in a case like this? Listen to find out. Feel free to send us questions at healingbrokentrust.com