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In this powerful and insightful episode of the Father and Joe podcast, Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks delve into the profound topic of vulnerability, particularly in the context of our modern, digitally connected world. With the rise of social media and the pressures it brings, many of us—and our children—are navigating a landscape where personal worth is often judged by likes and comments. But is this really the vulnerability that leads to growth and meaningful relationships?As Father Boniface Hicks eloquently shares, true vulnerability is not about seeking validation from strangers online, but rather about taking the courageous step to be open in our real-world relationships, even when it comes with the risk of getting hurt. "Wisdom needs you. Wisdom is experienced, it's lived knowledge, it's embodied insight," he explains. The conversation challenges the misconception that vulnerability is merely about being exposed to judgment, instead framing it as an essential element of wisdom

In this enlightening episode of "Father and Joe," Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks delve into the transformative power of establishing a consistent prayer life. Discover how building a habitual practice of prayer can not only deepen your relationship with God but also provide profound benefits in your daily life.As Father Boniface shares, "Relationships depend on habits. Relationships depend on regularity." Just as any strong relationship requires consistent effort, so too does our connection with God. The episode explores the importance of making prayer a priority, emphasizing that, "If you’re not advancing, you’re falling away," a concept that applies to both our spiritual and personal lives.For many, the idea of praying more can seem daunting, especially with busy schedules and daily responsibilities. But Father Boniface reassures us, "A lot less time goes a much longer way. 15 minutes of prayer compared to 15 minutes of exercise—you're getting a lot more out of

In this enlightening episode of "Father and Joe," hosts Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks delve into the Gospel of Mark, offering profound insights and reflections on the teachings and miracles of Jesus Christ. Starting with Jesus sending his apostles out in pairs to teach, the discussion spans pivotal events including John the Baptist's assassination and the miraculous feeding of the 5000.Father Boniface shares, “There’s an endless amount that we learn from Jesus’s pedagogy, the way that he forms his disciples, preparing them for various future revelations.” This episode emphasizes the importance of approaching the Bible slowly, thoughtfully, and reflectively, encouraging listeners to immerse themselves in the scriptures beyond the piecemeal Sunday readings.Joe reflects on the apostles' experiences, “Some of them are sitting there thinking they completely messed up because they didn’t have the best story and experience compared to the other ones...But to look at that event, seeing ever

Welcome to another episode of Father and Joe. I’m Joe Rockey, joined by Father Boniface Hicks, as we dive into the recent National Eucharistic Congress held in Indianapolis, an event that has left a lasting impact on thousands of believers across the country.From July 17th to the 21st, Catholics from all over the United States gathered at Lucas Oil Stadium for the first National Eucharistic Congress in 80 years. Father Boniface shares his incredible experience, detailing the profound significance of bringing the Eucharist to a massive crowd of 55,000 attendees."Leaving an NFL training camp to go to an NFL stadium...to actually bring the Eucharist to a massive crowd like that just is absolutely phenomenal," Joe remarks. The event, organized over three years with a significant investment of $22 million, was a bold step taken by the bishops in response to a Pew study indicating that less than a third of Catholics believe in the real presence of Christ in the Eucharist.Father Boniface explains, “The bis

In this enriching episode of the "Father and Joe" podcast, hosts Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks delve into the vital importance of asking for help and recognizing the profound relational dynamics it creates.From the moment we are born, asking for help is an intrinsic part of our human experience. As Joe articulates, "Every time that we're trying to accomplish something that we're not doing entirely by ourselves, we are asking for help." This episode explores the multifaceted ways in which we ask for and give help, often without recognizing the deeper implications of these exchanges.Father Boniface expands on this concept by introducing the "logic of the gift," a term from John Paul II's theology of the body. He explains, "I don't even know fully the gift that I am until I give myself and someone receives the gift and I see the gift that I am through how they receive it." This perspective shifts our understanding from transactional interactions

In this episode of the "Father and Joe" podcast, hosts Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks dive deep into an essential yet often overlooked aspect of human relationships: the power of asking for help.Asking for help can be daunting, perceived as a sign of weakness or failure, and it's something many people struggle with. Joe and Father Boniface discuss why this vital skill is crucial for our development and spiritual growth. They emphasize that "learning how to ask for help because it's a relational skill and it's vital in relationships, and this is really what we're made in the context of and made for."Father Boniface reflects on the vulnerability involved in seeking assistance: "Asking for help is admitting that I don't know. It's admitting weakness. It's admitting that I have something to learn. And it's really putting the other person in a position of power." He shares wisdom from Georges Bernanos' "Diary of a Country Priest&

Welcome to another episode of Father and Joe. I'm Joe Rockey, here with Father Boniface Hicks. Last week, we delved into the importance of identifying your value hierarchy and understanding what you care most about. This week, we’re diving deeper into how we can put our spiritual priorities into practice and truly live a more loving life.Father Boniface beautifully explains that, "We need to know what we're aiming at. We're aiming ultimately at love of the Trinity, which is love within itself is what the Trinity is." He emphasizes the necessity of regular course correction to ensure we're on the right path. But how do we translate this into concrete actions, especially in our relationships?One profound insight Father Boniface shares is, "Have I been as loving as possible towards this person in my life?" This question should be asked in a peaceful, reflective state, perhaps during prayer. He suggests setting aside a dedicated time, whether in the morning, during a lunch

Welcome to another enlightening episode of Father and Joe! I'm Joe Rockey, joined by Father Boniface Hicks, as we delve into the profound impact of truly embracing and living out one's faith. In this episode, we explore the complexities and transformative power of committing fully to a virtuous and holy life, drawing insightful analogies to help understand the journey of faith."Over the last week or so, I've really been thinking about our conversation regarding the numerous variables that can create problems, particularly when discussing social media's net negative impact. We can't isolate variables easily when it involves people in long-term situations," Joe reflects, setting the stage for a deeper discussion on the importance of a steadfast commitment to faith.Father Boniface emphasizes the challenge of living out the faith authentically, comparing it to the dedication required in physical fitness routines: "Those who are all in and truly committed to living a virtuou

Welcome to another enlightening episode of Father and Joe! I'm Joe Rockey, joined by Father Boniface Hicks. In this episode, we delve into the complex topic of judgment—how it permeates our lives, both in social media and in personal interactions, and its role in our spiritual journey."To me, that's a big part of why I believe social media is negative. You're constantly judging each other, good, bad, or ugly," I express as we kick off the conversation. Social media amplifies our natural tendency to judge, often harshly, and this has deep implications on how we interact and perceive one another.Father Boniface offers profound insights, suggesting a distinction between judgment and condemnation. "Is the issue that I'm being judged, or is the issue that I'm being condemned? Those are two different things." This differentiation is crucial, as condemnation often carries a heavier, more negative connotation.We explore biblical references, with Jesus teaching, "Why a

Welcome to another episode of "Father and Joe" with Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks. In this thought-provoking discussion, we tackle a pressing question: "Is social media net more evil than beneficial?" Join us as we explore the complexities of social media and its impact on society, relationships, and personal well-being.Key Quotes from the Episode:"Social media is net more evil than it is beneficial. I get the benefits of it, but on the net, I believe that it's much more negative because of its incentivation package." - Joe Rockey"The call to hospitality, humility, kindness is all out the window. All of these platforms essentially reward extremism." - Joe Rockey"What does good and bad mean? How do you measure that? Maybe we should measure these things around the development of virtue and holiness." - Father Boniface Hicks"The medium is inherently problematic unless there are legal or social pressures to change the algorithms to protect the inn

In this episode of "Father Joe," hosts Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks dive deep into the concept of creating opportunities for goodness and how to follow God in our everyday lives. Reflecting on their previous discussions about Mary and the fourth commandment, they explore the profound idea of making intentional choices that lead us closer to God and enable us to do good in the world.Joe begins by addressing a common question: how can we create opportunities for others to choose goodness and follow God? He emphasizes the importance of making these opportunities explicit and actionable, even though we are not divine beings with the power of the archangel Gabriel. Joe points out, “I think there's a lot more people that will respond to, yes, I will, but they don't want to figure out how to create the opportunity. And the more I believe the opportunities being created are the catalyst to the effect.”Father Boniface responds by highlighting the importance of being in a prayerful state and

Welcome to another insightful episode of Father and Joe! I'm Joe Rockey, joined by Father Boniface Hicks, as we delve into the profound meaning of the 4th Commandment: "Honor your mother and father." In this special episode, we address a listener's question about what it means to honor your parents, especially when their guidance might seem flawed as you grow older.Father Boniface explains the virtue of piety, a subset of justice that acknowledges our inability to repay our parents for giving us life, just as we cannot repay God. "Our parents have always given us something that we can never repay them for," Father Boniface shares, emphasizing that this honor holds true even in difficult circumstances. He acknowledges the complexities of parental relationships, especially for those who have experienced abandonment or abuse, and offers a compassionate perspective on how to navigate these challenging situations while still adhering to the biblical commandment.Father Boniface highlig

Welcome to another enlightening episode of Father & Joe! In this discussion, Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks delve into a thought-provoking question about the significance of Jesus' resurrection compared to his ascension. Joe raises a compelling point about why the ascension is not as emphasized despite its importance. Father Boniface provides deep insights into the theological significance of both events, shedding light on their transformative nature and their implications for human life.As Father Boniface eloquently explains, Jesus' resurrection signifies a fundamental shift in human existence, transforming death into a new form of life permeated with divinity. He contrasts Jesus' resurrection with the resuscitation of Lazarus and the widow of Naim's son, highlighting the unique nature of Jesus' risen life. The ascension, Father Boniface emphasizes, is a consequence of the resurrection, representing Jesus' entry into divine glory and the fulfillment of his salvific mis

Welcome back to another enlightening episode of Father and Joe! In this installment, Joe Rockey and Father Boniface dive deep into the topic of prayer preparation. Join them as they explore practical strategies to set your heart and mind in the right place for a fruitful prayer experience.Father Boniface shares insights from his latest book, "The Hidden Power of Silence in the Mass," revealing five key movements of silence that can enhance your prayer life. From cultivating interior space to anchoring yourself against distractions, they discuss various techniques to create a conducive environment for encountering God.Discover the importance of location, posture, and breathing techniques in fostering a prayerful state of mind. Father Boniface emphasizes the value of transitioning from the secular to the sacred, whether it's in the context of regular prayer or participation in the Mass.Throughout the conversation, Joe and Father Boniface draw parallels between prayer and relationships, highlighti

Welcome to another enlightening episode of Father and Joe! In this profound discussion, Joe Rockey and Father Boniface dive into the depths of understanding priorities through the lens of knowing Jesus. Reflecting on the scripture passage from 1 John, they unravel the complexities of truly knowing someone beyond surface acquaintance. Father Boniface sheds light on the nuances of human relationships and the divine relationship, drawing parallels between earthly dynamics and the divine communion within the Trinity.Joe and Father Boniface explore the intricacies of self-awareness, emphasizing the importance of discerning one's priorities in alignment with the ultimate goal of self-sacrificing love and communion. Through insightful analogies, they illustrate how priorities manifest in various aspects of life, from sports to spiritual growth. Together, they challenge listeners to embark on a journey of self-discovery and intentional living, striving to emulate the priorities exemplified by Jesus Christ.Join F

Welcome to another enlightening episode of Father and Joe, where Joe Rockey and Father Boniface delve into the depths of life's complexities. In this profound discussion, they explore the timeless prayer of serenity and its three fundamental components: wisdom, courage, and serenity. Join them as they unravel the intricacies of discernment and self-awareness, offering valuable insights on how to navigate life's crossroads with faith and resilience. Discover the importance of developing meaningful relationships, embracing diversity of thought, and fostering spiritual growth. Tune in for an enriching conversation that transcends boundaries and empowers you to live with purpose and conviction.Tags:religion, spirituality, prayer of serenity, wisdom, courage, serenity, discernment, self-awareness, faith, resilience, life's crossroads, Father and Joe podcast, Catholicism, Christianity, personal growth, spiritual journey, introspection, philosophical discussion, Christian living, existential questions

Description:Welcome to another insightful episode of Father and Joe, where Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks dive into the intersection of faith, family, and everyday life. In this episode, Joe shares a heartwarming story about teaching his two-year-old son, Joey, about Easter through the visual representations at their local church during Holy Week. Join us as we explore the significance of these church traditions and the lessons they impart to both children and adults alike.Joe recounts his experience with Joey standing before a life-size statue of Jesus in the tomb, sparking a conversation about Jesus's wounds and the concept of resurrection. Father Boniface reflects on the innocence and capacity for spiritual understanding in young children, emphasizing the importance of nurturing their faith from a young age.Throughout the discussion, they touch upon the devotional practices of the Church during Holy Week, including the procession with the dead Christ on Good Friday and the reading of the reproac

Welcome back to another profound episode of Father and Joe, where Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks engage in a thought-provoking conversation about faith, trust, and the mysteries of life. In this episode, Joe shares his deep-seated fears about mortality and the desire for a preview of what lies beyond, likening it to the anticipation of trying out a new flavor of ice cream or watching a movie trailer. Together, they ponder the age-old question: What happens to our souls after death?Father Boniface offers insightful reflections, acknowledging the innate human desire to control the future and alleviate anxiety. He explores the intersection of trust and divine providence, emphasizing the importance of faith in overcoming the fear of the unknown. Drawing from spiritual wisdom and personal anecdotes, Father Boniface sheds light on the deeper meaning behind life's uncertainties and the transformative power of faith.As they delve deeper into the discussion, Joe and Father Boniface contemplate the challenge

Join Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks in this deeply introspective and enlightening episode of Father and Joe as they delve into the complex emotions surrounding mortality and faith. In a candid and heartfelt conversation, Joe opens up about his recent contemplations on death, sharing his fears and uncertainties as he navigates this existential topic. Father Boniface offers profound insights rooted in spiritual wisdom, drawing from the Rule of St. Benedict and his own experiences as a monk. Together, they explore the intersection of fear, trust, and faith, discussing how to embrace gratitude, live fully in the present moment, and entrust our lives to divine providence.Whether you're grappling with similar thoughts or seeking spiritual guidance, this conversation offers valuable perspectives and practical wisdom to help you navigate life's uncertainties with faith and courage. From the ancient teachings of Catholicism to the universal truths of human experience, Father and Joe provide a rich tape

Welcome to another enlightening episode of Father and Joe Podcast, where Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks delve into the depths of faith and offer profound insights into the challenges of modern life. In this episode, they explore the theme of stress through the lens of the Gospels, shedding light on the experiences of Jesus and the early apostles as examples for coping with stress in our own lives.Joe and Father Boniface discuss how certain passages in the Gospels depict Jesus experiencing stress, despite not explicitly stating it. They reflect on Jesus' moments of solitude and prayer, highlighting the importance of surrendering our burdens to God and seeking His guidance in times of distress.Father Boniface shares his insights from Rome, drawing parallels between the stresses faced by early Christians and those encountered in contemporary society. He emphasizes the significance of maintaining faith amidst adversity and finding solace in the teachings of Jesus Christ.Throughout the conversation, Joe