Inner Hoe Uprising

It’s summer body season! But what does that really mean? We’re talking all about insecurity. And we’re touching on topics like Body Dysmorphia along the way. PLUS, the racial origins of fat phobia, why clothing is political, An update on Chrystul Kizer, and the never ending struggle to chill thee fuck out.  IHU WILL BE ON BREAK UNTIL AUGUST 2020. PLEASE DELIGHT IN OUR 200+ EPISODE BODY OF WORK UNTIL WE RETURN.  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/smeEjYlc_90 Bae of the Week: Jari Jones Fuck That (Currents Events): An Update on Chrystul Kizer, the Black 19-year-old survivor of sexual violence currently facing criminal prosecution for actions taken in self-defense against her abuser and trafficker.  Fuck It (Topic of the Day):  A deep dive into insecurities, causes, and how to cope.  Topics include: Imposter Syndrome, Stereotype Threat, Disability, Gender Dysphoria, BDD (Body Dysmorphic Disorder), Fat phobia, Eating Disorder Fuck Me (Our Lives): Akua: Low Self esteem, low self concept & body i

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The hoes chat about the racial impacts of climate change on Black birthing people, power play inside and outside the bedroom, how to date and practice self love when you’re Black in a sea of whiteness, some self care tips on how to further your education, PLUS a review of Disclosure, A new Netflix doc all about  transgender depictions in film and television. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/RUSK1zrMd6E Self Care Tip:  Educate yourself. Akua offers some tips on how to use continuous learning as a form of self care.  Fuck That (Currents Events): Akua explains a new study review that has found that Black birthing people and their unborn children are at a heightened risk of harm due to climate change.  A$$ Media: Sam gives a review of Laverne Cox & Sam Feder’s new Netflix documentary, Disclosure, all about trans representation in Hollywood. Plus a bit on voyeurism and courting culture.  Fuck Me (Our Lives): Akua: Akua has learned that all therapists are Doms, is exploring what power play means on

The hoes chat are celebrating recent wins in the Black Trans community and shouting out the folks who made them possible, doing a deep dive on the concept of hypersexuality, talking about normalizing consent and boundaries in casual dating, saying no to dating people we don’t vibe with, PLUS a review of season 2 of the Netflix series Dating Around.  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/bPGG37t00tA Bae of the Week: The folks who planned the Brooklyn Liberation March for Black Trans lives, those behind the Actions for Solidarity: #BlackTransLivesMatter resource guide, plus Aimee Stephens, Chase Strangio, and Black and Brown the folks who made the Title XII SCOTUS ruling possible.  Fuck It (Topic of the Day): Rob does a deep dive into hypersexuality. What is it, what are some causes, what are some myths, and how hyper sexuality has been used as context-less Twitter fodder as of late. A$$ Media (Content Reviews): Sam Review’s Netflix’s Dating Around Fuck Me (Our Lives): Rob talks about their time weaning

The hoes talk about about love and Black joy in the midst of resistance, homophobic and transphobic hypocrisy, a breakdown of why the decriminalization of sex work is very much a part of the movement to defend Black lives, activist overload, plus we offer some advice for a first time threesome. Watch on YouTube:  https://youtu.be/VrGfl_WIGF8 Our show notes and list resources that supplement this episode are a available in a google doc here:  https://docs.google.com/document/d/1WR-mIu5b2_oCVhJXGkxMurb-RcPrW1HY_tzToPI_f2k/edit SOCIAL MEDIA Join our Facebook Group! “Inner Hoe Uprising CUMmunity” https://bit.ly/2NfFH3A Inner Hoe Uprising| IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin Rebecca| IG @thedarkestimeline | Twitter: @existncrysis |Tumblr: @noneedtomakebeleive Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd  Travel IG: @carmensamdiego  #black #woman #sex #feminist #womanist #Comedy #raunchy #queer #pride #quiltbang #sexuality #lgbtq #lgbt #funny #agender #transgender #nonmonagamy #feminism

Today’s episode is a REWIND of an episode hosted in 2016 by Sam and Shanika all about the importance of an intersectional feminist approach to revolution as well as the necessity of self care in times of resistance. The intro to this episode features Sam, reiterating the ways in which we must look at this moment as it pertains to all Black folks — because whether you’re aware or not All Black folks are suffering under an unjust policing and criminal justice system. Sam also gives out a list of orgs to donate to in order to support the varying intersections of Black folks, orgs to become involved with if you’ve been activated to do the work, and other tips, reminders, media and resources to keep in mind today and everyday.  *Note* The tittle of this episode is an episode title not to be conflated with the organization mentioned in this episode “The Movement For Black Lives”  Watch on this episode Youtube: https://youtu.be/wAxlSC7C38A Here's a Google Doc With all the resources mentioned in this episode: h

The hoes chat about risk mitigation via quarantine pods and secksbuddies, unpacking ableism in your sex life, our good ol friend ethical non-monogamy, a reminder that you are not your trauma, some walks down memory lane, PLUS we fucked up ya’ll and we’re gonna address it and apologize. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/qY1oeeL7xrg Fuck That (Currents Events): How global governments are (or aren’t) advising citizens on engaging in partnered sex during the pandemic. Plus we discuss the move by some folks to opt into Quaranteams, pods, and seksbuddies. And we talk about harm mitigation and risky ‘rona behavior.  Fuck Me (Our Lives): What’s it like making 200 episodes of your fave podcast about sex, love and dating?! Find out here.  Fuck You (Your Lives): A listener calls out our usage of language and ideas that are harmful to survivors and perpetuate rape culture. We read the letter, apologize and respond.  Love & Light to our Hoes of the Week! Hoe(s) of the Week: @ImSoLoveLee, Ajeeezy (AJeezy),

The hoes chat about romance addictions, do you have one -- what’s the science behind that b*llshit and how to deal with it. Plus, a review of the new Netflix film that puts white heteronormative Rom Coms to shame, healing from trauma whilst understanding hyper-sexuality, and the cutest Black Feminist virtual date in the history of all virtual dates.  Watch on Youtube: https://youtu.be/-F3r-dDfXVQ Fuck It (Topic of the Day): Rob does a deep dive into addictions to love and romance.  A$$ Media (Media Review): Sam reviews the Netflix film “The Half of It” Fuck Me (Our Lives): Rob has an epiphany regarding their hyper-sexuality  Fuck You (Your Lives): A listener tells us about how their using Black feminist lit to bond with their partner during isolation. Love & Light to our Hoes of the Week! Dontre H, (MONTRAY), Charmizzy (Charmayne), Gee L (Get Light), Arianna S (Arianna RANDEE), Nikita M (La fan Nikita), Kojo (Konothan Kostarr), Roxxanie (Roxannes Revenge) HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and

The hoes chat about Sam’s new fav podcast all about infidelity in Queens, NY, the laws jeopardizing the wellbeing of survivors on college campuses, Black women flying planes outchea, A new resource for domestic violence victims in quarantine, dating a narcissist -- revisited, healing broken family relationships and much more!  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/UQQAAROcF3A Self Care Tip: Free Uber rides available for domestic, sex violence survivors in Michigan during coronavirus pandemic Fuck That (Currents Events): DeVos’s Rules Bolster Rights of Students Accused of Sexual Misconduct and other Title IX regulation changes Points of discussion include: Colleges and Universities, rape culture, transformative justice and reformative justice, legislation and public comments.  Fuck Me (Our Lives): Rebecca has started therapy and is working on healing her relationship with her sister. Sam Present’s A$$ MEDIA: Sam reviews Domino Sound’s podcast “The Cheat Code”  Fuck You (Your Lives): A listener re

The hoes talk about the ins and outs of virtual sex parties, self care tips for survivors of sexual assault, SXSW’s sexy short film selections, missing periods, how to keep the fire burning when you and your partner are quaranting apart, growing tired of masturbation and much more!  Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/2xhlnLyrjRE  Hoe(s) of the Week: Caroline (North Cackalacky), Joesphina/@xitsjoey (Hunter), Kaysie (KZ), Calvin Peirce Jr (C Jizzy), Aish (Ish), Aurelia (lee lee), Angelica (Pickles), Celeste (Celestial Being), Lucious Lyon (Lona), T Ray Ray, Syd, My pussy power  Self Care Tip: This week self care tip is for survivors of sexual assault who may have found the news and social media triggering this week.  Fuck That (Currents Events): Zoom Says no to  Virtual Play/Sex Parties  PLUS some tips on how to find or make your own virtual sex parties. A$$ Media: Sam reviews the South by Southwest short film selections Fuck Me (Our Lives): Akua is missing romantic relationships AND her peri

The hoes chat about Ramadan for queer muslims, venturing into the wonderful world of Only Fans, sex affirmations, harmful LGBTQIA healthcare legislation, when grief and horniness collide, porn binges, safe guarding our mental and physical health while on the frontlines of that Rona, and much more! Hoe(s) of the Week: Chlotown Brown (Cholotown Brown), Stin K (Stinka), @IG_Hoodgoddess (Hood Goddess), Nigerian Hair (Camille), Tawiwi and Martini (Tawanna and Martina), Marissa L (Zoom), Monica P (Billiards), Kahlia P (Screwdrive), Emma (Degrassi), Lona Lyons(Lucious) and Lizy_gf Bae of the Week: Creator of #ramadanqueerem  @abdimaroodi/@lgbtq_somalis Self Care Tip: Taking care of your mental and physical health as a frontline worker in the time of the ‘Rona Fuck That (Currents Events): The Trump- Pence Administration is moving to Overturn  healthcare protections for LGBTQIA folx in the time of the ‘RONA Fuck Me (Our Lives):  Sam: Needs some time to process trauma Rob: Masturbation affirmations, Sex wor

The hoes chat about conspiracy theories, sex work during the pandemic, MTV Cribs virtual dates, opening up about mental health in your relationship, sheltering in place with toxic family members, quaranting with your partner, and much more! Hoe(s) of the Week:  Briana (Ballsanna), Jason (Vorheezy), Aurien ( an AUROAA ?! ), Shaun (Tell All),  Melini, Martini, Tougher than Nigerian Hair, Dr. E, Earlini, and Tawiwi! And Sweepstakes winner Diana Diaz! Bae of the Week/Self Care Tip: Check out journalist Patrice Peck and her work covering how COVID-19 affects Black people.  Also check out In Those Genes, and their updates on COVID-19 from a science perspective.  Fuck That (Currents Events): An overview of how the COVID-19 pandemic has affected different areas of sex work. Stories include: Japan’s Red Light districts, German Brothels shutting down, US full service sex workers and new personal safety precautions, OnlyFans surge in membership, Influx of sugar daddies and babies on Seeking Arrangement, Instag

The hoes talk about about the FDA ban on blood donations from men who have sex with men, the sweetest virtual date, navigating solo sex while your home with kids, dickheads on dating apps, how to get over ghosting, de-attaching yourself from dick, the beauty of volunteering and much more!  Hoe(s) of the Week: Adaeze  (Amethyst),  Camillion here camillion there tougher than Nigerian hair  Rosemary (Pink Diamond), Jordan (23), Tawiwi, Martini, Tina Belcher, Ray and Ash (aka Chuck and Pikachu), and Chris (topherson)  Self Care Tip: Volunteer while sheltered in place  Fuck That (Currents Events): We cover the FDA’s restrictions on men who have sex with men giving blood. We talk about the history of these restrictions, the science that debunks the restrictions and how these restrictions hinder COVID-19 relief efforts.  Fuck Me (Our Lives): Sam and Akua drew booties virtually over the weekend. Plus Sam gives a cute celestial virtual date idea and both hoes lament over dickheads on dating apps.  Fuck You

The Hoes talk about how to have sex during a pandemic, the beauty of masturbation, virtual drink and draw dates, how to get out of your head during sex, fulfilling your civic duty, a 2 year anniversary of abstinence, nonconsensual edging and much more.  Hoe(s) of the Week: T Ray Ray (Terell), K - 1 Visa (Kaeli), Dimitri! (Marble), DWHOSED?! (Dara), Tawiwi (Tawanna), Mont-gizzy! (AL), and Martini (Matrina) Self Care Tip:  If you live in the US, fill out your census. Fuck That (Currents Events): A discussion on sex and COVID-19 advisory, and how to navigate different kinds of sex and masturbation in the era of dat Rona. Other points of discussion include: Anxiety and sex drive, quarantining with your partner and socially distancing with your kids.  Fuck Me (Our Lives):  Akua: 2 years abstinent from sex! And longing for dating apps Sam: Try a drink and draw virtual date Rob: Non consensual edging plus sex and SSRIs Rodecka: Feeling less desirable and quaranting with a sick partner. Fuck You (Your Liv

The hoes chat about sex trafficking and sex work….theres a big difference and its important that you understand that, social distancing dance parties and karaoke sessions, lost your job during COVID-19 -- we can relate, pandemic dating SUCKS, sex robots are the PERFECT quarantine buddies, THE FUTURE of romance, and much more! Hoe(s) of the Week: AL (Mont-gizzy), Erika (Eazzzzzzy), Karla (K- 2 Visa) Self Care Tip: Dance! Here are some instagram accounts to follow who host virtual dance parties: @dnice, @soulection, @joekay, @raechardonnay, @fwfnyc, @mocada_museum, @museofire, @houseofyes, @hellagaydanceparty, @nowadaysnyc, @hazelmarimba, @dreamwknd, @basquiatsbottle, @everydayppl Fuck That (Currents Events):  How Sex Dolls companies are reacting to the Coronavirus Pandemic.  Fuck Me (Our Lives): Sam shares a new virtual dating idea and the hoes chat a bit about how the pandemic has effected our lives.  Fuck You (Your Lives):  A listener wrote in with a question about porn, addiction, and how to disti

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The hoes talk about about managing coronavirus related anxiety, Good sex positive legislation in the US, glass dildos, intimate partner violence in the times of COVID-19, cute social distancing dates, job hunting as a gen Zer, and more!  Hoe(s) of the Week:  Tia (Tina Belcher), Samantha (Scaff Beezy), Jenn (Kylo Jenn)  Camillion here tougher than nigerian hair (aka Camille), Devon (Nightwing), plus Martini, Tawiwi, and Earlini Self Care Tip: The four step guide to managing corona virus related anxiety  Fuck That (Currents Events): We cover sex positive and pro LGBTQ legislation being passed in the US that you may have missed and talk about how COVID-19 related quarantining may lead to surges in rates of domestic violence.  Fuck Me (Our Lives): Sam suggests some cute socially distant  dates you can try with your bae(s) and Akua discovers she loves a cold hard glass dildo.  Fuck You (Your Lives): Help! I’m a Gen - Zer with little job experience looking for work.  HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and

The Hoes talk about love (or lack there of) in the time of coronavirus, Cute dates to commemorate Women’s History Month, what do when you’re looking for a third but you kinda hate all the people your partner wants to court, finding sex positive friends when you’re over the age of 50, the beauty of gay parties, and more!  Hoe(s) of the Week: Melyssa D - (Mel D), Ophelia K (OK-K-K-AYYYYYY), Sarah (Saturday Night Sarah), T-Ray Ray, Argent (Sargent B!), Charmayne (Charmizzy), Sid (Sid the Kid), Earlini, Dara (D whose D?!), Kaylah (Halyak!), Kendra H (Broadway K), Sleepy, and Emaistr (E-Ma!)  Fuck That (Currents Events): Some not so gentle reminders on how to not act a damn fool during the outbreak of COVID-19 and some more light hearted news on the ridiculous dating lives of folks in the time of corona  The difference between social distancing, isolation and quarantine; can surfaces make you sick?, augmented and virtual reality dates, and crappy dating app openers.  Fuck Me (Our Lives): Sam: Took my

The hoes talk about the importance of a solo bae-cation, dealing with the stigma of an HSV-2 or a genital herpes diagnosis, cocktails and coffee dates, AND we finally answer the age old question — how much are you motherf*ckers really paying for dates? Hoe(s) of the Week:   Caroline (Timb Cackalacky), Kaeli (K - 1 Visa), Karla (K - 2 Visa),   Golden Ambre (The bawdy), Tawiwi, Martini, Mel Lady (Melini), and Earline (Earliny).   Self Care Tip:  Schedule a bae cation with yourself (inspired by @danielleg_19 on instagram) Fuck That (Currents Events): A small scale study reveals how much you mother fckers are reallyyyy spending on a first date. Plus we talk about how different generations and genders deal with money and dating.  Fuck Me (Our Lives): Cute Date suggestion: Coffee Crawl Sam: Cocktail making and a perfume party Rob: Decentering Sex Fuck You (Your Lives):  Help! I’m dealing with internal and external stigma around a recent HSV-2 (genital herpes) diagnosis. HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising

The hoes chat about teen parents and the NYC board of education, when your adult child tells you they want to become a porn star, cute dates for artsy people, plus we answer the age old question — Are there any decent, single, non-homophobic straight men???  Hoe(s) of the Week: Eddy R (Double D), Gustavo M. (Gus Fring), R.D. Lang (The Supreme), Jas (Jazz Hand) Fuck That (Currents Events): The NY department of education’s new initiative to build lactation rooms in schools for teen parents PLUS a brief history of the departments sordid history with teen parents and Akua recounts her history as a teen parent going to high school in Queens.  And Steven Spielberg’s daughter Mikaela Takes Up Career In Porn Industry PLUS we go over some nuance often lost when non-sex workers talk about sex work.  And how would you navigate an older teen child expressing interest in a career in sex work.  Fuck Me (Our Lives): Something to do for Artsy folks into Hip-Hop and Graffiti  Fuck You (Your Lives):  How to navigat