The Dating Den

Marni speaks with Dr. Colin Wilford, a Clinical Psychologist with 27 years in dating and relationship counseling. Dr. Wilford enjoys studying mind-personality dynamics, the power of influence, and leadership. He helps companies with leadership, relationships, and people concerns. During the conversation, he shares his 4 Pillars to Higher Emotional Intelligence and his early-dating ConeXions assessment tool.   Key takeaways from this episode:  Why relationships fail How-to grow emotional intelligence What motivates people What people want from a relationship   The 4 Pillars to Emotional Intelligence [2:10] Marni asks Dr. Wilford about how a woman can determine what motivates the man they are dating or a team member they manage. Dr. Wilford says it is all about passion. He says be upfront and right to the point and ask “What blows your hair back? What gets you up in the morning?”  We all have a passion for something and unless we ask the questions we don't know what motivates people. Most people are thinking