The Dating Den

Dating coach Robbie Kramer joins Marni to share his insights and dive into the dating details from the last episode of The Bachelor, the “Shrimp Gate/Mean Girls” episode. Shanae gets aggressive, again. Clayton seems pretty well put together, yet the producers continue to show a clip of him crying about how broken he is, and no one understands why Rachel is a contestant.   Key takeaways from this episode:  Guys lose interest in girls who do all the work Being aggressive might get you laid but won’t land a long-term relationship Are men afraid you will outshine them? Being blinded by attraction   Look at How Attractive I Am [1:14] Shanae’s out for blood approach may be catching Clayton’s attention for now, but both Marni and Robbie agree that it is a short-term strategy. If she continues to lead with sex after the oats are sewn, she will be left with unanswered texts and no flowers on Valentines’ Day. If a guy is grounded in his masculinity, overly aggressive physical behavior will be a turn-off.  Many women