The Dating Den

Marni, Chris Gillis, and Dr. Emily discuss the emotional trainwreck that was last week’s Bachelorette. Beyond Rachel and Gabby needing therapy, they believe the guys who are left to be high-quality guys. Lessons strained out of the cold soup that was this episode include being realistic about what makes a good, long-term relationship and being present when important milestones are happening.   Takeaways from this episode:   Be clear about what you want early in a relationship Always ask the follow-up question — What do you mean exactly? How to spot a high-quality guy Feeling lovable even when you have childhood trauma   It’s All About Expectations [1:30]   Marni points out that this episode brings to light something many people struggle with — Making sure the person they are interested in has the same expectations and is looking for the same thing as they are. And, the importance of always asking the follow-up question — What do you mean by that exactly?   During this episode, we find out that five