Mom & Mind Podcast | Postpartum | Birth | Pregnancy | Maternal Mental Health |

I want to explore a topic that comes up a LOT in therapy sessions: comparing yourself to others. It’s a trap that many of us are caught in, especially when it comes to engaging in social media. In general, we seem to think that everyone else has their shit together except us. I won’t keep you in suspense, but I’ll tell you upfront that nobody has it together all the time. Why do we spend so much time and energy playing the comparison game? Let’s jump in.  Show Highlights: Parents are particularly vulnerable to making comparisons to others. The top reasons that we compare ourselves to others: societal pressure, social media, curated imagery in TV/movies, and general insecurities The downward spiral of negative self-judgment is a long road toward anxiety, depression, etc. Dr. Kat’s advice: “When it comes to social media, take note of how it makes you feel.” Comparison is seeing a snapshot of someone else’s life and comparing our worst to what looks like their best. Comparison, perfectionism, and people-p