Mastering Singlehood(intro)

Have you noticed everything about dating is backwards in these modern-times? We have been sold a blueprint that doesn’t work to find success in dating, in relationships and ultimately getting married and staying married. As Christians we know what the Bible says regarding marriage. The importance of not being unequally yoked. But have the Church, Christian communities and Christian parents truly model the importance of asking questions to those who are showing in interest/ are wanting to pursue single Christian women? Have they modeled to single men how to prepare for marriage the same way they showcased to single women ? Or Perhaps this is a missing key element: Maybe It’s not just what one does while single or in their relationship that will make it successful or lead to a godly marriage in the end. Maybe it’s also what they did before they ever said yes to a first date? Prior to even dating someone who asked them out to begin with? Like, making a question list for future candidates to answer before going o