Dr. Judy Wtf

When people are careless with your feelings, it is because they do not care. One expression of narcissist traits is being casualized. Examples of that might be: not appropriate acknowledgment on your birthday; not carefully considered on how they treat your property; dismissing your feelings; and even endangering your well being by forgetting to be careful when they close the car door, or look for signs for distress in you when there is a possible emergency situation. Your best strategy is to avoid them all together.

Once you identify the system gone wrong, you gain knowledge and perspective and your psycho projection clears up. You can truly see straight psychological, then you can pull out of the system and identify the problems. Projection and project identification are psychological ways that people become toxically tied and socially effected by the narcissist. Exercise your boundaries, psychoeducate yourself through the mind map system and heal your childhood wounds so that you can become more immune to their abuse.

Can a narcist love? The very short answer is no. They can love themselves but it is hard to expand to other people because they lack empathy. With out empathy it is hard to extend into another persons shoes and feel what they feel. Instead of empathy they relay on control to get what they want. With out therapy, neither the narcissist or the people pleaser will change. They will keep repeating the pattern until they decide to look at the cause behind it and process their emptions.

Critical mothers imprint their daughters with the psycho virus. It is hard to get out of this double dungeon of darkness with out therapy because we tend to buy in and believe the messages we are given. In order to get out of the toxic bond and this particular psychological prison of criticism, it is important to set boundaries and sometimes boundaries that include leaving the system so that we start to grow.

The codependent is hell bent on fixing the narcissist is hell ben on taking. The two have a functional dance. Do your own work before you become a couple if possible so that you can become a healthy individual and merge with another healthy individual. Synergy is the best game of life.

Being married to a narc can make you sick. Most importantly it is important to figure out what attracted you to the person and to heal your own wounds so you can prevent yourself from picking the same pattern. A narcissistic system can traumatize and can create PTSD and complex PTSD. People subject to this environment can develop psychosomatic symptoms as well. People can feel stuck and do not know to break free from this toxic bond.

Infidelity and narcissism are interconnected, however, just because someone is cheating does not make them a narcissist. The narcissist brand of cheating has a condition of apathy and disconnect behind it. Because they are not able to truly connect to their partner they use their partner as a throw away supply. They never truly achieve satisfaction. The hole in the soul never allow them to catch the light and feel nourished by love.

The narcissist and the empath are a good pathological match. While one is consumed by the self, the other is consumed by the feeling of the other. While one is devoid of empathy the other is over empathic and can not rest until they make their partner feel better. The double mask of narcissism is a protective shield of the under belly of the fragile traumatized self. This fragile self is protected by a double layer so that they don't explode or implode and crumble.

Dr. Judy will be speaking about Mental Abuse By Parents In High Conflict Divorce and Recovery From The Effects on the Children

Dr. Judy Rosenberg uses her clinical expertise to analyze the bombshell Oprah Winfrey interview with Meghan Markle and Prince Harry, specifically focused on signs of narcissistic personality disorder in the royal family. Dr. Judy will utilize her groundbreaking Mind Map System to discuss the effects of Meghan’s bi-racial birth family, the wounds of childhood divorce, the painful alienation from her father, the unequal treatment of her and her son Archie and the concerns of racism in the royal family that led her to her emotional breakdown. Dr. Judy will present her analysis live on her Dr. Judy WTF (What the Freud)! show on Thursday 8pm PST on UBNGO radio and YouTube.

Unprotective mothers, by their act of omission, do tremendous damage to their children by not speaking up and keeping them safe. Children who are scapegoated in this way often become the little spose sexually and emotionally. They grow up overstimulated sexually, and often times act out like being promiscuous or filling the whole in the soul by abuse. Betrayal is a common theme and it is difficult to shine the truth light on this dysfunction as the consciousness are both legal and familiar, and is very extreme.

Before you think of divorce, think of mediation. it is less expensive and you have more control and the outcome will be ,pre tailored to your induvial design. When initiating a divorce, have all your ducks in order and gain as much information as possible. If you are fear trigged by the situation, call the experts. Colleen O'Neil:colleen@collenoneil.com

The Inner injured child who is not mirrored and attuned to, is devoid of a healthy core sense of self. As a result of this they do not know how to trust and connect to others. Often times this whole in the soul that they are left with, will create a desire to fill it with substances, unhealthy habits like over eating, electronic devices, or simply turning off and shutting down. In order to develop a true sense of self you have to have healthy parents to build them from the outside in.

Sometimes the effects narcissistic mothers on their daughter are very subtle. Non=verbal communication can cut deep. Hand gestures, non eye contact, smirking, rolling eyes, can create core believes that are i am not loveable. Pay attention to these non-verbal demeaning gestures so you can identify them and heal.

Family estrangement is the result of a system gone wrong. Parents often time alienate their children from each other creating sibling rivalry in order to be in control. Sometimes children are silenced in their needs because parents do not want to emotionally regulate them, so they extinguish their normal childhood means. In order to shift the system out of this narcissistic one, we must go back to the childhood wounds and dismantle negative core beliefs that get triggered to breakdowns.

Narcissistic mothers do not want their daughters to outshine them. as a matter of face they like to use their children to fill the whole in the soul. This leaves terrible psychological scars that live them lost, alone, and worthless unless they are pleasing mother. The healthy independence never develops because there is a toxic pull to stay in the confides of the psychologic family prison. IN order to break free, the daughter must identify these wounds and release the toxic feelings behind the wounds and separate and individuate.

Living with a narcissist can take quite a toll. The effects include, depression anxiety low self esteem aches and pains and feeling like you are going crazy. It is very hard to leave these dynamics, especially when you have years of history or family with the induvial. At the end of the day, you have to make discussions on your best interests and the best interests of your family. There are no right answers, however it is only fair to make a last ditch effect to shift the darkness into the light.