Dr. Judy Wtf

Call-In Show: USA: 323-843-2826 International  - Skype: UBNRADIO2 Every Thursday at 8:00 PM PST (USA). You can also find our Podcasts  iTunes,  Stitcher,  TuneIN  &  iHeartRadio, Google Play Never miss listening to a single Dr. Judy WTF! Click the GEAR ICON next to the RED SUBSCRIBE  button or the BELL ICON to get notifications to your mobile, email or both. THANK YOU for all the call ins!  So much family manipulation to talk about--siblings disconnected because of parents who manipulate family dynamics is a common fallout material of Systems Gone Wrong. The Mind Map is a lens through we can see the dysfunction, so today we broke it all down into the CAUSE, the REACTIONS, and the ENCODING. It is important to recognize that siblings experience their parents differently--the golden child verses the scapegoat may feel like they have two different sets of parents.  When parents need to be the center of attention, they will pit family members against each other. Flying monkeys, disconnection, and CHAOS is the

Splitting is a primitive defense mechanism designed to protect. A child will split their world into black and white because it's easier for them to manage. Two personality disorders who overvalue and devalue relationships are those of the Borderline Personality Disorder and Narcissistic Personality Disorder personality Cluster B's.   They do so for different reasons: BPD's have a weak inner core and fear abandonment, whereas NPD's fear being exposed for their false self (no strong inner core either, but harder shell) and will split when they are hurt.   The key to forming a strong inner core is to start with emotional nutrients--breastfeeding, attuning to the baby/child, and creating an integrative family structure.   We Shrunk That Tune  “Stop Dragging My Heart Around” by Stevie Nicks and Tom Petty (Who died this week)   Get Dr. Judy's Book, “Be The Cause: Healing Human Disconnect”! Available in Book or eBook: http://bit.ly/1Ny1asG and get a FREE consultation with Dr. Judy's staff or speak with her personall

Emotionally unavailable parents can Be The Cause of children becoming emotionally unavailable to themselves and to others. In order to form a healthy human psyche it takes mirroring, attunement and parents that are THERE for their children.   The more "psychological vitamins" we give our children, the stronger their inner core, the more resilient they are and the more they will be capable of forming healthy bonds.   Without this emotional availability, they can have the tendency to shut down and withdraw, get angry, and/or develop symptoms such as anxiety, depression, and what we refer to from a Mind Map perspective as the "hole in the soul."   Reminding everyone to use the PH.D. or Peaceful Healing Dialogue to resolve conflict and get back into reconnecting (Panel 7).   We Shrunk That Tune… “Its My Life”  by No Doubt   Get Dr. Judy's Book, “Be The Cause: Healing Human Disconnect”! Available in Book or eBook: http://bit.ly/1Ny1asG and get a FREE consultation with Dr. Judy's staff or speak with her personally.

Be the Cause! PLEASE LIKE, SHARE, AND COMMENT -- Healing Global Disconnect!   UBN Radio show info: http://bit.ly/2vrdrhO Watch us Live on YouTube Http://bit.ly/2vKGMCc     Call-In Show: USA: 323-843-2826 International  - Skype: UBNRADIO2   Every Thursday at 8:00 PM PST (USA). You can also find our Podcasts  iTunes,  Stitcher,  TuneIN  &  iHeartRadio, Google Play   Never miss listening to a single Dr. Judy WTF! Click the GEAR ICON next to the RED SUBSCRIBE  button or the BELL ICON to get notifications to your mobile, email or both.   Healing Human Disconnect--cell phones provide temporary hole in the soul fillers and although they are a temporary adrenaline rush, they ultimately disconnect us from the people right in front of us.    Thank you every one for sharing your family disconnect, co-worker disconnect stories, and providing all our listeners the opportunity to see that these disconnects start with mother-infant, father-infant disconnect and spread to family, community and global disconnect. Sometime

http://ubnradio.com/shows/dr-judy-wtf/   Immerse yourself in the Mind Map panels 1-9. “Be The Cause: Healing Human Disconnect” Order Dr. Judy's book on Amazon:  http://bit.ly/1OHJu3H   Dr Judy WTF (What the Freud) broadcasts every  Thursday at 8:00 PM Pacific Time in the USA.  You can see us live at  www.UBNradio.com  on Channel 2. It is a call in show.  Get on the Couch with your Emotional Ouch USA – 323-843-2826  or Internationally – SKYPE – UBNradio2 You can find Our Podcasts on:  iHeartRadio, iTunes, Stitcher, & Speaker and TuneIn   Get a FREE consultation with Dr. Judy and speak with Dr. Judy personally. Visit our website for more details at  www.DrJudyWTF.com   Human disconnect is the number one cause of inorganic psychopathology. When parents disconnect from their children they create pain. The reaction to this pain can vary from closing down to becoming clingy. Disconnection causes emotional instability. Sometimes children of emotionally unavailable parents lose trust in the world thinking that pe

Immerse yourself in the Mind Map panels 1-9. “Be The Cause: Healing Human Disconnect” Order Dr. Judy's book on Amazon:  http://bit.ly/1OHJu3H   Dr Judy WTF (What the Freud) broadcasts every  Thursday at 8:00 PM Pacific Time in the USA.  You can see us live at  www.UBNradio.com  on Channel 2. It is a call in show.  Get on the Couch with your Emotional Ouch USA – 323-843-2826  or Internationally – SKYPE – UBNradio2 You can find Our Podcasts on:  iHeartRadio, iTunes, Stitcher, & Speaker and TuneIn   Get a FREE consultation with Dr. Judy and speak with Dr. Judy personally. Visit our website for more details at  www.DrJudyWTF.com   What makes a person emotionally unavailable? From a Mind Map perspective, childhood wounds of neglect or abuse create bad blueprints that communicate to the child and later adult that relationships are not safe on some level. Better to close off and not get too close...   For those who are either emotionally unavailable or are with someone who is emotionally unavailable it is a good

Immerse yourself in the Mind Map panels 1-9. “Be The Cause: Healing Human Disconnect” Order Dr. Judy's book on Amazon:  http://bit.ly/1OHJu3H   Dr Judy WTF (What the Freud) broadcasts every  Thursday at 8:00 PM Pacific Time in the USA.  You can see us live at  www.UBNradio.com  on Channel 2. It is a call in show.  Get on the Couch with your Emotional Ouch USA – 323-843-2826  or Internationally – SKYPE – UBNradio2 You can find Our Podcasts on:  iHeartRadio, iTunes, Stitcher, & Speaker and TuneIn   Get a FREE consultation with Dr. Judy and speak with Dr. Judy personally. Visit our website for more details at  www.DrJudyWTF.com   Signs that you are emotionally unavailable include engaging in defense mechanisms that are clearly disconnecting:  Being on the cell phone when you are on a date or in a conversation, getting high and being emotionally unavailable because you are in an altered state, lacking empathy for the needs of others, are just some signs of emotional unavailability.   Today we discussed that t

Immerse yourself in the Mind Map panels 1-9. “Be The Cause: Healing Human Disconnect” Order Dr. Judy's book on Amazon:  http://bit.ly/1OHJu3H   Dr Judy WTF (What the Freud) broadcasts every  Thursday at 8:00 PM Pacific Time in the USA.  You can see us live at  www.UBNradio.com  on Channel 2. It is a call in show.  Get on the Couch with your Emotional Ouch USA – 323-843-2826  or Internationally – SKYPE – UBNradio2 You can find Our Podcasts on:  iHeartRadio, iTunes, Stitcher, & Speaker and TuneIn   Get a FREE consultation with Dr. Judy and speak with Dr. Judy personally. Visit our website for more details at  www.DrJudyWTF.com   If you want to get somewhere (and it doesn't have to be over the rainbow), it is best to seek a path that can take you there. The Wizard Of Oz, by Frank L. Baum is part of the inspiration behind the Be The Cause System and Mind Map for Healing Human Disconnect.   Dorothy, a metaphor for the person taking the journey to self-discovery, Travels FROM her wounds of childhood  --  she is

Show info: http://ubnradio.com/shows/dr-judy-wtf/   Immerse yourself in the Mind Map panels 1-9. “Be The Cause: Healing Human Disconnect” Order Dr. Judy's book on Amazon:  http://bit.ly/1OHJu3H   Dr Judy WTF (What the Freud) broadcasts every  Thursday at 8:00 PM Pacific Time in the USA.  You can see us live at  www.UBNradio.com  on Channel 2. It is a call in show.  Get on the Couch with your Emotional Ouch USA – 323-843-2826  or Internationally – SKYPE – UBNradio2 You can find Our Podcasts on:  iHeartRadio, iTunes, Stitcher, & Speaker and TuneIn   Get a FREE consultation with Dr. Judy and speak with Dr. Judy personally. Visit our website for more details at  www.DrJudyWTF.com       We Shrunk That Tune – “Free For All” By Ted Nugent

Show info: http://ubnradio.com/shows/dr-judy-wtf/   Battered emotionally? Disconnect with friends, families, and relationships?   Dr Judy WTF (What the Freud) broadcasts every  Thursday at 8:00 PM Pacific Time in the USA.  You can see us live at  www.UBNradio.com  on Channel 2. It is a call in show.  Get on the Couch with your Emotional Ouch USA – 323-843-2826  or Internationally – SKYPE – UBNradio2 You can find Our Podcasts on:  iHeartRadio, iTunes, Stitcher, & Speaker and TuneIn   Get a FREE consultation with Dr. Judy and speak with Dr. Judy personally. Visit our website for more details at  www.DrJudyWTF.com   Flying monkeys are family, friends, co-workers, etc. who do the bidding for the narcissist who wants to demean devalue and destroy a particular individual.   Think of flying monkeys as the PR team promoting the agenda of the narcissist.  For those who suffer at the hands of this horrible "system gone wrong" they feel a deep sense of betrayal. Flying monkeys seem to know that their bread is butter

Show info:  http://ubnradio.com/shows/dr-judy-wtf/   Immerse yourself in the Mind Map panels 1-9. “Be The Cause: Healing Human Disconnect” Order Dr. Judy's book on Amazon:  http://bit.ly/1OHJu3H   Dr Judy WTF (What the Freud) broadcasts every  Thursday at 8:00 PM Pacific Time in the USA.  You can see us live at  www.UBNradio.com  on Channel 2. It is a call in show.  Get on the Couch with your Emotional Ouch USA – 323-843-2826  or Internationally – SKYPE – UBNradio2 You can find Our Podcasts on:  iHeartRadio, iTunes, Stitcher, & Speaker and TuneIn   Get a FREE consultation with Dr. Judy and speak with Dr. Judy personally. Visit our website for more details at  www.DrJudyWTF.com   Thank you everyone for calling in.  Clearly there are a lot of highly sensitive people out there.  Some signs that you are an HSP: skin sensitivity, over sensitive to heat, to food, and to toxic people -- not a bad idea to be sensitive to them! HSP also tend to be more creative and more empathic so you have to watch out for over p