Coaching With Jamee

Purity culture had an impact on many of us. Purity culture was taught to many of us in varying degrees and seems to have began as a way to keep people from making harmful decisions around their sexuality, but instead led to many relationships and marriages starving from a lack of intimacy. My guest today tells us her story of being raised in a high demand religious upbringing and how the messages she absorbed impacted her and her then husband in harmful ways. She shares her story up until where she is today and the healing she went through and how she now helps people heal their wounds that were created by lies around sexuality. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! Connect with Shauna ShaktiMa:

Trauma in our intimate and sexual lives is complex and sometimes difficult to understand. Sometimes women experience a resistance in their sexual relationship and don’t realize that the resistance is because of trauma. In this conversation Jamee has with her guest Meleah Manning, we learn what trauma feels like in the body and easy things you can do TODAY to relieve yourself of the symptoms so you can start to enjoy your sex life instead of dread it. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! Connect with Meleah: * Instagram: @Meleah_Manning www.instagram.com/meleah_manning/  * Website: www.sistersthatstray.com/rra * Free gift for listeners: Masterclass to Overcome Relationship Anxiety & Attract Id

There are many remedies I used (and still use) to overcome intimacy challenges in the bedroom. In this episode I am sharing 4 of those remedies with you. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her private coaching and online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! Online course holiday bundle *expires January 3, 2024 and there are 100 coupons available. https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/comprehensive-bundle Free Sexual success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed): https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sexual-success-for-husbands Link for Ignite Her Supplement: https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart Happy Juice: I drink this daily to balance hormon

Preferences in the bedroom are not that different from opinions and preferences outside the bedroom. For example, we tend to have an easier time accepting our partners different tastes in foods or if they use a top sheet or not, yet so many of us struggle with accepting preferences in the bedrooom when our partners opinions of our intimate lives are different than ours. In this episode we discuss what it looks like to have different ideas around our sex lives with our partners and what we can do to accept our differences and what it looks like to put this into action. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her private coaching and online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! Online course holiday bundle *expires January 2, 2024 and there are 100

*Repost of an old podcast episode from my old podcast* I have noticed that I am much more connected to my spouse than I sometimes perceive. Alot of people have the desire to be emotionally connected to their spouses before they share themselves sexually, but oftentimes aren’t sure how to emotionally connect or they are relying on their spouses to connect and feel helpless in the process. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her private coaching and online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! SAVE $300 (50% OFF) my bundle of online courses. Use code: HALFOFF *expires January 2, 2024 and there are 100 coupons available. https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/comprehensive-bundle Free Sexual success for Husbands online course (lifetime

SAVE $300 (50% OFF) my bundle of online courses. Use code: HALFOFF *expires January 2, 2024 and there are 100 coupons available. https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/comprehensive-bundle I have learned that to stop fighting about all forms of intimacy in my marriage that I didn’t need a system that helped me avoid breakdowns. What I needed was a system that helped me have more breakthroughs. Breakdowns were not a sign that something was wrong. A lack of breakthroughs was the sign that something was off for us. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her private coaching and online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! SAVE $300 (50% OFF) my bundle of online courses. Use code: HALFOFF *expires January 2, 2024 and there are 100 coupons

In this episode we are going to talk about what I’ve learned about sex during perimenopause and then post menopause. For a lot of people this happens after age 50. But some people hit menopause before 50. I’ve had clients ages 19-75. And because I’ve helped many women who are going through the changes that happen after 40 years old I wanted to share what has worked for many of these people. And I myself am currently struggling through perimenopause, so I have my own experiences to share for you to learn from. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her private coaching and online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! Links: Free Sexual success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed):

There are many ways in which I ruined my sex life. But in this episode we navigate four of them so that it’s easier for others to understand and start taking action to improve what they can. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her private coaching and online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life!

It wasn’t easy, but the rewards of making my sex life happy were worth it. I took a look at the most common reasons people (me included) were using to have an unhappy sex life and I challenged those ideas. I noticed that people who had happy and peaceful sex lives didn’t have convenient reasons or excuses for not having sex. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex, stop arguing about sex, learned how to look forward to and enjoy sex, and then how she helps women do the same in her online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! Link for Ignite Her Supplement: https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart Link for my free download, “Switching off your stress response and turning on your rest response”: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/my-downloadable-39807

Was it partly my husbands fault that we were struggling in our sex life? Yes. Was it my job to solve the problem? Yes. Because thinking that this was my husbands problem or even OUR problem to solve kept me stuck in blame and kept us both stuck in our problems. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex, stop arguing about sex, learned how to look forward to and enjoy sex, and then how she helps women do the same in her online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! Link for my free download, “Switching off your stress response and turning on your rest response”: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/my-downloadable-39807

People ask me all the time: how do I increase my desire for sex? How do I raise my capacity to be more connected to my spouse? If you want to have an easier and more fun sex life you typically need to raise your desire and capacity for intimacy. I’ve done that. Part of the work is physical and the other part of the work is mental (and this includes our emotions and the way we relate to our spouses). Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex, stop arguing about sex, learned how to look forward to and enjoy sex, and then how she helps women do the same in her online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! Here is the link to check out all the details of my online program: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/newsexlife?fbclid=PAAabM_AE3_5FfmI5t4wk6UDTtN58QRud3YsTLcOexXXfql9bOVFBbZkVB41g_aem_AcW5A0fihOVZF1WrXMNHqOD8B5QiWHBR6C22WjBHZ3uSLe_imBQNqjg5P8anNXz65G0 Link

Today Jamee shares how she didn’t know that she sucked at sex (but she did) and then how she realized she sucked and how she got better. She shares 4 skills that she practiced that made sex better for her until a great sex life became second nature to her and she didn’t have to work hard or try hard anymore. Here is the link to check out all the details of Jamee’s online program: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/newsexlife?fbclid=PAAabM_AE3_5FfmI5t4wk6UDTtN58QRud3YsTLcOexXXfql9bOVFBbZkVB41g_aem_AcW5A0fihOVZF1WrXMNHqOD8B5QiWHBR6C22WjBHZ3uSLe_imBQNqjg5P8anNXz65G0 Link for Ignite Her Supplement: https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart Link for Jamee’s free download, “Switching off your stress response and turning on your rest response”: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/my-downloadable-39807

For me, there’s a difference between not being in the mood for sex (not feeling like it) and having obligation sex. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex and look forward to and enjoy sex instead. She also shares how she uses the same lessons to help other women do the same in her private coaching and online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! Online program will be paused for enrollment on Oct 3, 2023. Here is the link to check out all the details of my online program: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/newsexlife?fbclid=PAAabM_AE3_5FfmI5t4wk6UDTtN58QRud3YsTLcOexXXfql9bOVFBbZkVB41g_aem_AcW5A0fihOVZF1WrXMNHqOD8B5QiWHBR6C22WjBHZ3uSLe_imBQNqjg5P8anNXz65G0 Link for Ignite Her Supplement: https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping-cart Link for my free download, “Switching off your stress response and turning on your rest response”: https://the-turned

Today, Jamee gets to visit with her friend Corrie Woods who is a coach. Corrie was married for 14 years and is a mom of 5 kids. She chose to divorce within the last couple years and since then she has learned some new lessons about being single and understanding her sexuality. She talks about learning about herself sexually in a marriage and then healing her sexuality outside of a relationship. Welcome to Your Turned on Desire where Jamee talks about the lessons she learned when she decided to stop avoiding sex, stop arguing about sex, learned how to look forward to and enjoy sex, and then how she helps women do the same in her online program. Prepare for something extraordinary because we’re about to create a magnificent sex life! Here is the link to check out all the details of my online program: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/newsexlife?fbclid=PAAabM_AE3_5FfmI5t4wk6UDTtN58QRud3YsTLcOexXXfql9bOVFBbZkVB41g_aem_AcW5A0fihOVZF1WrXMNHqOD8B5QiWHBR6C22WjBHZ3uSLe_imBQNqjg5P8anNXz65G0 Link for Ignit

Desire grows in an environment of love, connection, self respect, and knowing your desires. Sexual and nonsexual desires. When we do anything that takes us out of this environment then it turns down our desire (enter screeching brakes sound*). I share my favorite way to push the gas pedal on desire in this episode.

Sex is meant to be a form of play in our marriages. But in order to understand this we first need to understand what play even is and then how this understanding shows up to make our sex lives better or confusing. When you understand the game of sex, your struggles will melt away. If you don’t understand the game, you’ll stay confused for, well, forever. For $365 a year you get over 100 lessons and replay calls in Jamee’s online program. Plus you’ll enjoy 2 live calls a week with Jamee and as a bonus, a private community with like minded women working through the same struggles and celebrations as you are and private call options. https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire Sexual success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed): https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sexual-success-for-husbands Sometimes our sex hormones need a burst of help. And that is what I use Amares Ignite Her supplement fo

This is a podcast episode I recorded for my friend Corrie’s podcast. Have you ever considered an Orgasm to be a physical, emotional, spiritual and mental experience? As Women, our bodies are built to experience Orgasms in multiple ways. In this episode, We talk about the conditioning us woman have around our bodies and the effects it plays on our sexuality. Whats happening in your intimate relationships is patterned in every area of your life. You are a sovereign human BEing. Your body is yours. It is for YOU. You are in charge of your sexual authority. If you have NEVER had an orgasm, this episode is also for you. The question for todays listeners is this: Does your sexuality exist for someone else or does it exist for you and then you get to choose if you share it and how you want to share it…? Find my online program here: https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/ Find Corrie’s podcast called Be a Woman (Not a Weak Ass Bitch) here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/corrie-woods3/episodes/Be-a-Woman-

Welcome to step 8! This is the final step in the process of going from sex being a frustration in your marriage to being at peace with your sex life and looking forward to and enjoying sex with your spouse. In this episode we discuss what it means to delight in the wonderment that is your life with your spouse and how to keep evolving your sexuality so that you can be at peace with yourself as a woman and also with the man you choose to climb into bed with at the end of each day. After you listen to this episode, if you would like to dive deeper into your relationship with your sexuality because your marriage is important to you, then For $365 a year you get over 100 lessons and replay calls in Jamee’s online program. Plus you’ll enjoy 2 live calls a week with Jamee and as a bonus, a private community with like minded women working through the same struggles and celebrations as you are and private call options. https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire Sexual success for Husbands onlin

This episode is step 7 of 8 that it takes to go from struggling in your sex life to sex being a non issue. For $365 a year you get over 100 lessons and replay calls in Jamee’s online program. Plus you’ll enjoy 2 live calls a week with Jamee and as a bonus, a private community with like minded women working through the same struggles and celebrations as you are and private call options. https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire Sexual success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed): https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sexual-success-for-husbands Sometimes our sex hormones need a burst of help. And that is what I use Amares Ignite Her supplement for. I use it for a couple weeks to a month and feel the increase of arousal and desire and then take a break for a couple weeks and months until I need the boost again. Link for Ignite Her Supplement: https://www.amare.com/188812/en-us/shopping

This is step 6 in the process of making sex a nonissue. This step is called Practice Growing Your Desire. This is where we understand the life of a turned on woman on a deeper level. For $365 a year you get over 100 lessons and replay calls in Jamee’s online program. Plus you’ll enjoy 2 live calls a week with Jamee and as a bonus, a private community with like minded women working through the same struggles and celebrations as you are and private call options. https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/yourturnedondesire Sexual success for Husbands online course (lifetime access, do at your own pace, I update and add curriculum as needed): https://the-turned-on-woman.teachable.com/p/sexual-success-for-husbands Sometimes our sex hormones need a burst of help. And that is what I use Amares Ignite Her supplement for. I use it for a couple weeks to a month and feel the increase of arousal and desire and then take a break for a couple weeks and months until I need the boost again. Link for