How To Be A Submissive Wife

  A Submissive Wife should remember that her Husband's word is the final word. There are no But's.  He is the Head Of The House

 Do not worry about ageing; your husband expects you to grow old with him and with age comes experience. He won’t be unfaithful because you look your age at 50.   He values your love and connection more than youthful skin

A Submissive Wife should remember if she is not an active partner in the bedroom, sex will be boring. Stop thinking about cleaning and work. Focus on pleasuring your Husband the more you give, the more you will receive 

A Submissive Wife should remember it is easy to get carried away with large glasses of wine when with friends. Alcohol loosens your inhibitions & tongue.  Be a wife your husband can be proud of. 

When making social arrangements with friends and family don't take it for granted your Husband will want to go, show him the respect he deserves by asking him if he would like to go

 A Submissive Wife should refrain from gossiping about her friends and neighbours. If you don't have something positive to say about them, don't say anything.   You don't want to embarrass your husband by having the reputation of being the local gossip.

 A submissive wife should be the reason her husband smiles every day

 Write down the reasons why you fell in love with your Husband. When you hit a rough patch remind yourself why you  LOVE HIM also, why you have chosen to submit to his will 

 Submission to your Husband means "Choosing to yield to your Husbands will." This does not mean you are controlled; you are an active participant in the marriage. 

 A Submissive Wife should remember "Children Model What They See" They need to see a healthy loving relationship not a war zone full of bitterness

 A Submissive Wife should remember to take her Husbands side over everyone else. He is your Husband; he deserves your loyalty 

Is complaining about his untidiness worth poisoning your relationship for.   Do you constantly moan and get angry about picking up after him. Stop and think what if he died today, tomorrow you would wish you had his mess to clear up, and you would regret all that wasted time you had spent arguing over something as trivial as a dirty cup left on the table.  You would gladly pick up after him all day if you could get him back.

 If you want your husband to love, cherish and adore you remember this saying before you speak to your husband "Practice using an affirming tone and eliminating a contentious one."

 A Submissive Wife who has trouble controlling her tongue should remember Be quick to listen, slow to speak and even slower to get angry James 1:20 because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires

 A Submissive Wife Can voice her opinions on important household matters, but she should do so with respect.} Do not try to belittle him or prove him wrong. You do not need to raise your voice to be heard; he is not deaf.  Proverbs 31:26 She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue.

 A Submissive Wife should remember her marriage is not a community project. You don't have to justify your lifestyle choice to others

 Don't embarrassed about letting your Husband know what feels good. Sex is a wonderful gift given to both partners to enjoy. If your Husband is not hitting the spot guide him, he knows the more he pleasures you, the more you will want to pleasure him. Communication is the best lubrication

 A Submissive Wife must learn how to communicate her feelings, in a way that is respectful and her Husband understands.   He is not a mind reader

 As a mother, it is your place to teach your children to have respect for other people.   It is not acceptable to allow your children to run wild showing little regard for others.  Learning respect & manners starts at home

 Set aside time each evening to spend with your husband. During this time put your phone in do not disturb mode, turn off all social media & text notifications.   Give your Husband 100% of your attention.