How To Be A Submissive Wife

Your Marriage is designed to last for your lifetime. So instead of thinking you have married the wrong person and then look for excuses to end your marriage Stop and remember why you feel in love with your husband in the beginning and work on how to restore those feelings. If you have to fight, fight for your marriage.

A Submissive Wife should be discreet, not tell others about your husband's shortcomings you would not want him to tell everyone about how you get things wrong and are not always the person you should be. A Submissive wife is a discreet, humble, obedient homemaker

A Submissive Wife should remember one of the reasons she married her husband was to be his lover and she is happy to give her husband authority over her body. She is proud to submit to her husband.

 As his wife, your place is at the side of your husband where you should offer him your submission, encouragement and support through good and the bad times.  You are his number one fan and the one person he can rely on upon without question even when he makes mistakes.

 A Submissive Wife should love her husband for who he is and what he has achieved and not who she thinks he could be or achieve if he did things her way.   Love and support him without trying to change or control him. 

 When your husband wants sex, and you are mentally still dealing with the day, and can't be bothered. Remember he is wired differently to you, he will take sexual rejection personally.   You might not feel in the mood at first, but if you allow your mind to unwind and think romantic thoughts your body will soon catch up

 A Submissive Wife should always put her husband's needs and wants before her own, this won't always be easy, and sometimes it will feel unfair. However, this is the life you have chosen, to submit to the man you love, the man whom you have trusted to take care of you. Submit to him with good grace and pray he will be a worthy husband.

 Modern times and financial pressures have meant that the division of labour has altered in many homes with wives having full-time jobs.  What should not alter is the husband's position of authority and spiritual leader in the home.  

 If you are easily distracted from your duties, ask your husband to hold you accountable for your time. Having to account for what you have done each day can be very helpful in keeping you on track if this is still not enough ask your husband to help you further by placing consequences for not completing your chores on time. Do not allow distractions to get the better of you.

 The greatest gift you can give your husband is your time. Because when you give your time you are giving a portion of your life that you will never get back and that is priceless.

 Your decisions will become easier when your desire to please your husband is stronger than your desire to please your friends and family. Once you become one body, your husband SHOULD take priority.

 Is your marriage not what it used to be? Think about this verse "If you are too lazy to plough don't expect a harvest."  If you don't bother to put effort into your marriage how can you expect it to grow, without effort, it will wither and die.

 A Submissive wife should be modest in her dress out of the home. Men are wired differently to women men like to look at women and easily get the wrong signal, don't put your self a situation where your short skirt can be misread as a sign of flirting or seeking male attention.

 Your husband's place is to be the provider don't complain when he has to work late he is doing his best to provide a home for you and his family. Instead, ask him if there is anything you can do at home to make his day more manageable.

 It is a wife's place to be thrifty and frugal with the household budget.   Before you buy ask yourself "Do we need this or do I just want this because my friends have one". Possessions don't buy happiness. 

 A wife should not use aggression as a way of winning an argument. If your husband responds to your attack with silence, you make him look or feel like a weak coward who is not man enough in his home, or if he reacts with anger, you make him look/feel like a bully.   This is no way to treat the man you love.  

  A Wife should rise early in the morning, so she gets a head start on the day this helps other family members make the most of their day as well.  Have breakfast ready, children's clothing laid out, lunches made so that the morning starts smoothly and on time for the whole family.

 As a submissive wife you should be the best wife and mother you can be so your daughters have the perfect role model in their life, and your sons know what to look for in a wife when they are older

  Don't allow life to become boring look for ways to add a little magic surprise to your love life.   Why not turn dinner tonight into a surprise date night, cook him something special, take time to pamper your self and wear something that he will enjoy, let him know that you can't wait for him to unwrap desert. Set the mood the minute he walks through the door.  

 When you argue with your husband, you should be quick to forgive and not let your anger get the better of you. The thing you are arguing about probably won't matter tomorrow. No good will come from being angry and bitter. Instead, learn to communicate better with your husband.