The Tony Rossi Show

Have you ever cried for no reason at all? I did. This past week. ...until I realized, “OH. That’s why…” Actors are emotional. We don’t always know we’re in a bad mood until we’re hit with (what feels like) a wave of negative energy. And suddenly, we’re like, “Where the hell did this come from?!” This is why it’s so important to a) stay in tune with our feelings, and b) learn to recognize where those feelings are coming from. It’s not easy work. (In fact, it’s one of the reasons why I offer coachings.) Just know that this can be learned. But it takes a lot of work and lots of awareness. Here’s my story of having an ugly cry in a Starbucks bathroom, and how I figured out where those feelings came from. It’s all on episode #65 of the Tony Rossi Show podcast.   Wanna chat with me?   Use this link here to schedule a free one on one. Just make sure it's 48 hours in advance.   NOTE: Don’t see an open slot? Email me at tony.rossi@gmail.com with the subject “1-on-1 Inquiry” and we’ll work something out :)       Books.

Question: How are we as actors supposed to be sane and positive when facing rejection all the time?  Second question: How are we supposed to do the same when we're getting rejected from even auditioning? Or rejected from getting an agent to get those auditions? HOW?!  First off - please stop shouting. Second - I got you. This week I share a very personal story of when I got rejected twice during my college journey: First time from my top choice university. Second time at my backup university. (Yeah. It really sucked.) Here's why it's a good thing - and why it might be a good thing for you too. It's all on episode #65 of the Tony Rossi Show.    Wanna chat with me? Use this link here to schedule a free one on one. Just make sure it's 48 hours in advance. NOTE: Don’t see an open slot? Email me at tony.rossi@gmail.com with the subject “1-on-1 Inquiry” and we’ll work something out :)   Books.... Listen to them for free on Audible with a free trial!** (Sign up here)   Wanna chat with me? Use this link here to sc

If you’ve read the first article I’ve ever written for Backstage.com you know that I once embarrassed myself at a charity event: I didn’t think I fit in. I told one of the volunteers who asked “So, who do you do?” that I was in the restaurant industry. Because I didn’t even think that I could call myself an actor if I wasn’t earning  a full time living as one. Today's episode is for any actor who thinks that "I can't call myself an actor" unless I have something shiny to show for it.  You might be surprised after listening just how much you have to give yourself credit for. (Even with a restaurant day job).   Wanna chat with me? Use this link here to schedule a free one on one.  NOTE: Don’t see an open slot? Email me at tony.rossi@gmail.com with the subject “1-on-1 Inquiry” and we’ll work something out :)   Books....  You Are A Badass At Making Money** Listen for free on Audible with a free trial!**   People Tony likes Courtney Rioux Website Instagram Eric Thomas Website Instagram Heather Hiatt

If you’re an actor with a day job, I’m guessing you’re a hard worker. I’m also guessing that sometimes - juuuuuust sometimes - you need a good kick in the rear to work on your acting goals….you know, the ones you keep putting off. (Yes. That one.) Meet Sain-R Edwards, Jr. A member of the US Coast Guard, father of four, who somehow balances a work life/family life - despite living in a different time zone from them. In this episode, we’ll discuss the importance of morning routines, why self help books are so damn important, and how being caught on fire is sometimes a blessing in disguise. (Like, literally).   Wanna chat with me? Use this link here to schedule a free one on one. Just make sure it's 48 hours in advance. NOTE: Don’t see an open slot? Email me at tony.rossi@gmail.com with the subject “1-on-1 Inquiry” and we’ll work something out :) Get to know our special guest! Sain-R Edwards Jr. Instagram Youtube Personal Facebook Personal Instagram   Books:    You Are A Badass At Making Money** Listen to

Have you ever thought this "acting thing" is unfair? The way this industry works can be really unfair - but does that mean we have to be miserable because of it? This week's episode gives a different perspective of how to view this "unfair game of acting." #notperfect #stillenough    This podcast was based off my latest article for Backstage.com. Full article can be read HERE    Wanna chat with me?  Use this link here to schedule a free one on one.  NOTE: Don’t see an open slot? Email me at tony.rossi@gmail.com with the subject “Free chat” and we’ll work something out :) Are you an actor who is stressed AF?  Day jobs. Last minute auditions. Late night rehearsals. Let's not talk about our bank accounts... Oh! And have you checked IG lately to see how many gigs your friends have booked?! (Hint: It's more than you.) This acting thing can make us stressed AF. While there's a plethora of classes out there on how to audition and how to book the job - where are the classes telling us how to stop being so damn s

It's okay. You're allowed AND encouraged to take breaks from the "acting thing."   Just like what our special guest is doing. Like, right now. Aneisa is from Asbury Park NJ who's been slowly making her way west since. She started out with a 20 year plan of going into the armed forces, getting a degree in psychology and, helping troops with ptsd but, ended up on stages telling stories instead; hopefully creating spaces for the audience to heal in different ways. Currently on a break from the stage to give herself some space but, you can catch her whipping up her original body butter for anyone who is craving deeply moisturized skin!    Wanna chat with me? (For free?) Hiring a coach is an investment - no matter how good they are. Let's chat for free to see if we're a good fit. Use this link here to schedule a free one on one. Just make sure it's 48 hours in advance. NOTE: Don’t see an open slot? Email me at tony.rossi@gmail.com with the subject “Free chat” and we’ll work something out :) Come to my event! You’

Why you can relax about your next audition… Why it’s okay that you didn’t book your *last* audition…. What to remember when you JUST CAN’T How to get to know those important decision makers - without being salesy or annoying ;) This week, we’re talking to Spenser Davis, Director of Programming for Broken Nose Theatre. He’ll share a bunch of “sigh of relief” gems for actors, plus some of his own challenges he’s had transitioning from actor to director & playwright. It’s all on episode #59 of the Tony Rossi Show. Wanna chat with me? (For free?) Hiring a coach is an investment - no matter how good they are. Let's chat for free to see if we're a good fit. Use this link here to schedule a free one on one. Just make sure it's 48 hours in advance. NOTE: Don’t see an open slot? Email me at tony.rossi@gmail.com with the subject “Free chat” and we’ll work something out :) Get to know our special guest!   Spenser Davis   Website Instagram   Get to Know Broken Nose Theatre!   Website Instagram See th

Why should you see a life coach instead of a therapist? Why should you work on your insecurities about yourself before transitioning to a new job? What should you know about some of those actors recurring on TV - that you might not know about them already? ….we’re talking ALL of this with Courtney Rioux on episode #58 of the Tony Rossi Show. Courtney Rioux is an actor, author, and coach based in Chicago. As an actor, you may have seen her as paramedic Courtney on Chicago Med, the “Hot Shot Mom,” or heard her voice on commercials like Hershey's, Jimmy Dean, and Happy Meal. Beyond her work on TV and Voice Over, she offers custom coaching to help you get unstuck and design the life you want. One client described it as therapy without the therapy - more like a great chat with a best friend, reminding you who you are and what you dreamed of as a kid. She is currently working on her book, The Whole Artist. She also teaches at the Green Room Studio in Chicago, and is on the board of many committees on SAG AFTRA Wan

Us actors are SO darn excited sometimes… We get out of college. We move to a big city. We start auditioning left and right. We are SO EXCITED BECAUSE #ACTING! ... and then we get tired. We burn out. We constantly tell our friends that we can’t see their show because, “Sorry!.....but #brokeactorproblems.” Most actors don’t resonate with the word “patience” - which is what makes Kelly Piliouras stand out. Hailing from Michigan, she decided to move to Chicago before moving cross country to LA. Once she got there, she made sure to hang tight and get a steady job before diving into the acting scene. And if you think she’s been patient all her life - you’re mistaken. This week we’re talking with standup comedian and fitness model, Kelly Piliouras, as we learn about self care, patience, putting our health first, and avoiding burnout. It’s all on episode #57 on the Tony Rossi Show.   FREE WORKSHOP THIS MONDAY 4/22!   You’re an artist. You love what you do. But you also work a day job, you don’t love it, and you’re br

Leigh Foster is a working Chicago actor. He's been a guest star on Chicago Med. He's recurred on Chicago Fire. You've seen him on Empire, commercials, and print ads. And as of early 2015 - he had never been on a TV show. Having no acting degree, Leigh took it upon himself to "pursue acting excellence." He's also shared with us many parts of his journey on his popular podcast, Action: The Pursuit of Acting Excellence. This week, we'll discuss why he started his podcast, what he did to become "acting smart,"and his advice to others who are looking to advance their career. It’s all on episode #56 on the Tony Rossi Show.   Wanna chat with me? (For free?) Hiring a coach is an investment - no matter how good they are. Let's chat for free to see if we're even a good fit. Worst case scenario? You get some help with that thing that's bugging you right now - and you don't pay a dime. Use this link here to schedule a free one on one. Just make sure it's 48 hours in advance. You're a hard worker. You deserve a freebie. (

It’s a little TOO easy to focus on the negatives in our acting careers...And when we focus on the negatives, we find more of them. And more... So let's switch that. I'm sharing three crazy stories that are so crazy they feel like magic. By listening to these stories, you're giving yourself a better chance of expecting better things to happen to you. Which - you deserve. It's all on episode #55 on the Tony Rossi Show. Shoutout to our sponsor, Audible! Listen to the books we chat about on the show for free on Audible with a free trial! (Sign up here)   Wanna chat with me? (For free?) Hiring a coach is an investment - no matter how good they are. Let's chat for free to see if we're even a good fit. Worst case scenario? You get some help with that thing that's bugging you right now - and you don't pay a dime. Use this link here to schedule a free one on one. Just make sure it's 48 hours in advance. You're a hard worker. You deserve a freebie. (Just sayin’.) NOTE: Don’t see an open slot? Email me at tony.rossi@gm

WARNING FOR ACTORS: Don’t do this. Please don’t. Like, for real. It’s toxic. You’ll regret it. It never feels good. ...but sometimes, despite knowing alllllll of this…. we’ll do it anyway. It’s okay. Don’t beat yourself up.. As someone who studies hours upon hours of self care principles- I still do it. In fact - I did it last week. Today’s podcast covers what this toxic thing is, plus a crucial element that can help all actors when we do inevitably fall victim to it. It’s all on episode #54 of the Tony Rossi Show. Wanna chat with me? (For free?)   Hiring a coach is an investment - no matter how good they are. Let's chat for free to see if we're even a good fit. Worst case scenario? You get some help with that thing that's bugging you right now - and you don't pay a dime. Use this link here to schedule a free one on one. Just make sure it's 48 hours in advance. You're a hard worker. You deserve a freebie. (Just sayin’.) People Tony likes: Kendall Ficklin Website Instagram Business of Coaching and Speakin

We celebrated my birthday. We celebrated St. Patrick’s Day. It’s time to celebrate Women’s History month. Looking at the list of mentors in my life - a lot of them are women. Here are three who have helped me immensely, plus three things you’re going to want to write down to remember the next time you’re super stressed :) It’s all on episode #53 of the Tony Rossi Show.   Wanna chat with me for free? Hiring a coach is an investment - no matter how good they are. Let's chat for free to see if we're even a good fit. Worst case scenario? You get some help with that thing that's bugging you right now - and you don't pay a dime. Use this link here to schedule a free one on one. Just make sure it's 48 hours in advance. You deserve some help. You're a hard worker. People Tony likes: Kelsey Mathes Website Instagram Meditation for Actors (Sunday March 24th!) The Bliss Party (Sunday April 7th) Courtney Rioux Website Instagram Dallas Travers Website Instagram   Books.... You are a Badass - Jen Sincero OR L

Everybody….DRINK! “....um, do I have to?” No. “But - I want to! Is that okay?” If you’re 21 - yes. “Actually….I feel guilty. Is it wrong that I enjoy drinking?”   As someone who didn’t start drinking until college (listen to the episode to find out when in college this was) - I have a lot of thoughts on this topic. At the end of last year, I took a three month break from drinking. I discovered a few things about myself... Whether you’re a drinker or not, it’s important to be conscious of how you want to feel as you’re allowing yourself to indulge. For some people that’s drinking. For others, it’s eating sweets. And for some, it means taking a day off to not do work, but instead watch sports….(For the record - I fall into all three of these indulge categories.) In honor of St. Patrick’s Day - let’s talk about drinking. And buckle your seat belts….I’m about to get reeeeeally #notperfect and share some more vulnerable moments…. It’s all on episode #52 of the Tony Rossi Show.   Disclaimer: If you couldn’t tell al

It’s my birthday! I did a special edition, live on facebook and instagram, all about how I’m not where I thought I’d be at this point in my life…. I love setting goals. I bet you do too. But what happens when we don’t hit them by the time we thought we should?? I get reeeeeeally vulnerable with some #notperfect stories this episode and share what didn’t happen for me - plus some perspectives for you to use if you ever go through this “Why is this taking so long?” perspective…. It’s all on episode #51 of the Tony Rossi Show. Wanna chat with me for free?  Look, hiring a coach is an investment - no matter how good they are. Let's chat for free to see if we're even a good fit. Worst case scenario? You get some help with that thing that's bugging you right now - and you don't pay a dime.  Use this link here to schedule a free one on one. Just make sure it's 48 hours in advance. You deserve some help. You're a hard worker.  Use the promo code “stillenough” (case sensitive) at checkout and jump on our next call!  

Have you ever felt like you weren’t as far as you should be in your acting career? While I always catch myself doing this to a certain degree, I remember it being really bad three years ago…. I was watching the 2016 Tony Awards. And I saw someone I knew. (In Hamilton….) CUE THE NEGATIVE THOUGHTS… What’s wrong with me? Why am I not getting results?? But you don’t need to know someone in Hamilton to start comparing yourself to your peers. This week we’re going debunk some myths about comparison, plus give you a perspective on why you’re doing better than you think. It’s all on episode #50 of the Tony Rossi Show. I have a gift for you….   How would you like to get on a live call with me this weekend? ...and next weekend? ……..and every weekend for a month? FOR. FREE :)   For the first time, I’m offering a 30 day free trial to the #notperfect Family. You’ll have access to our weekly “Refresh and Reset” calls, a private facebook community, plus links to all previous call recordings, normally reserved for paying mem

It’s hard enough when you’re having a go-through and everything sucks. It’s extra hard when that go-through overstays its welcome. It’s like winter in Chicago: November is meh. December is extra meh (easier with Christmas). January is rough. February…..we  Google rent prices in Atlanta. I’m in the midst of a go-through - and it’s HARDER with the cold weather ;) This week I’ll share with you exactly what’s been going on, plus three tips I recommend the next time you have your own go-through. It’s all on episode #49 of the Tony Rossi Show.   I have a gift for you…. How would you like to get on a live call with me this weekend? ...and next weekend? ...and every weekend for a month? FOR FREE?? :) For the first time, I’m offering a 30 day free trial to the #notperfect Family. You’ll have access to our weekly “Refresh and Reset” calls, a private facebook community, plus links to all previous call recordings, normally reserved for paying members only. Use the promo code “stillenough” (case sensitive) at checkout and

Not getting the results you want in your acting career? I can relate. In more ways than just acting. On this Valentine’s Day, I want to share a message of love. More specifically, times when I didn’t receive love. When I reeeeeeally wanted it…. ...and yet - my story, as #notperfect as it is - still has a happy ending. Even as a single guy.  Listen to the full episode and I’ll share with you some mindset shifts, plus why you might not be getting the results you want. I have a gift for you…. How would you like to get on a live call with me this weekend? ...and next weekend? ……..and every weekend for a month? FOR. FREE :) For the first time, I’m offering a 30 day free trial to the #notperfect Family. You’ll have access to our weekly “Refresh and Reset” calls, a private facebook community, plus links to all previous call recordings, normally reserved for paying members only. Use the promo code “stillenough” (case sensitive) at checkout and jump on our next call! Click here to join! Want more free content? Sign

You have high standards….yes? And you’re great at setting big goals. But like….do you ever find yourself waiting to be happier until you’ve achieved something external? “Once I quit my day job, I’ll be a lot happier.” “I just need to book a national commercial. I’ll be happier then.” “Now if I could just find a girlfriend - oh man, then I’d be happy…..” Sure. All of these things would make you happy. But what if I achieved alllll of the awesome things - and still felt unfulfilled?? Meet DaJuan Johnson. He’s an actor recurring on BOSCH (Amazon), with credits including Grey’s Anatomy, Brooklyn Nine-Nine, Days of Our Lives, and General Hospital. Despite having an impressive resume to his name, he still felt he was missing something. So he started Think Bigger Coaching, where he helps actors “STOP spinning and start focusing their dreams, setting some attainable goals and getting to that Oscar speech they've practiced so many times in the mirror!” He also runs a free facebook group, the Think Bigger Tribe, wher

Need I say more? Some backstory: Five years ago, I experienced my first polar vortex. I was also going through a rough time at work. Between the two, I felt pretty defeated... Not. This. Year. I'm five years into my personal development journey. I've learned a few things that help me stay positive during not-so-positive times (aka....when it's stupid cold outside....) We'll talk strategies to stay sane and positive, regardless of the weather or other life conditions.    I have a gift for you…. Speaking of less stress…..how would you like to get on a live call with me this weekend? ...and next weekend? ……..and every weekend for a month? FOR. FREE :) For the first time, I’m offering a 30 day free trial to the #notperfect Family. You’ll have access to our weekly “Refresh and Reset” calls, a private facebook community, plus links to all previous call recordings, normally reserved for paying members only. Use the promo code “stillenough” (case sensitive) at checkout and jump on our next call!   Click here to join