Amber Leitz

LISTEN FOR FULL RESOURCES ON MY BLOG: http://www.amberleitz.com/seduction-rejection-resentment/ Today’s podcast episode is a very personal one, because I’m sharing all the raw and real details of my journey with the seductress archetype, especially while on lockdown due to COVID-19. I’m taking you deep into the SEDUCTRESS archetype (make sure to join the 5-Day Seductress Experience for free here)… And we’re exploring seduction, rejection and resentment. Something that I see often (in myself too) is the cycle of seduction, rejection and resentment. Most womxn I know repress their erotic power and inner seductress…so they wait for their partner to come onto them. They’re too afraid to seduce their partners for fear of rejection…and when their partner can’t read their mind or due “reject” them, they shut down their sexuality even more and feel resentful and filled with rage and bitterness. I’ve been there…many times. Including this past weekend! haha I’m so cute when I repress my own seductress and expect my par

LISTEN FOR FULL RESOURCES ON MY BLOG: http://www.amberleitz.com/coming-up-against-blocks-in-your-sex-life-or-relationship-right-now/ This week’s podcast is repurposed from a Facebook live I did earlier this weekend in my private erotic play group for womxn, Reclaiming Your Eroticism. If you’re currently isolating or “staying in” due to COVID-19, then you might be noticing some blocks or shadows seductively revealing themselves in your sex life or relationship — even with yourself. Maybe you and your partner are fighting more. Maybe there’s tension in the air…and not the erotic kind. Maybe you’re kind of scared about being stuck alone with your lover for who knows how long, especially if you feel like you’ve been hiding your eroticism from one another in subtle ways. Or you’ve been wearing masks, putting guards and walls up or so used to playing certain roles like “good girl” or “people pleaser.” Now is the time to excavate, confront and eroticize these blocks and shadows coming up in your sex life and relatio

LISTEN FOR FULL RESOURCES ON MY BLOG: http://www.amberleitz.com/why-having-more-pleasure-sex-erotic-self-care-is-crucial-right-now/ This whole experience with coronavirus (COVID-19) is causing a lot of fear, anxiety and panic. We can be informed, do the recommended things (like washing our hands, physical distancing and trying our best to stay inside) AND we can still make time for pleasure, sensuality, self care…and yes, our eroticism. Sex and self pleasure is one of the best balms and erotic medicines for times like this where trauma responses are high, anxiety is growing and fear is lurking everywhere. In today’s podcast episode I’m sharing why having more pleasure, sex and erotic self care…why connecting with your eroticism during times of crisis and chaos…is even MORE crucial right now. You don’t want to miss it, because I’m sharing as much as I can to help you soothe your nervous system, flood your system with feel-good, juicy hormones AND connect with a more divine perspective so we can actually be of

LISTEN FOR FULL RESOURCES ON MY BLOG: http://www.amberleitz.com/how-the-journey-to-manifesting-your-deepest-desires-is-like-having-sex/ Today’s podcast episode is a teaser and seductive sneak peek into part of the curriculum for my Solo Sex Magic program. You’ll learn about the Orgasmic Desire Cycle…which is a cycle that every single one of your hottest, juiciest desires will go through as you manifest them. I compare the journey we go on with a desire to that of the journey we go on when we engage in sex or self pleasure and it’s something you can return to over and over again. In this episode I talk about… What the Orgasmic Desire Cycle is & how every single one of your desires (the ones that turn you the fuck on at least) will go through this cycle How you can use this cycle to figure out where you are in the manifestation process, get turned back on and stay connected to your desire in the most orgasmic way The different phases of the cycle and how they compare to sex Why you should treat your desires

LISTEN FOR FULL RESOURCES ON MY BLOG: http://www.amberleitz.com/my-lover-psychologically-dominated-me-in-the-bedroom-psychological-kink-play/ Last night Andy and I had one of the hottest erotic play dates every…although I feel that way after every single one now. We experimented with psychological kink and psychological domination. Basically he got to boss me around in the bedroom and get me to do whatever he wanted (within the limits of our erotic container and consent). I’ll tell you where we got this inspiration from in the episode…a little sexy tease for you…hehe Pyschological play, sexual polarity and dom(me)/sub power dynamics are topics (and experiments) that I’m very excited about, because playing with the taboo, psychological eroticism and kinky mind play is deeply healing, pleasurable and builds some of the hottest erotic friction between my partner and I. In this episode I talk about… Where we got the inspiration from to do our psychological kink play How we created our erotic container, discussed

This was originally part of my Sex Magic Playshop Series in my Reclaiming Your Eroticism Facebook group. Join my LIVE sex magic ritual (for womxn only) on Saturday February 15th at 7 pm EST. You can sign up for the ritual here AND you'll get added to the waitlist for my Solo Sex Magic Course which opens on Valentine's Day...you'll receive a $100 off coupon from being on the waitlist: http://bit.ly/ritualwaitlist Connect with me on Instagram here: https://instagram.com/amberleitz Join my private Facebook group for womxn only: https://www.facebook.com/groups/ryeplaygroup/

This was originally part of my Sex Magic Playshop Series in my Reclaiming Your Eroticism Facebook group. Join my LIVE sex magic ritual (for womxn only) on Saturday February 15th at 7 pm EST. You can sign up for the ritual here AND you'll get added to the waitlist for my Solo Sex Magic Course which opens on Valentine's Day...you'll receive a $100 off coupon from being on the waitlist: http://bit.ly/ritualwaitlist Connect with me on Instagram here: https://instagram.com/amberleitz Join my private Facebook group for womxn only: https://www.facebook.com/groups/ryeplaygroup/

This was originally part of my Sex Magic Playshop Series in my Reclaiming Your Eroticism Facebook group. Join my LIVE sex magic ritual (for womxn only) on Saturday February 15th at 7 pm EST. You can sign up for the ritual here AND you'll get added to the waitlist for my Solo Sex Magic Course which opens on Valentine's Day...you'll receive a $100 off coupon from being on the waitlist: http://bit.ly/ritualwaitlist Connect with me on Instagram here: https://instagram.com/amberleitz Join my private Facebook group for womxn only: https://www.facebook.com/groups/ryeplaygroup/

This was originally part of my Sex Magic Playshop Series in my Reclaiming Your Eroticism Facebook group. Join my LIVE sex magic ritual (for womxn only) on Saturday February 15th at 7 pm EST. You can sign up for the ritual here AND you'll get added to the waitlist for my Solo Sex Magic Course which opens on Valentine's Day...you'll receive a $100 off coupon from being on the waitlist: http://bit.ly/ritualwaitlist Connect with me on Instagram here: https://instagram.com/amberleitz Join my private Facebook group for womxn only: https://www.facebook.com/groups/ryeplaygroup/

This was originally part of my Sex Magic Playshop Series in my Reclaiming Your Eroticism Facebook group. Join my LIVE sex magic ritual (for womxn only) on Saturday February 15th at 7 pm EST. You can sign up for the ritual here AND you'll get added to the waitlist for my Solo Sex Magic Course which opens on Valentine's Day...you'll receive a $100 off coupon from being on the waitlist: http://bit.ly/ritualwaitlist Connect with me on Instagram here: https://instagram.com/amberleitz Join my private Facebook group for womxn only: https://www.facebook.com/groups/ryeplaygroup/

LISTEN ON MY WEBSITE FOR FULL RESOURCES: http://www.amberleitz.com/how-to-open-yourself-to-deep-fucking-thoroughly-get-off-during-penetration/ As you’ll hear in this week’s episode of the Reclaiming Your Eroticism podcast, I’ve had quite an interesting journey with vaginal sex over the years. It was only about five years ago now that penetration for me was my least favorite sexual activity, because it was either numb, painful or unfulfilling. I would often think to myself things like… I wish he’d hurry up and finish When will it be over so I can roll over and go to sleep or finish watching that episode on Netflix? Is this really all there is? Is this how sex is going to be for the rest of my life? Is THIS it? What’s wrong with me? Why am I so broken? Sex doesn’t feel that good and I can’t orgasm with him… If you’re feeling any of this, know that you’re not alone AND it’s not permanent. Penetration is literally my favorite thing now…it feels so orgasmic…(never thought I’d be saying that!) and I can’t wait to s

LISTEN ON MY WEBSITE FOR FULL RESOURCES: http://www.amberleitz.com/expanding-your-erotic-capacity-getting-off-on-your-shame-finding-pleasure-through-contraction/ I woke up on Sunday morning feeling my inner erotic muse yearning for me to share, speak out loud and express the erotic experience I had the night before during a partnered Erotic Play Date with Andy (aka a sex date). I was snuggled up next to Scarlet that morning trying to sleepily shake off the urge to get up and record a podcast, hoping to ignore it for a "better time." My inner erotic muse is quite the seductress and I realized it was pointless trying to fight or subdue her for a more convenient time. She wanted to express herself NOW.  The words for this podcast episode started to move through me, calling me to take action. So I did. I was staying at Andy's parent's house so I had to sit out in my car (in winter...talk about devotion) for some privacy and quietude. I intended for this to be only about 15 minutes long, but it just kept pouring o

LISTEN ON MY WEBSITE FOR FULL RESOURCES: http://www.amberleitz.com/the-art-of-subtle-pleasure-why-it-actually-brings-you-even-more-erotic-pleasure/ Yesterday I was doing my erotic morning ritual–which involved a sensual grape eating, self seduction experience and some erotic breathwork–when this podcast episode started to flow through me. Normally I try to record podcasts when I’m alone, but Scarlet was home with me and this couldn’t wait…because the erotic energy and creative inspiration for this episode was flowing through me…so you’ll get to hear her playing in the background occasionally. What’s so special about what I want to share with you in this week’s podcast episode? I was practicing something yesterday morning that I teach in my Orgasmic Pleasure course for womxn (which opens soon), which is the art of enjoying subtle pleasure. Subtle pleasure is incredibly understated. I get it. We’re all seeking the big forms of pleasure…especially climax and multiple, toe-curling, screaming orgasms. I love all o

LISTEN ON MY WEBSITE FOR FULL RESOURCES: http://www.amberleitz.com/how-to-create-an-erotic-partnership-featuring-my-lover-andy/ In today's episode of the RECLAIMING YOUR EROTICISM PODCAST, I'm featuring a very special guest -- my lover and partner Andy! We have an open, honest and sexy conversation about our relationship, our sex life, how we create an erotic partnership and we also answer some of your questions that were submitted for us. I'm so excited to share him with you in this episode and we had so much fun recording this intimate conversation.  We explore things in this juicy podcast episode like... What I expected my relationship with Andy to be like in the beginning vs what actually happened How to communicate to your partner that you want to go on an erotic journey together or improve your sex life together How we handle our emotions coming up in our relationship and during sex The sexy practice I do that helps me communicate with Andy or let go of anger towards him (he was surprised that I do this

LISTEN ON MY WEBSITE FOR FULL RESOURCES: http://www.amberleitz.com/are-you-hiding-who-you-are-in-the-bedroom/ In today’s episode of the RECLAIMING YOUR EROTICISM PODCAST, we’re exploring all of the ways that you might be hiding who you truly are in the bedroom… This could be the literal ways that you hide like only having sex if the lights are off or not letting your partner see you naked…or avoiding your own naked body in the mirror. I did that one for years so you’re not alone if that’s you. It could also be the metaphorical ways you hide by not telling your partner what you really desire in the bedroom, hiding your sexual fantasies and sexual shadows from them or stuffing your emotions down if they come up during sexual play. Let me just say, I used to be an expert at hiding. I’m still pretty adept at it…to the point where sometimes I don’t even realizing I’m hiding. I might be hiding a certain archetype or energy that comes up (like the slut or seductress — those are big ones for me), hiding a desire or f

Sex Magic Secrets of a Real Life Sex Witch & How to Embody Your Inner Sex Witch Through Sex Magic LISTEN ON MY WEBSITE FOR FULL RESOURCES: http://www.amberleitz.com/sex-magic-secrets-of-a-real-life-sex-witch-how-to-embody-your-inner-sex-witch-through-sex-magic/ In today’s episode of the RECLAIMING YOUR EROTICISM PODCAST, I’m diving deep into all things sex magic… I really just wanted to hit record and talk openly about my experience with sex magic, because it’s one of my favorite topics and rituals. It’s a lifestyle and a path for me, which I share more about in the episode. This episode is all about my personal sex magic secrets as a real life sex witch (I have the best job ever!) and how you, too, can embody your own inner sex witch through the ritual of sex magic. We dive into… What a sex witch means to me & why I consider myself one The physical signs of remembering or recognizing your ancient sex witch power Revealing my biggest sex magic secret to you that will help you remember your power Some

Why We Fear Our Sexuality and 3 Erotic Rituals For Reclaiming Your Eroticism LISTEN ON MY WEBSITE FOR FULL RESOURCES: http://www.amberleitz.com/why-we-fear-our-sexuality-and-3-erotic-rituals-for-reclaiming-your-eroticism/ This is an exciting day…a day I’ve been waiting for for about two years now. It’s the RE-RELEASE of my podcast! If you’ve been around my erotic community for the past few years (if you’re new — welcome…come in and sit for an erotic spell), then you know that my original podcast was called the Sensually Embodied Woman. That honestly no longer resonates with me and with the core of my work, especially as I deepen my focus on guiding womxn and femmes on a journey to remembering, reclaiming and fully unleashing their erotic nature, power and pleasure. This includes diving deep into shedding sexual shame, overcoming trauma, integrating sexual shadows and erotically taboo desires and using the liberated erotic energy that exists beneath the shame, trauma and hidden sexual shadows to CREATE what yo

Watch/read on the blog for full resources: http://www.amberleitz.com/sex-after-trauma-rachael-maddox Support Rachael's 'Sex After Trauma' book Kickstarter: bit.ly/sexaftertraumabook Download my free resources here: http://www.amberleitz.com/free-resources/ Follow my erotic adventures on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/amberleitz/ Join my 1900+ private Facebook group for women only: bit.ly/sensuallyembodiedwoman ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- If you've ever found yourself hating, fearing or dreading sex, then I have a very juicy treat for you - an erotic conversation with Rachael Maddox that may very well begin to change the trajectory of your whole life, especially your sexual life. This conversation may only change your life a little bit, but it will definitely be powerful. It changed something for me and I was the one interviewing her.  This is something every single woman needs to know and was by far one of my favorite conversations ever. I had

Watch on the blog for full resources: www.amberleitz.com/rachael-maddox/ Download the Jade Egg Sexual Mastery ebook: www.amberleitz.com/jade-egg-ebook/ Join my private Facebook group for women: www.bit.ly/sensuallyembodiedwoman Connect with me on Instagram www.instagram.com/amberleitz/ Last year I stumbled upon an amazing woman and her book, Secret Bad Girl, which helped me heal a part of myself that I hadn't expected to face. My own inner archetype of the secret bad girl. This woman who initiated me into looking at my secret bad girl is Rachael Maddox. My secret bad girl had unknowingly been longing to be seen, heard and accepted fully so this book came into my life at the perfect time. She was begging for my attention, but I wasn't listening. Until I gave her a voice. Until I listened to her, saw her, witnessed her. Until I was willing to play with her, dance with her, hold her, soothe her, give her my love and attention. If you've been struggling with a part of you that feels like she's bad, dirty, naughty

For full resources, including Eyal's information, watch or listen on the blog: http://www.amberleitz.com/eyal-matsliah/ Have you been curious about what a conscious, sexually empowered man has to say around female sexuality and orgasm? If so, you won’t want to miss today’s podcast conversation…it’s super juicy and full of practices and insights that will help you begin unleashing your own orgasm and activating yourself deeper as a sexual woman.  Today I have someone special on the podcast. The first man invited onto the podcast for a conversation around sexuality is Eyal Matsliah. I’ve been following his work for a couple of years now and recently I’ve seen him on several other podcasts and just knew I had to invite him on to share his sacred sexual wisdom with you.  I’ve also been religiously reading his book ‘Orgasm Unleashed – Your guide to pleasure, healing and power’ and his view of female sexuality and orgasm really needs to be spread far and wide.  Here’s what Eyal and I talk about in this episode: Eya