Amber Leitz

Increasing Your Havingness Level w/ Erotic Energy & Becoming Your "Next Level You" Through Sex Magic LISTEN FOR FULL RESOURCES ON MY BLOG: https://www.amberleitz.com/erotic-energy-havingness-becoming-next-level-sex-magic Join my upcoming livestream series 5-day Lust for Life Series here: bit.ly/ownyourlust This podcast episode was extracted from a recent Q&A call I held for my old program, Solo Sex Magic. I wanted to share it here because it was sooo juicy I couldn’t not share it. It’s packed with sex magic secrets, erotic wisdom and practices we’ll be covering in my upcoming Lust for Life Series. Before I get into the episode I want to brag that I am now officially a Certified Erotic Blueprint™ Coach! What do you want to brag? If you don’t know what bragging is, make sure to listen to this episode. In this episode I share… How you can use your capacity for erotic energy as a measure for your havingness level or your capacity to receive and have “good” things like pleasure, love, money, orgasms, etc.

LISTEN FOR FULL RESOURCES ON MY BLOG: https://www.amberleitz.com/seducing-your-desire-when-it-seems-like-its-not-coming-or-working-out/ This podcast episode is a repurposed livestream I did in my private Facebook group for womxn, Reclaiming Your Eroticism. I totally recommend joining here — I guarantee it will be the hottest group & you’ll be dripping wet with excitement to come in & play (or lurk, if that’s your thing)! This episode is all about a situation I’m in right now (as of recording) where I purchased myself a $1200 red velvet couch and am experiencing issues with the delivery company… Which has thoughts popping up in my head like “see? it’s not working out!” or “it’s not coming!” Cue inner drama queen and bratty, entitled victim… That doesn’t feel very sexy & empowering for me so I’m sharing 3 powerful practices for shifting from vicitimhood into a more seductive relationship with your desire when it seems like it’s not going to work out or it’s not coming or you just feel disconnected &

LISTEN FOR FULL RESOURCES ON MY BLOG: https://www.amberleitz.com/what-to-do-when-you-feel-triggered-by-another-womxn-why-embodying-your-seductress-in-sisterhood-is-so-powerful/ One of the most common blocks many womxn carry is the sisterhood wound. It manifests in many different ways. The fear of other womxn who are erotically expressed and/or have something we want. Triggers, jealousy, competition, comparison…how do we handle it all? How do we come out of it connected to other womxn, turned on & fully owning our inner seductress? Here’s what we explore in this episode: Why I avoided going deep with womxn for years on my erotic journey (and business journey) The top two reasons why we often get triggered or feel envious of other womxn Why we’re often terrified of womxn who are erotically expressed A story about the first time I came across my current pussy-based business coach & how I handled my trigger Why I was SO triggered around her seductress expression & the money she was making How to quick

LISTEN FOR FULL RESOURCES ON MY BLOG: https://www.amberleitz.com/how-to-express-your-seductress-without-the-fear-of-unwanted-attention-holding-you-back/ The Seductress is an archetype that loves, craves and needs to be seen. She loves being witnessed…when she wants it. There are many times when I’ve been embodying and expressing my eroticism and seductress but I received unwanted attention from it. When I first started connecting with my seductress that was very unsettling. It would cause me to hide for weeks at a time. Which was really hard as a sex coach trying to support others by being visible. Now after 5+ years of embodying and expressing my seductress (in private and public), I’ve realized some things that can help us all do this…without the fear of unwanted attending holding us back or keeping us stuck in repression, shame, trauma or hiding. Here’s what we explore in this episode: My experience with times where I received unwanted attention & how I handled it when I was embodied & integrated i

LISTEN FOR FULL RESOURCES ON MY BLOG: http://www.amberleitz.com/is-your-shyness-holding-you-back-from-fully-owning-your-seductress-in-the-bedroom/ Join the 5-Day SEDUCTRESS Experience here: https://bit.ly/seduceyourself I had so much fun recording this podcast episode because I actually took a few minutes before hitting record to turn myself on and seduce myself… I put on a sexy song (Over by Honors), danced and eye gazed with myself in the mirror while touching, stroking and massaging myself lightly. I even took a few sexy photos and videos of myself before recording just to take my self seduction even further. I wanted to fully connect with my erotic self, because this week we’re talking about how your shyness, repressed eroticism or shame might be holding you back from fully unleashing and owning your seductress in the bedroom… …and all of the erotic power, magnetism, pleasure, confidence and freedom that comes with being a seductress. Here’s what we explore in this episode: My journey with the seductress

LISTEN FOR FULL RESOURCES ON MY BLOG: http://www.amberleitz.com/seduction-rejection-resentment/ Today’s podcast episode is a very personal one, because I’m sharing all the raw and real details of my journey with the seductress archetype, especially while on lockdown due to COVID-19. I’m taking you deep into the SEDUCTRESS archetype (make sure to join the 5-Day Seductress Experience for free here)… And we’re exploring seduction, rejection and resentment. Something that I see often (in myself too) is the cycle of seduction, rejection and resentment. Most womxn I know repress their erotic power and inner seductress…so they wait for their partner to come onto them. They’re too afraid to seduce their partners for fear of rejection…and when their partner can’t read their mind or due “reject” them, they shut down their sexuality even more and feel resentful and filled with rage and bitterness. I’ve been there…many times. Including this past weekend! haha I’m so cute when I repress my own seductress and expect my par

LISTEN FOR FULL RESOURCES ON MY BLOG: http://www.amberleitz.com/coming-up-against-blocks-in-your-sex-life-or-relationship-right-now/ This week’s podcast is repurposed from a Facebook live I did earlier this weekend in my private erotic play group for womxn, Reclaiming Your Eroticism. If you’re currently isolating or “staying in” due to COVID-19, then you might be noticing some blocks or shadows seductively revealing themselves in your sex life or relationship — even with yourself. Maybe you and your partner are fighting more. Maybe there’s tension in the air…and not the erotic kind. Maybe you’re kind of scared about being stuck alone with your lover for who knows how long, especially if you feel like you’ve been hiding your eroticism from one another in subtle ways. Or you’ve been wearing masks, putting guards and walls up or so used to playing certain roles like “good girl” or “people pleaser.” Now is the time to excavate, confront and eroticize these blocks and shadows coming up in your sex life and relatio

LISTEN FOR FULL RESOURCES ON MY BLOG: http://www.amberleitz.com/why-having-more-pleasure-sex-erotic-self-care-is-crucial-right-now/ This whole experience with coronavirus (COVID-19) is causing a lot of fear, anxiety and panic. We can be informed, do the recommended things (like washing our hands, physical distancing and trying our best to stay inside) AND we can still make time for pleasure, sensuality, self care…and yes, our eroticism. Sex and self pleasure is one of the best balms and erotic medicines for times like this where trauma responses are high, anxiety is growing and fear is lurking everywhere. In today’s podcast episode I’m sharing why having more pleasure, sex and erotic self care…why connecting with your eroticism during times of crisis and chaos…is even MORE crucial right now. You don’t want to miss it, because I’m sharing as much as I can to help you soothe your nervous system, flood your system with feel-good, juicy hormones AND connect with a more divine perspective so we can actually be of

LISTEN FOR FULL RESOURCES ON MY BLOG: http://www.amberleitz.com/how-the-journey-to-manifesting-your-deepest-desires-is-like-having-sex/ Today’s podcast episode is a teaser and seductive sneak peek into part of the curriculum for my Solo Sex Magic program. You’ll learn about the Orgasmic Desire Cycle…which is a cycle that every single one of your hottest, juiciest desires will go through as you manifest them. I compare the journey we go on with a desire to that of the journey we go on when we engage in sex or self pleasure and it’s something you can return to over and over again. In this episode I talk about… What the Orgasmic Desire Cycle is & how every single one of your desires (the ones that turn you the fuck on at least) will go through this cycle How you can use this cycle to figure out where you are in the manifestation process, get turned back on and stay connected to your desire in the most orgasmic way The different phases of the cycle and how they compare to sex Why you should treat your desires

LISTEN FOR FULL RESOURCES ON MY BLOG: http://www.amberleitz.com/my-lover-psychologically-dominated-me-in-the-bedroom-psychological-kink-play/ Last night Andy and I had one of the hottest erotic play dates every…although I feel that way after every single one now. We experimented with psychological kink and psychological domination. Basically he got to boss me around in the bedroom and get me to do whatever he wanted (within the limits of our erotic container and consent). I’ll tell you where we got this inspiration from in the episode…a little sexy tease for you…hehe Pyschological play, sexual polarity and dom(me)/sub power dynamics are topics (and experiments) that I’m very excited about, because playing with the taboo, psychological eroticism and kinky mind play is deeply healing, pleasurable and builds some of the hottest erotic friction between my partner and I. In this episode I talk about… Where we got the inspiration from to do our psychological kink play How we created our erotic container, discussed

This was originally part of my Sex Magic Playshop Series in my Reclaiming Your Eroticism Facebook group. Join my LIVE sex magic ritual (for womxn only) on Saturday February 15th at 7 pm EST. You can sign up for the ritual here AND you'll get added to the waitlist for my Solo Sex Magic Course which opens on Valentine's Day...you'll receive a $100 off coupon from being on the waitlist: http://bit.ly/ritualwaitlist Connect with me on Instagram here: https://instagram.com/amberleitz Join my private Facebook group for womxn only: https://www.facebook.com/groups/ryeplaygroup/

This was originally part of my Sex Magic Playshop Series in my Reclaiming Your Eroticism Facebook group. Join my LIVE sex magic ritual (for womxn only) on Saturday February 15th at 7 pm EST. You can sign up for the ritual here AND you'll get added to the waitlist for my Solo Sex Magic Course which opens on Valentine's Day...you'll receive a $100 off coupon from being on the waitlist: http://bit.ly/ritualwaitlist Connect with me on Instagram here: https://instagram.com/amberleitz Join my private Facebook group for womxn only: https://www.facebook.com/groups/ryeplaygroup/

This was originally part of my Sex Magic Playshop Series in my Reclaiming Your Eroticism Facebook group. Join my LIVE sex magic ritual (for womxn only) on Saturday February 15th at 7 pm EST. You can sign up for the ritual here AND you'll get added to the waitlist for my Solo Sex Magic Course which opens on Valentine's Day...you'll receive a $100 off coupon from being on the waitlist: http://bit.ly/ritualwaitlist Connect with me on Instagram here: https://instagram.com/amberleitz Join my private Facebook group for womxn only: https://www.facebook.com/groups/ryeplaygroup/

This was originally part of my Sex Magic Playshop Series in my Reclaiming Your Eroticism Facebook group. Join my LIVE sex magic ritual (for womxn only) on Saturday February 15th at 7 pm EST. You can sign up for the ritual here AND you'll get added to the waitlist for my Solo Sex Magic Course which opens on Valentine's Day...you'll receive a $100 off coupon from being on the waitlist: http://bit.ly/ritualwaitlist Connect with me on Instagram here: https://instagram.com/amberleitz Join my private Facebook group for womxn only: https://www.facebook.com/groups/ryeplaygroup/

This was originally part of my Sex Magic Playshop Series in my Reclaiming Your Eroticism Facebook group. Join my LIVE sex magic ritual (for womxn only) on Saturday February 15th at 7 pm EST. You can sign up for the ritual here AND you'll get added to the waitlist for my Solo Sex Magic Course which opens on Valentine's Day...you'll receive a $100 off coupon from being on the waitlist: http://bit.ly/ritualwaitlist Connect with me on Instagram here: https://instagram.com/amberleitz Join my private Facebook group for womxn only: https://www.facebook.com/groups/ryeplaygroup/

LISTEN ON MY WEBSITE FOR FULL RESOURCES: http://www.amberleitz.com/how-to-open-yourself-to-deep-fucking-thoroughly-get-off-during-penetration/ As you’ll hear in this week’s episode of the Reclaiming Your Eroticism podcast, I’ve had quite an interesting journey with vaginal sex over the years. It was only about five years ago now that penetration for me was my least favorite sexual activity, because it was either numb, painful or unfulfilling. I would often think to myself things like… I wish he’d hurry up and finish When will it be over so I can roll over and go to sleep or finish watching that episode on Netflix? Is this really all there is? Is this how sex is going to be for the rest of my life? Is THIS it? What’s wrong with me? Why am I so broken? Sex doesn’t feel that good and I can’t orgasm with him… If you’re feeling any of this, know that you’re not alone AND it’s not permanent. Penetration is literally my favorite thing now…it feels so orgasmic…(never thought I’d be saying that!) and I can’t wait to s

LISTEN ON MY WEBSITE FOR FULL RESOURCES: http://www.amberleitz.com/expanding-your-erotic-capacity-getting-off-on-your-shame-finding-pleasure-through-contraction/ I woke up on Sunday morning feeling my inner erotic muse yearning for me to share, speak out loud and express the erotic experience I had the night before during a partnered Erotic Play Date with Andy (aka a sex date). I was snuggled up next to Scarlet that morning trying to sleepily shake off the urge to get up and record a podcast, hoping to ignore it for a "better time." My inner erotic muse is quite the seductress and I realized it was pointless trying to fight or subdue her for a more convenient time. She wanted to express herself NOW.  The words for this podcast episode started to move through me, calling me to take action. So I did. I was staying at Andy's parent's house so I had to sit out in my car (in winter...talk about devotion) for some privacy and quietude. I intended for this to be only about 15 minutes long, but it just kept pouring o

LISTEN ON MY WEBSITE FOR FULL RESOURCES: http://www.amberleitz.com/the-art-of-subtle-pleasure-why-it-actually-brings-you-even-more-erotic-pleasure/ Yesterday I was doing my erotic morning ritual–which involved a sensual grape eating, self seduction experience and some erotic breathwork–when this podcast episode started to flow through me. Normally I try to record podcasts when I’m alone, but Scarlet was home with me and this couldn’t wait…because the erotic energy and creative inspiration for this episode was flowing through me…so you’ll get to hear her playing in the background occasionally. What’s so special about what I want to share with you in this week’s podcast episode? I was practicing something yesterday morning that I teach in my Orgasmic Pleasure course for womxn (which opens soon), which is the art of enjoying subtle pleasure. Subtle pleasure is incredibly understated. I get it. We’re all seeking the big forms of pleasure…especially climax and multiple, toe-curling, screaming orgasms. I love all o

LISTEN ON MY WEBSITE FOR FULL RESOURCES: http://www.amberleitz.com/how-to-create-an-erotic-partnership-featuring-my-lover-andy/ In today's episode of the RECLAIMING YOUR EROTICISM PODCAST, I'm featuring a very special guest -- my lover and partner Andy! We have an open, honest and sexy conversation about our relationship, our sex life, how we create an erotic partnership and we also answer some of your questions that were submitted for us. I'm so excited to share him with you in this episode and we had so much fun recording this intimate conversation.  We explore things in this juicy podcast episode like... What I expected my relationship with Andy to be like in the beginning vs what actually happened How to communicate to your partner that you want to go on an erotic journey together or improve your sex life together How we handle our emotions coming up in our relationship and during sex The sexy practice I do that helps me communicate with Andy or let go of anger towards him (he was surprised that I do this

LISTEN ON MY WEBSITE FOR FULL RESOURCES: http://www.amberleitz.com/are-you-hiding-who-you-are-in-the-bedroom/ In today’s episode of the RECLAIMING YOUR EROTICISM PODCAST, we’re exploring all of the ways that you might be hiding who you truly are in the bedroom… This could be the literal ways that you hide like only having sex if the lights are off or not letting your partner see you naked…or avoiding your own naked body in the mirror. I did that one for years so you’re not alone if that’s you. It could also be the metaphorical ways you hide by not telling your partner what you really desire in the bedroom, hiding your sexual fantasies and sexual shadows from them or stuffing your emotions down if they come up during sexual play. Let me just say, I used to be an expert at hiding. I’m still pretty adept at it…to the point where sometimes I don’t even realizing I’m hiding. I might be hiding a certain archetype or energy that comes up (like the slut or seductress — those are big ones for me), hiding a desire or f