Kinderling Conversation

When it comes down to it, there are really only two ways to give birth: vaginally or via cesarean. But between conception and birth there are many choices to make. Dianne Zalitis is a midwife and is the Clinical Lead of Pregnancy, Birth and BabyDianne takes us through the different choices you can make, including the questions you can ask your health providers.. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Mothercraft nurse Chris Minogue has been working with families for over 30 years, and can help you get some perspective when dealing with a tricky or challenging situation.On this episode of she helps with: A 13-month-old who gags himself for attention, getting an eight-month-old to sleep in his cot, a milk-chucking four-week-old, a three-year-old who refuses to eat (and has low iron) - Chris refers to Dr Jen Cohen in her response, how to wean a 21-month-old when you're eight months pregnant, slowing down a three-year-old runner and how to help a toddler transition to a new room when baby number three is on it's wayHelpline See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

It has been accepted for a long time now that passive smoke from cigarettes is bad for children. But what do we know about the dangers of e-cigarettes? Dr Anthea Rhodes is the Director of the RCH National Child Health Poll. Their latest research looks at the use of 'vaping' in families. Anthea explains why parents need to think hard about vaping around their children.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

If you are a woman over 30, chances are you have been told you need to get a wriggle on if you want to have children. It's equally possible that a man of the same age has been told that. Female fertility drops significantly after the age of 35, and it has been widely believed that men can continue fathering children well into their seventies (thank you Mick Jagger). But new research from Monash University has found that a man's age also affects his fertility, and has an impact on the success of IVF treatment. Beverley Vollenhoven is a Monash IVF Fertility Specialist and co-author of the research. Beverley debunks the myths around male fertility.never See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Lacey Filipich understands what it's like to have small children and feel you have no choice when it comes to your money. But Lacey herself was financial independent by the time she had her first child. That is, she no longer needed a wage to support herself. And while she was able to do this because she started young, she says it's not too late for parents with young children. Lacey explains how she became financially independent and why it's possible for everyone to follow in her footsteps.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What kinds of traditions do you have from your childhood, that you pass on to your children now? It could be things you do at special times of the year, or even a song you sing them at bedtime. Maree McCarthy Yoelu has stories from her grandfather, ones that explain everything from the changing seasons to dangerous places best left alone. In her picture book Brother Moon Maree tells one of these stories. Maree talks about her childhood, her grandfather and the influence of language, culture and country.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

There comes a time when, if you don't have one, many children become desperate for a pet.Many children can't walk past a pet shop without going in to coo over the puppies and kittens on display. But there are plenty of animals that need a home, that you can't buy in a pet shop. Avalon Treharne works with PetSTOCK and is a passionate advocate for their charity PetSTOCK Assist. Avalon explains why adopting a pet can help you find the perfect pet for your family, and why the idea that rescue animals are difficult is a myth.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Mothercraft nurse Chris Minogue has had over 30 years experience helping families navigate the unchartered waters of parenthood. Every week she joins host Shevonne Hunt to answer your questions about sleep, feeding and behaviour.Feed Play Love This week that includes: How to help a six-month-old sleep without rocking or feeding, when it's best to start a four-month-old on four feeds a day, when to settle and when to feed a four-month-old at night, how to help a toddler move to a new home, a three-and-a-half-year old waking for long periods at night and a two-and-a-half-year-old obsessed with their bottle, two-year-old transitions with a baby on the way.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Love after children can change. There's the love you feel for your children, and there are their needs (that can feel all-consuming). When it comes to your partner, you may find you're acting more like a pair of good friends than as lovers. For some this transition can make sense and doesn't feel permanent. For others it can feel like the death of your relationship. Elisabeth Shaw is a practicing psychologist and the NSW CEO for Relationships Australia. She gives us some tips on how can you tell if you should stay or go, and if you should ever stay for the sake of the kids.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When you bring your baby home from the hospital your head is already full of advice from midwives and obstetricians. Learning first aid is probably the last thing on your mind. But Sarah Hunstead thinks there are some very basic things you need to know. Sarah is the Founding Director of CPR Kids, and spent 15 years in the paediatric emergency department, so she knows what she's talking about. She runs through the first response we should have with fever, rashes and burns.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Kim Tucci had three children already before she fell pregnant with quintuplets. Now her quints are starting school, and she's released a book called I've had 8 babies, and if there's one thing I've learned ...Kim talks about what it's like carrying five babies, birthing them, and how she's stayed sane with eight children.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When you become a parent you want to know everything there is to know about how to raise your child to be happy, healthy and successful. To do this, many people turn to books, the internet or parenting forums to get the best advice on how to make your child eat all the vegetables, how to bounce back from adversity and which music classes they should take. But what if the secret to their happiness lay in ? What if understanding your own needs, and meeting them, was the ultimate way to ensure your child is raised well?yoursWarren Cann is a psychologist and CEO of The Parenting Research CentreHe explains why he thinks we need to value parents more, and why we need to drop our expectations and focus more on ourselves.. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Raising small children is full of challenges. They may be waking through the night, refusing food or behaving in confusing ways. Mothercraft nurse Chris Minogue has been helping parents solve these dilemmas for over 30 years. Today she gives advice on: A two and a half-year-old trying to drop a needed nap, a twenty-two month old who sleeps well at night, but not-so-well during the day, managing challenging toddler behaviours, a twenty-two-month-old procrastinating at bedtime, a three-and-a-half year-old rejecting dad, a four-month-old having short naps and a 12-month-old waking several times at night for a breastfeed.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Toddlers can be a handful. You need to follow them everywhere, because you never know when they'll climb on top of your cupboard, pour flour all over your kitchen floor or discover your precious stash of chocolate.They can also be incredibly defiant and wilful. Thank goodness they're so dang cute! But there are very important, developmental reasons why toddlers can be so challenging. Dr Kate Highfield is an expert in early learning with Early Childhood Australia. She goes through some of the more typical toddler behaviours that can leave us pulling our hair out, and explains what's happening and how we might deal with them effectively.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Small babies are fascinating creatures. You can spend a whole day lost in their little faces and expressions.But communication can seem impossible. After all, they can't talk can they? Olwen Forker is the Clinical Director at BackChat Speech Pathology. She says that while your baby can't talk back - talking to your baby is important for their development. Olwen explains what happens when you chat to your baby.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Second pregnancies are never the same as the first - just ask Turia Pitt. With son Hakavai in tow she set up Spend with Themwith her friend Gracie McBride to help businesses impacted by the bush fires and became an ambassador for the Bonds Baby Search - WonderBumps.Turia talks about the biggest difference with this pregnancy, and why she thinks Australians are the best of the bunch.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The school term has finally started, with some children excited about being back, and others finding it really hard. Getting a child to school when they don't want to go is tough. Especially when the complaints start from the moment they wake up. Elisabeth Shaw is the CEO of Relationships Australia, NSW. Elisabeth gives tips on how we can encourage our children, and shares practical advice on how to deal with the dreaded drop off.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Experienced Mothercraft nurse Chris Minogue joins every week to answer questions about babies, toddlers and siblings.Feed Play Love In this episode this includes: A four-year-old bedtime procrastinator, a night-waking 19-month-old, a two-year-old fighting needed day naps, a nine-month-old biting breast-feeder, getting a four-month-old to sleep in the car, the best age to transition to a big bed, a 21-month-old who hates doctors and nurses, the right time for a seven-month-old to have sleep overs with grandma, a clingy 12-month-old, how to help a 10-month-old sleep through the night, why a 12-month-old is being so irritable and preparing to go back to work with a 10-month-old.Chris Minogue's book is called Bringing Baby Home. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

There is a lot of information about the Novel Coronavirus on the internet, but Sarah Hunstead is the person parents need to listen to. Sarah is the Founding Director of CPR Kids and a mother of two.She is an expert at arming parents with what they need to know in order to keep their children safe and healthy. Sarah explains what we know about this Coronavirus to date, and whether we should be on alert.Relevant links: Department of Health: Coronavirus update at a glanceSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Everywhere around Australia children have started back at school. They'll be pulling on shoes, uniforms and backpacks. But not all children go to their local primary school.Many children are being home schooled, and the number choosing this alternative way to educate their kids are on the rise. Susan Wight is from the not-for-profit Home Education Network.She explains why parents choose to home school their children, and what it involves.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.