Havilah Cunnington

Hey everyone, welcome back to our What Am I Doing With My Life series! Today, we're diving deep into the effectiveness over influence and how both affect your purpose. I've always believed that it's not just about having a platform or a stage, but about living an effective life. We're going to explore what it truly means to be effective, and why that's so much more valuable than just having a big following. Joining me today are my dear friends and Author School coaches from my author school, Kristel Ward and Rachael Jenneman. So, grab your coffee, get comfy, and let's dive in! Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/oM_LCWPsWj8 ✨ LET’S CONNECT: Website: http://havilahcunnington.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/havilahcunnington Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mrshavilah

Hey everyone! Today we dove into finding your unique voice in life with the incredible Lauren Vander Linden. Lauren shared how her life, juggling roles as a new mom, a business leader at a Fortune 250 company, and an author led her to discover and share her story of forgiveness and freedom from bitterness. In her book, "I Want to Move On," Lauren gives practical steps towards healing and growth. So grab your coffee, settle in, and get ready to be inspired! As always thanks for joining me, and if you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and review on your favorite podcast platform. I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones! You can watch the video here: https://youtu.be/4zyNsApeGEk If you are looking for more ways to connect and resources check out these links: + ⁠⁠http://havilahcunnington.com ⁠⁠ + ⁠⁠http://truthtotable.com ⁠⁠ + ⁠⁠http://thetruthacademy.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

Today, we're diving into a topic that's super close to my heart – discovering our purpose with God. Our series, "What Am I Doing with My Life?" explores those moments when we ask ourselves, "Is this what I'm supposed to be doing?" I've asked myself that many times, and I'm sure you have too. If you're not questioning your path, you might be on autopilot! I’m joined by my friend Mark Hilliard who is a worship pastor and recent graduate of Havilah’s Author School, where he wrote his first book. Whether it's stepping out in faith or finding purpose amidst uncertainty, Mark's insights are sure to inspire. So, grab your favorite drink, get comfy, and let's dive into this meaningful conversation! As always thanks for joining me, and if you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and review on your favorite podcast platform. I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones! You can watch the video here: https://youtu.be/ZGsNVU-LAaM If you are looking for more ways to connect and resource

Hey friends! Today, we're kicking off a new series called "What Am I Doing with My Life?" where we'll dive into discovering purpose and finding meaning in our lives. In this episode, we delve into the big questions about purpose and calling. We'll explore how to recognize that you're in the right place at the right time, understand why you're here, and live out your purpose confidently. Remember, purpose isn't just about reaching a destination—it's a way of living. So, whether you're feeling lost or just looking for some guidance, join us as we unpack these topics and help you live an abundant, purpose-filled life. As always thanks for joining me, and if you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and review on your favorite podcast platform. I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones! You can watch the video here: https://youtu.be/oHdzvhka7iw If you are looking for more ways to connect and resources check out these links: + ⁠⁠http://havilahcunnington.com ⁠⁠ + ⁠⁠http://truth

In the final episode of the series "Navigating Moral Failure in the Church," I'm talking about the five signs that lead to moral failure. I talk through the importance of self-awareness and proactive measures in protecting your own integrity. The five signs are:  1. Small compromises 2. Pride 3. Driving solo (going alone) 4. Living out of brokenness 5. Living or working out of a place of exhaustion  As always thanks for joining me, and if you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and review on your favorite podcast platform. I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones! You can watch the video here: https://youtu.be/ihtpS7pu_k0 If you are looking for more ways to connect and resources check out these links: + ⁠⁠http://havilahcunnington.com ⁠⁠ + ⁠⁠http://truthtotable.com ⁠⁠ + ⁠⁠http://thetruthacademy.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

Today I’m talking with my friend Debbie Mayes about her journey through her husband's affair and how the church reacted. Debbie shares insights on faith, healing, and the importance of compassionate care. Join us, leave comments, ask questions, and don't miss next week's continuation of our series on Moral Failure in the Church. I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones! You can watch the video here: https://youtu.be/a9lDDy-S78U If you are looking for more ways to connect and resources check out these links: + ⁠⁠http://havilahcunnington.com ⁠⁠ + ⁠⁠http://truthtotable.com ⁠⁠ + ⁠⁠http://thetruthacademy.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

Today Caitlin Zick and I are talking about the rise of moral failure incidents in the church and their impact on faith communities. By sharing our experiences, we hope to shed light on creating a safer, more accountable church culture. Success in ministry shouldn’t come at the cost of personal integrity. This conversation aims to empower us to build trust and justice in our own communities. Thanks for joining us on this journey! I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones! You can watch the video here: https://youtu.be/ZI6Mh_cyFcY If you are looking for more ways to connect and resources check out these links: + ⁠⁠http://havilahcunnington.com ⁠⁠ + ⁠⁠http://truthtotable.com ⁠⁠ + ⁠⁠http://thetruthacademy.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

Hey friends, this month I'm staring a new series called Navigating Moral Failure in the Church. In this episode, I dive into the tough reality of what happens when the people we look up to in the church mess up. It's a hard topic, but I want to discuss the biblical perspective as well as what we can do to help prevent it. I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones! You can watch it on YouTube here: https://youtu.be/EhG0Z3uqpk8 If you are looking for more ways to connect and resources check out these links: + ⁠⁠http://havilahcunnington.com ⁠⁠ + ⁠⁠http://truthtotable.com ⁠⁠ + ⁠⁠http://thetruthacademy.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

In this episode, Jenna Zint and I share how we've balanced friendship and professional collaboration over nearly a decade of leadership. We talk about setting boundaries, communicating openly, and keeping work from overshadowing personal relationships. Join us for some practical insights and personal stories that will help you thrive in leadership while maintaining strong friendships! I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones! You can watch the video here: https://youtu.be/QeKQNPytql4 If you are looking for more ways to connect and resources check out these links: + ⁠⁠http://havilahcunnington.com ⁠⁠ + ⁠⁠http://truthtotable.com ⁠⁠ + ⁠⁠http://thetruthacademy.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

This week we’re looking at your questions! For this episode in my Women in Leadership series, I’m joined by Caitlin Zick as we discuss our different experiences as women in church leadership.  I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones! You can watch the video here: https://youtu.be/3pc1t6uaTtc If you are looking for more ways to connect and resources check out these links: + ⁠⁠http://havilahcunnington.com ⁠⁠ + ⁠⁠http://truthtotable.com ⁠⁠ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

I’m continuing my Women in Leadership series, but this week I’m joined by Libby Gordon. We're discussing what we’ve learned about balancing Motherhood and Leadership to best help our children.  I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones! You can watch the video here: https://youtu.be/UcTbMeBQd18 If you are looking for more ways to connect and resources check out these links: + ⁠⁠http://havilahcunnington.com ⁠⁠ + ⁠⁠http://truthtotable.com ⁠⁠ + ⁠⁠http://thetruthacademy.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

This series we’re talking about Women in Leadership. We're not just going to talk about who gets to lead but more about how we can lead with true purpose, the way God wants us to. It's all about being a servant first, which is something both men and women are meant to do. We’ll also look back at some incredible women from the early days of the church—like the Samaritan woman and Anna the prophetess—who really shook things up and showed everyone that faith is for everyone. This series is all about finding your fire and stepping confidently into whatever calling you feel. So if you’re looking for some encouragement, a bit of guidance, or just a new way to think about leadership, I’m here to help lift you up. Let’s get into it! I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones! You can watch the video here: https://youtu.be/4UibVt3t_lI If you are looking for more ways to connect and resources check out these links: + ⁠⁠http://havilahcunnington.com ⁠⁠ + ⁠⁠http://truthtotable.com ⁠⁠ + ⁠⁠http://thet

Hey friends! Today I'm excited to be talking with my core group about some of the practicals of creating your own core group of friends. We'll be sharing our own stories on how the group got started, what we’ve tried that has or hasn’t worked, and what we recommend for those starting your own group.  I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones! You can watch the video here: https://youtu.be/LT5twLWiGkk If you are looking for more ways to connect and resources check out these links: + ⁠⁠http://havilahcunnington.com ⁠⁠ + ⁠⁠http://truthtotable.com ⁠⁠ + ⁠⁠http://thetruthacademy.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

Hey there, friends! In this episode of my podcast, I'm excited to chat with my core group and dive right into the heart of adult friendships. We'll be sharing our own stories about how we came together as a close-knit group, the real effort it takes to build those deep connections, and how our friendships have grown and changed over time. We'll talk about the things we do to help our friendships thrive, like being there for each other during tough times without trying to fix everything, letting ourselves be vulnerable, and not shying away from the tough conversations. This episode is all about the messy, challenging, but absolutely rewarding world of adult friendships.  I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones! You can watch the video here: https://youtu.be/WrTaPlmvSbE If you are looking for more ways to connect and resources check out these links: + ⁠⁠http://havilahcunnington.com ⁠⁠ + ⁠⁠http://truthtotable.com ⁠⁠ + ⁠⁠http://thetruthacademy.com --- Support this podcast: https://pod

Today I’m answering YOUR questions about adult friendships. I’m joined by Abi Soliman as part of my series, The Art of Adult Friendships. I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones! You can watch the video here: https://youtu.be/yfFNieCYj0M As always, thanks for listening we hope you enjoyed and if you are looking for more way to connect and resources check out these links: + ⁠⁠http://havilahcunnington.com ⁠⁠ + ⁠⁠http://truthtotable.com ⁠⁠ + ⁠⁠http://thetruthacademy.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

Today I’m continuing my series, The Art of Adult Friendships. Today I’m giving you my 5 game changing truths to change your approach to friendships.  I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones! You can watch the video here: https://youtu.be/cnxkGR829vY As always, thanks for listening we hope you enjoyed and if you are looking for more way to connect and resources check out these links: + ⁠⁠http://havilahcunnington.com ⁠⁠ + ⁠⁠http://truthtotable.com ⁠⁠ + ⁠⁠http://thetruthacademy.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

In episode 1 of our series on The Art of Adult Friendship, we're tackling the 5 lies that are sabotaging your social life. The truth is navigating friendships as an adult is hard and there's not a roadmap or a rulebook to follow. Seasons shift and life changes and so do our friendships, but this shouldn't scare us away from developing and building vibrant and healthy friendships. Whether you're running a company, a busy stay at home mom, an entrepreneur, retired or anywhere in between, we all need strong friendships. Listen in to see which of these 5 lies resonates most with you and how you could be sabotaging your friendships. Looking for next steps for your high school senior? Check out Bethel Tech, the only Christian online tech bootcamp in the world for UX/UI design, full stack development, cyber security, data science and more... https://havilahcunnington.com/bethel-tech Connect with Havilah and discover more resources: All things Havilah: https://havilahcunnington.com Join my online book writing

Today I'm talking about a different perspective on relationships. In light of some of the events that have come out recently, I'm sharing my top ten boundaries that I use as a woman in ministry. I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones!  As always, thanks for listening we hope you enjoyed and if you are looking for more way to connect and resources check out these links: + ⁠⁠http://havilahcunnington.com ⁠⁠ + ⁠⁠http://truthtotable.com ⁠⁠ + ⁠⁠http://thetruthacademy.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

We're continuing our marriage series and today I'm joined by Abi Soliman. Abi and I are talking about the unexpected challenges for newlyweds and what we have learned. I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones! Be sure to watch the video of this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/gOzP_R8-H0Q As always, thanks for listening we hope you enjoyed and if you are looking for more way to connect and resources check out these links: + ⁠⁠http://havilahcunnington.com ⁠⁠ + ⁠⁠http://truthtotable.com ⁠⁠ + ⁠⁠http://thetruthacademy.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

On today's episode I’m joined by Caitlin Zick to continue our marriage series. We are talking about what we have learned in the importance and mindsets for building trust and intimacy.   I hope you enjoy today’s episode and join me for the next ones! You can watch the video here: https://youtu.be/waPgQZVTk78 As always, thanks for listening we hope you enjoyed and if you are looking for more way to connect and resources check out these links: + ⁠⁠http://havilahcunnington.com ⁠⁠ + ⁠⁠http://truthtotable.com ⁠⁠ + ⁠⁠http://thetruthacademy.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support