Girl Boner Radio

Interested in pegging a partner or being pegged? How about pegging the patriarchy? Canada-based sex and pleasure educator Luna Matatas receives a LOT of questions about sex, and butt play, with or without a strap-on, is among the most common themes.    In this episode you’ll learn:   Where the term “pegging” came from and what it means What led Luna to become passionate about pleasure-based sex education What pegging-curious people want to know more than anything! Tips for choosing the proper pegging gear Benefits of being the pegger How to up your pegging receiving skills for more mutual fun and pleasure Why anal training is important Dr. Megan’s tips for bringing up new, sexy activities to a partner   Luna Matatas: https://lunamatatas.com IG: @LunaMatatas   Girl Boner: https://augustmclaughlin.com/   IG: @GirlBonerMedia Dr. Megan: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure/  IG: @Dr.Megan.Fleming

You can “come of age” sex and relationship-wise at any stage of life. Take it from sex therapist Cyndi Darnell, disability advocate Andrew Gurza and industrial designer Ti Chang.    A few things you’ll learn in the episode:   What erotic embodiment entails Benefits of erotic embodiment Common myths about hiring sex workers Benefits of hiring a sex worker, whether you’re disabled or not Andrew and Dr. Megan’s advice for meeting accepting partners   Learn more:   http://cyndidarnell.com http://www.andrewgurza.com https://www.lovecrave.com/about/   E-Book: The Handi Book of Love, Lust & Disability: https://thatshandi.co/collections/pre-order/products/e-book-the-handi-book-of-love-lust-disability   Shop at The Pleasure Chest! https://thepleasurechest.com   Get FREE engraving on a Crave Vesper vibrator necklace with the code girlboner!  https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper/   Girl Boner: https://augustmclaughlin.com/    Dr. Megan: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure/

Kristen J. Sollée is an author, educator and second-generation witch whose latest book, Witch Hunt: A Traveler’s Guide to the Power and Persecution of the Witch, explores the witch as a figure of female power and persecution—covering everything from the dark realities of witch trials and dangerous misperceptions that echo today, to love spells, fascinating uses of menstrual blood and sex magic. She also happens to make chats about witchy role-play ideas incredibly fun! A few things you’ll learn about in this episode:   Kristen’s experience with long-haul COVID-19   What Kristen means by the “magic of place” and how writing her latest book, Witch Hunt, became a deeply personal experience and ultimately changed her   Witches throughout history and how they became linked with sex positivity and sex-positive feminism How the sex magic practice Kristen talked about during her last Girl Boner appearance played out in August’s life (Authors, take note!) 8 witchy role playing accessories + 3 sexy scenes to con

Dr. Tim Seelig, Emmy Award-winning­ director and San Francisco Gay Men's Chorus conductor, spent the first 35 years of his life closeted about his gayness in a traditional Southern Baptist community.    A few things you’ll learn in the episode:   How Tim was outed to his entire community and lost everything What he gained by coming out How his Baptist Christian family reacted and how those relationships evolved How encountering a man with AIDS changed him Highlights from an incredible forthcoming documentary Dr. Megan Fleming’s thoughts for a listener who wants to support her friend who recently came out as lesbian and has sex toy questions A food-themed bonus clip after the outro music   Dr. Tim Seelig: http://www.timseelig.com   More Girl Boner fun: https://girlboner.org/ (Click “blog” for episode transcripts.)   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/girlbonermedia/   To receive Clitoral Play: 7 Techniques for Mindblowing Pleasure and occasional hot sex tips from Dr. Megan Fleming, text 'desire" to 66866.

If you or a partner has ADHD, you know that brain styles can impact sex and relatioships in all sorts of ways.    A few things you’ll learn in this episode:   Common challenges related to sex and ADHD, from “time blindness” (for lack of a better term) to distractability    How this type of neurodivergence can enhance relationships and intimacy   Some related funny-in-hindsight experiences, from August and Rachael Rose   What to do if you’re struggling with sex or intimacy   Take the neurodiversity, sex, love and relationships survey created by Rachael Rose and Dr. Liz Powell here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeDLmfeX_XARHASs1RMLhURGZCaxIZWlf_t5e8wn8_h7iBZYg/viewform   Learn more about Rachael’s work:  http://hedonish.com   To receive Clitoral Play: 7 Techniques for Mindblowing Pleasure and occasional hot sex tips from Dr. Megan Fleming, text 'desire" to 66866. Or sign up here: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/    More Girl Boner fun: https://girlboner.org/   Instagram: https://www.instagram

Phone sex operator Amberly Rothfield had just gone through a several-month sex hiatus when she experienced an orgasm that changed her life. Dr. Samantha Allen had started to think orgasms were no longer in her future when, two years after sex reassignment surgery, she was surprised by one. Sex therapist Vanessa Marin had her first orgasm on the playground as a child. only to struggle in the climax department years later.   A few things you’ll learn in this episode:   A common myth about gender, being transgender and what sex-reassignment surgery actually entails   A few ways to invite your first orgasm alone or with a partner   How (and why) to create and continue expanding what Dr. Megan calls your “erotic menu”    Learn more and support this episode’s guests:   https://amberlyrothfield.com http://samanthaleighallen.com https://vmtherapy.com/how-to-orgasm M to (WT)F: Twenty-Six of the Funniest Moments from My Transgender Journey by Samantha Allen: https://www.audible.com/pd/M-to-WTF-Audiobook/B08FTJJH

Vibrators were originally created to treat “hysteria” in women. Thankfully, they’re now broadly embraced for personal pleasure. But not all sex toys are created equally or as beautifully.   A few things you’ll learn in this episode:   What Ti Chang learned about sex growing up and takeaways from her first vibrator experience   Why the aesthetics of sex toys, especially those marketed toward femmes, matter   Common myths about vibrators that can really stand in our way How to bring up toy use to a partner   Ways to make orgasms stronger through sex toy play, with or without a partner   Get FREE engraving on a Crave Vesper vibrator necklace with the code girlboner!  https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper/   INSTAGRAM:   @DesignerTi https://www.instagram.com/designerti/   @Dr.Megan.Fleming https://www.instagram.com/dr.megan.fleming/   @GirlBonerMedia https://www.instagram.com/girlbonermedia/   To receive Clitoral Play: 7 Techniques for Mindblowing Pleasure and occasional hot sex tips from Dr. Megan

Eager to get turned on or enjoy more pleasure? There are many ways to do so, and the benefits can go far beyond the bedroom. Take it from 6 authors or spicy books, as well as August and Dr. Megan! If you’re concerned about a lack of sexual desire lately, on the other hand, you’re not alone and that’s nothing to be ashamed of. Keep the fun going:   Autumn Bardot’s YouTube page for writers: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC001T98zlVVjqrutPCRPEsQ   Lauren Emily on Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/laurenemilywrites/   Rebecca Grace Allen: https://rebeccagraceallen.com   Logan Pierce: http://www.whoislogan.com   Kitt Crescendo’s books: https://www.amazon.com/Kitt-Crescendo/e/B00HIV96CW   The Big Book of Orgasms: 69 Sexy Stories, edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07H457569/   Shop at the Pleasure Chest:  https://thepleasurechest.com   To receive Clitoral Play: 7 Techniques for Mindblowing Pleasure and occasional hot sex tips from Dr. Megan Fleming, text 'desire" to 66866. Or

Have you ever used a non-sexual object for sexy play? If so, you’re far from alone. Sometimes these “pervertables” can bring fun and adventure. Other times, they land folks in the emergency room. Thankfully, there’s a lot you can do to have creative fun and stay safe at the same time. Take it from Dr. Megan Stubbs.   A few things you’ll learn in this episode:   What objects got lodged in folks’ vaginas and rectums last year   What this kind of report reflects about sex and sexuality   How to more safely use pervertables Vaginal douching risks and anal douching tips The best way to wash genitals   How to make sure your sex toys are as body-safe as possible   How do deal with negative comparison comments, about penis size specifically   Learn more:    What Did We Get Stuck in Our Rectums Last Year? https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/v74mgb/what-did-we-get-stuck-in-our-rectums-last-year   Dr. Megan Stubbshttps://www.sexologistmegan.com   More Girl Boner funhttps://girlboner.org/ To receive Clitoral

“What about Girl Boners?” August first wondered about this in grade school. While she didn’t realize it then, that curiosity set the stage for her eventual career. Throughout that work, she’s learned a great deal about obstacles in the realm of femme sexuality. She’s also heard many questions about arousal, a topic Dr. Megan has a lot to say about, given her nearly two decades as a sex therapist.   A few things you’ll learn in this episode:   What “Girl Boner” means   A few common obstacles around “female sexuality”   Repercussions of these obstacles that hurt folks of all genders Tips for exploring your personal turn-ons   Explore Girl Boner: https://girlboner.org/ Shop for toys: https://thepleasurechest.com    To receive Clitoral Play 7 Techniques for Mindblowing Pleasure and occasional hot sex tips from Dr. Megan, text 'desire" to 66866. Or sign up here: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/    Connect with Makenzie Mizell for podcasting services: https://www.periodnetwork.com

Porn. How do you feel about it? August has heard from folks who love watching porn and feel it strengthens their lives and relationships, people who feel better off without it, folks who are frustrated by what’s portrayed on mainstream porn screens and those who are irked by the myths surrounding the medium. All of these feelings are valid. One thing’s for darn sure. We need more conversations and education about it. In this episode you’ll learn: Filmmaker Angie Rowntree’s decision to create porn geared toward female viewers A bunch of ways sex on the screen varies from sex in porn What can happen when we aren’t clear on these differences (including a true story) How performer and creator June Ann navigates pirating of her content How penis pumps work, what they’re for and whether they’re safe More! Learn more: June Ann: jadextraextra.com Sssh: Sssh.com Girl Boner: https://augustmclaughlin.com/  Dr. Megan: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure/ The Pleasure Chest: https://thepleasurechest.com

Cheryl Hunter talks to August about the harrowing tale of the kidnapping and sexual assault she endured in her late teens, when she traveled from rural Colorado to France in hopes of launching a modeling career. She’s now a bestselling author, news commentator and resilience expert with a great deal to say about navigating difficult times, forgiveness, owning your story and learning to thrive—including during and after the pandemic.   Cheryl Hunter: https://www.instagram.com/huntercheryl/ http://cherylhunter.com/masterclass   Erin Tillman: https://thedatingadvicegirl.com   More Girl Boner fun: https://augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner

Holly, Lena Corazon, Shannon K. and Kirsten share their favorite solo play techniques, from fingers-only to a nipple-stimulating toy!   A few things you’ll learn in this episode:   1 Tips for up-leveling or starting a masturbation practice 2 Ways a piercing might enhance sexual pleasure 3 What some people use instead of a vibrator in a pinch 4 Benefits of natural oils as lube 5 How to deal with shame around solo play 6 Awesome perks of “Jill-ing” off  6 When to reveal your sexual desires and orientation to someone you’re dating   Erin Tillman’s book + podcast: https://thedatingadvicegirl.com The Pleasure Chest specials: https://thepleasurechest.com Followup blog post: https://girlboner.org/blog  Girl Boner books: https://augustmclaughlin.com/books/

Grief impacts sexuality, yet the topic too often goes unaddressed. In this episode, Joan Price speaks to this interplay and ways to best navigate intimacy during difficult times, drawing on from personal and professional experience.  1 A gift Joan’s beloved gave her before he died (that we should all consider doing)  2 How Joan reconnected with sexual pleasure after losing him 3 Practical ways to deal with insecurities that impact sex and dating 4 Joan’s decision to cocreate an explicit sex ed film for seniors 5 Spectacular aspects of creating the film 6 Takeaways from the film that can enhance our sex lives at any age   Explore Joan Price’s books, blogs, webinars and film: https://joanprice.com Check out Erin Tillman’s book and podcast: https://thedatingadvicegirl.com Shop at the Pleasure Chest: https://thepleasurechest.com Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras: https://girlboner.org/ 

What’s your wildest sex or dating memory? This week on Girl Boner Radio, August shares OMG stories from fellow Period podcasters, including Makenzie Mizell, AM Davies and Sara, plus dating empowerment coach, Erin Tillman. August starts with one of her own stories and wraps up with stories submitted by listeners.    Work with Erin: https://thedatingadvicegirl.com Celebrate Anal August! https://thepleasurechest.com More Girl Boner fun: https://girlboner.org/    Period: https://www.periodnetwork.com Comadres y Comics: https://www.periodnetwork.com/comadres-y-comics Yes, a Stripper Podcast: https://www.thequeenofsexy.com/yes-a-stripper-podcast/

Mollie Birney, MA knows how challenging self-destructive behaviors are, thanks to personal and professional experience. She spoke with August about her journey, including messages she learned about femininity from her abusive father and her toxic relationship with boxing, plus her top advice for addressing compulsive behaviors and cultivating self-compassion. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who feels powerless to risky sexual urges and wants to save his relationship with his girlfriend.   Mollie on IG: https://www.instagram.com/mbclinicalcoaching/   “Things I Learned Getting Punched in the Face”: https://humanparts.medium.com/things-i-learned-getting-punched-in-the-face-b92faed76124 Shop summer vibes! https://thepleasurechest.com Pleasure challenge: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/ More Girl Boner fun: https://girlboner.org/ 

In loving memory of Lora Somoza, August shares highlights from their 2017 studio time when they talked about sex games and what to keep out of your onling dating profile, then played The F’ing Truth (like Truth or Dare Bingo without the dares). Dr. Megan Fleming shares tips for a listener whose partner experiences multiple orgasms and she would like to, too.    Between the Sheets with Lora Somoza: https://apple.co/3j8pQj7  Pleasure challenge: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/ More Girl Boner fun: https://girlboner.org/  The F’ing Truth: http://www.thefingtruth.com   Apple Podcasts summary:   In loving memory of Lora Somoza, August shares the time they played a game (like Truth or Dare without dares), covering everything from booty calls and masturbation memories to true intimacy. Dr. Megan weighs in on multiple orgasms.

After an unhealthy relationship, Steph Auteri became afraid of sex and fell into a sex writing career as an attempt to fix her perceived "female sexual dysfunction." The journalist and author of the reported memoir, A Dirty Word, explored her journey with August for this narrated episode. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who experiences severe anxiety when things get physical, sometimes to the point of vomiting.   Steph Auteri’s book: https://www.stephauteri.com/a-dirty-word/ Summer vibes: https://thepleasurechest.com Free challenge: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure/ Girl Boner fun: http://girlboner.org   Dating Advice Girl Podcast: https://apple.co/2CBC5DU Bedpost Podcast: http://thesonarnetwork.com/the-bed-post/

Yes, a Stripper Podcast host AM Davies joins August to explore her sexual empowerment journey and how an accident helped solidify her purpose. Learn how her teenage dream of professional stripping came true, changes she’d like to see in the industry, her advice for cultivating sexual freedom and more. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who misses her pre-pandemic masturbation practice.   Yes, a Stripper Podcast: https://www.thequeenofsexy.com/yes-a-stripper-podcast/ Soldiers of Pole: https://soldiersofpole.com Earn It app petition: https://actionnetwork.org/petitions/dont-let-congress-kill-encryption Free challenge: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure/ More Girl Boner fun: http://girlboner.org

Dr. Claretha Yeager, DACM joins August to explore 6 practical ways to be more present, which can enhance our emotional wellbeing, relationships and whole lives. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who feels distracted during sex.    Get Claretha’s free 5-minute meditation: https://mailchi.mp/jadepathacupuncture/groundingmeditation Sign up for Dr. Megan’s free pleasure challenge: https://greatlifegreatsex.com/pleasure/ Shop for toys and more! https://thepleasurechest.com More Girl Boner fun: http://girlboner.org