Girl Boner Radio

Fiona Dawson grew up in a semi-sex-positive home, and didn’t question her orientation until she fell in love with a woman. Coming out as gay felt fairly easy to her. Coming out as bi was another story…    Now an Emmy-nominated, award-winning filmmaker and author of the forthcoming book, “Are Bisexuals Just Greedy?,” Fiona aims to un-f*ck gender and sexuality for a more harmonious world.    You’ll also learn about:   Fiona’s sexual “firsts” and a few from listeners The difference between bisexual and pansexual What Fiona’s female gender identity means to her Fiona’s “blow job learning curve” (and her related book dedication) Why it’s pretty common for people assigned female at birth not to enjoy going down on a penis   Learn about Fiona Dawson’s work: freelionproductions.com   Fiona on IG: fionajdawson and @nowwithfiona   Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0   Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner   More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTo

When award-winning journalist Rachel Krantz started dating non-monogamous Adam, she thought she might finally break her pattern of short-lived, suffocating relationships. Once gaslighting ensued, she found herself stuck in a new set of problems. Rachel finally found healing and liberation and shared her story in the memoir, Open.    You’ll also learn:   How non-monogamy helped Rachel explore her queerness Her advice on relationship/sexual desires versus societal “shoulds” How her reporter’s mind led to a unique exploration of gaslighting What’s most help her find healing   Learn more about Rachel: racheljkrantz.com    Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0   Check out the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest!   Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner     More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner 

August shares the experience that helped inspire all-things-Girl Boner and why she no longer considers herself a “late bloomer.”   Explore podcast advertising: zen.ai/girlbonerradio0   Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner     More Girl Boner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner

Allison Hope made a bet with a friend to see who could orgasm first, explored her sexuality in New York City’s queer community and realized her sex limits during a salacious week on Fire Island—all before meeting her now wife. In the past few years, they’ve navigated very different libidos.    You’ll also learn:   Two ways perimenopause can impact sexual desire How Allison’s journey and erotica writing interplay What inspired Allison to write “The Phallacy”    Allison’s articles and essays: urbaninbreeding.com   Read Allison’s story in The Big Book of Orgasms, Volume 2 (Cleis Press), edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel: https://bit.ly/3CAQJqg   Check out the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest!   Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner     Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3 (or girlbonerradio at checkout)   More GirlBoner fun: augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner/  

Rose Caraway had just launched her erotica podcast when she received an email from a listener with a compelling request: Would she share a story about cuckolding? That question, paired with a book she considers a “cuckolding bible,” led her down a spicy and loving path—after some mixed feelings.    You’ll also learn about:   Cuckolding basics Cuckolding tips for beginners How you can engage in it while staying sexually monogamous Important perks of erotica The parts of Rose’s story in The Big Book of Orgasms, Volume 2 that were inspired by IRL experience   The Big Book of Orgasms, Volume 2 (Cleis Press), edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel: https://bit.ly/3CAQJqg   Kiss Me Quick’s Erotica Podcast   Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3 (or girlbonerradio at checkout)   Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner     Check out August’s books, including Girl Boner, Girl Boner Journal and her latest, co-written by Jamila M. Dawson, LMFT, With Pleasure: Managing T

Suzannah Weiss was already writing about sex and relationships when she began a mission to experience orgasm during partnered sex. Judy Calabrese never expected to go down a lust-filled path with her doula—but sometimes, things…happen.   Suzannah Weiss: suzannahweiss.com   Judy Calabrese: judycalabrese.com   The Big Book of Orgasms, Volume 2 (Cleis Press), edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel: https://bit.ly/3CAQJqg   Explore the Pleasure Chest’s Wanderful World collection!   Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3 (or girlbonerradio at checkout)   Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner     Check out August’s books, including Girl Boner, Girl Boner Journal and her latest, co-written by Jamila M. Dawson, LMFT, With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships: augustmclaughlin.com/books   IG: @GirlBonerMedia  TikTok: @GirlBonerRadio  FB: @MyGirlBoner   

Veronica Grant had her sights set on lasting love from early on. After a spree of mismatches and breakups, she learned what real emotional availability looks like—which made way for deep love.    Today she’s a life and love coach, and the author of the new book, You Are Meant For Love: A No-Nonsense Guide To Help Smart, Successful Women Attract High Quality Partners and Real Love.   This episode explores Veronica’s personal journey, from what she learned about sex and romance early on to ways she later used sex to save relationships and the heartache that finally prompted her to seek healing. Plus, what one relationship taught her about her sexuality, which brought her a lot of comfort and confidence.   Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3 (or girlbonerradio at checkout)   Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner     Check out August’s books, including Girl Boner, Girl Boner Journal and her latest, co-written by Jamila M. Dawson, LMFT, With Pleasure:

If you’ve used sex toys, you probably have memorable sex toy stories. Hear several from listeners, as well as Andrew Gurza and Heather Morrison of Bump’n—plus how these two siblings ended up launching an accessible sex toy company, with a mission that goes beyond the toy itself.   Learn all about Bump’n and preorder the Joystick: getbumpn.com   Check out the “Picture This” documentary on Prime.   Explore the Pleasure Chest’s Spring Fling collections!   Get 2 months of fee-free investing at Vinovest:  zen.ai/girlbonerradio   Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3 (or girlbonerradio at checkout)   Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner   This episode features voice artists Rosa Delgado and Loquiverba! Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin of Nourish Literary, Inc.

Beverly Diehl felt somewhat relieved when she was diagnosed with breast cancer, a disease she expected to develop at some point. What she didn’t anticipate was the profound impact a boudoir photoshoot would have on her body image and sense of sexiness.    In this Girl Boner Radio episode, you’ll hear excerpts from August’s 2019 conversation with Beverly, plus tips for planning your own sensual shoot.    A transcript and a few photos from Beverly’s shoot: augustmclaughlin.com/blog   Beverly’s Great Sluts of History series on Medium: writerbeverly.medium.com   Beverly’s memoir: Sex, Drugs, Rock ‘n Roll & a Tiara   Nick Holmes’ photography   Get 2 months of fee-free investing at Vinovest: zen.ai/girlbonerradio   Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3 (or girlbonerradio at checkout)   Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner  

Rebekah Buege was once shamed for her inability to orgasm with a particular partner. That relationship brought body image issues to the surface. Navigating the challenges led her to more pleasure and confidence, as well as her career.    A few things you’ll learn:   How Rebekah dealt with orgasm challenges and her partner’s shaming—and how she’d dealt with a similar occurrence more recently   A common myth about the female orgasm and vulva owner / women's sexuality   Her top advice for starting to cultivate body confidence   Ways body fixation can take away from sexual pleasure   Some of August’s tips for reducing negative body thoughts, and the role sex might play (including a little excerpt from her Girl Boner book)   Explore the Pleasure Chest’s Best Couples Vibe collection!   Get 2 months of fee-free investing at Vinovest:  zen.ai/girlbonerradio   Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3 (girlbonerradio at checkout)   Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/g

CK Love thought she was finally “fully open” in her sensuality when a breakup prompted her to dig deeper. Babe West has flourished since entering the porn industry for work that varies greatly from her survival sex work earlier on.   Learn more about this episode’s guests: CK Love: restlessspiritproductions.com Babe West: thebabewest.com   Get 2 months of fee-free investing at Vinovest:  zen.ai/girlbonerradio   Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3 (girlbonerradio at checkout)   Support the show + get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner     Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin of Nourish Literary, Inc. Learn more: augustmclaughlin.com  IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin

Pleasure, connection, mindblowing sex! Frank Wiegers grew up during World War II, in a sexually repressive environment. Today, the former fighter pilot and Vietnam War veteran embraces “magical sex,” and teaches others how to invite and make the most of the same.   In addition to Frank’s personal journey, you’ll learn:   What “magical sex” is, including 4 stages Activities that can deepen pleasure and connection How (and why) to apply sex magick after sex A ritual Frank and Judith practice to keep the spark alive   Learn more about Frank’s work: themagicalsexbook.com   Check out the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest!   Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr here: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3 (or “girlbonerradio” at checkout)   Join August’s community: patreon.com/girlboner     IG: @GirlBonerMedia  FB: @MyGirlBoner  Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin   Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin of Nourish Literary, Inc.  

After a difficult pregnancy, traumatic childbirth and near death experience, Renée Schuls-Jacobson endured “next level insomnia.” Little did she know the dark places her attempts to feel better would lead.    For seven years she took medications as prescribed, not realizing the drug was intended for short-term use or that she’d grown dependent. Meanwhile, she tried to make her marriage, which lacked sexual chemistry, work. Renée's story is also one of hope, healing and vibrancy—including re: her Girl Boners. ;)   This episode contains mentions of traumatic events and suicidal ideation. If you’re struggling with such thoughts, please call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 800-273-8255   Explore or purchase Renée artwork: rasjacobson.store   Order Psychiatrized: Waking up after a Decade of Bad Medicine   Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr here or here: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3    Join August’s community: patreon.com/girlboner     Instagram: @GirlBonerMedia  Facebook: @MyGirlBoner  T

Emotional connection before sexual chemistry, love without the heirarchy and more! August shares highlights from her 2019 conversation with Carolina Hoyos, an Afro-Indigenous (Quechua-Kichwa) actor, playwright, director, songwriter and voice artist.    You’ll learn about:   Carolina’s sexual empowerment journey Common myths about demisexuality Common myths about bisexuality Carolina’s coming out (to family) story The importance of queer represention in films and TV   Check out Carolina’s film and festival: Indigiqueer Identity: Reclaiming Past, Present, and Future   Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr here or here: https://zen.ai/girlbonerradio3   Join August’s community: patreon.com/girlboner     Instagram: @GirlBonerMedia Facebook: @MyGirlBoner Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin   Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin.

Author Kandi Steiner was leaning toward no more casual sex when an experience with a friend bolstered that decision. She now creates female characters who voice their desires. Adult star turned author, Logan Pierce, learned similar lessons the hard way. And erotic fiction can help inspire steamier experiences. Take it from writer and editor, Rachel Kramer Bussel.   A few more things you’ll learn about:   Communicating your desires Accepting sex-related feedback (with a throwback clip featuring Logan PIerce) Spicy and empowering perks of erotica    Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr here!    Books by Kandi Steiner   Between the Sheets: Rise of a Working Stiff    Best Women's Erotica of the Year, Volume 7    The Big Book of Orgasms, Volume 2: 69 Sexy Stories   Join August’s community: patreon.com/girlboner     Instagram: @GirlBonerMedia Facebook: @MyGirlBoner Twitter: @AugstMcLaughlin   Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin.  

After using dating apps for 10 years, author Shani Silver gave them up and gained surprising, life-shifting rewards. Therapist Kerry Cohen has learned to navigate life and relationships while managing sex and love addiction, terms that remain common and controversial.    A few things you’ll learn about:   What finally prompted Shani to give up dating apps Her advice for anyone feeling miserably dependent on them A perspective shift she recommends for embracing single-hood When Kerry’s struggles with sex and love emerged A few reasons “sex and love addiction” termonology is controversial, and why Kerry believes that’s a good thing  How messaging around sex, love and romance make romantic and sexual compulsions trickier, and how those messages affect us all   Check out A Single Revolution, by Shani Silver, and Crazy for You, by Kerry Cohen   Save 30% on your first three of Zencastr here!    Check out the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest!   Join August’s community: patreon.com/girlboner     Girl Boner Ra

Dr. Heather Bartos was well into her career when her husband stopped desiring sex. Navigating a sexless marriage opened up old wounds and led her to look deeply at her sex-related beliefs.    A few more things you’ll learn about:   What Dr. Bartos learned about sex growing up in the ‘80s in Texas The most common sex-related challenge she hears about in her office 5 factors that fuel low sexual desire in anyone, men and penis-havers included Benefits of embracing your sexuality as your own—plus an important way to do so    Save 30% on your first three months of Zencastr here! (Open in Chrome.)   Support the show and get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner     Sign up for occasional email updates from August   Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin, with transcript support from KM Huber.   

Why resolve to something diminishing when you can set your sights on something spicier? Dr. Sakshi Tickoo, a queer, Brown, chronically disabled occupational therapist and a sexuality counselor who's based in Mumbai, India, joined August to explore smart sexuality aspirations to consider as we move toward 2022.    A few things you’ll learn about:   How (and why) to create a pleasure toolkit Sex goals set by listeners Benefits of exploring a new sexual practice, such as rope play or BDSM An exercise for building body confidence A toy you might LOVE, from The Pleasure Chest   Support the show and get fun extras: patreon.com/girlboner   Sign up for (very) occasional email updates from August   Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin, with transcript support from KM Huber.  

Dr. Jordin Wiggins grew up in a small Canadian town where her sex education involved, “don’t do it.” Later on, after setting her sights on a fulfilling sex life, she lost her libido twice. She found her way back and now teaches other women and vulva owners to never settle for bad sex and to value their pleasure and desires.    You’ll learn about:   The importance of understanding your (or a partner’s) menstrual cycle  Cycle awareness as part of non-hormonal birth control Why some folks end up making to-do lists during sex Common barriers around female sexuality Benefits of shifting sex from a “should” to personal pleasure August’s top tips for better connecting with your sexuality Dr. Megan’s latest Pleasure Picks - sexy gift ideas!

Nadia North grew up in Wisconsin and considers herself a late bloomer in the sex department. When she met and entered a relationship with porn legend, Peter, she had no idea how abusive he would become.    Seth S. grew up as a highly sensitive kid in California, where he endured a sexual assault from an older boy. For years, that abuse affected his beliefs about male sexuality.   Nadia is early in her healing journey and Seth is well into his. Both are speaking out in hopes that their stories and the lessons they’ve learned will have a positive impact on others.    A few more things you’ll learn about:   What “love bombing” entails How being a highly sensitive person (HSP) has impacted Seth’s PTSD and how how’s grown to embrace his sensitivity What’s most helped Nadia and Seth manage trauma while cultivating pleasure A grounding exercise from With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships Follow Nadia North on Twitter Check out the latest specials at The Pleasure Chest!   Suppo