Girl Boner Radio

Ghosting, mixed signals, "rape fantasies" and more. Erin Tillman, inclusive dating coach and author of The Consent Guidebook, joins August to discuss the ins and outs of consent, address listeners' questions and talk about films that get consent right or wrong. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who has violent sexual fantasies and wonders if they derive from her history of abuse. Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com. 

Cassie Brighter, a speaker and author, joins August for a Girl Boner Radio chat on intersectionality in womanhood, whether pussy hats are transphobic, her personal journey as a transgender woman, raising trans children, and more! August also addresses the most common topic she hears about from cis men with the help of Dr. Megan Fleming. (Hint: It involves penises!) Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com. 

Activist, writer and researcher Winnie M. Lee joins August to discuss the effects of sexual violence, leading a fulfilling life after surviving sexual trauma and ways consent and feminism play into all of this. Dr. Megan weighs in for a listener who feels lost in her relationship. August shares bravery experiences from listeners. Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com.

"Thinking off," tapping into your true desires and more! Sexual Intuitive® Susanna Brisk joins August to discuss takeaways from her new book, “How to Get Laid Using Your Intuition,” which she wrote in the context of the #metoo and #timesup movements. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who suspects her partner is cheating but has no tangible proof. Sign up for Girl Boner® extras at augustmclaughlin.com.  

Joanna Angel, named "one of the most powerful feminist icons in the adult industry," joins August to explore her novel, Night Shift: A Choose-Your-Own Erotic Fantasy, women directors in porn and more. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who discovered that his girlfriend writes kinky erotica. Does that mean she's unhappy with their "vanilla" sex life? Sign up for occasional Girl Boner® extras at augustmclaughlin.com. 

Sexual compulsions can affect all genders, yet women's struggles are seldom discussed. Erica Garza, author of Getting Off: One Woman's Journey Through Sex and Porn Addiction, joins August to explore her personal journey, taboos around female sexuality, healing from shame and more. Dr. Megan Fleming responds to a listener who found child porn on her husband's computer. Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com. 

Sex-positive feminist and YouTuber Cristina Royale joins August for a chat about her choice to be single, Cristina's most notable booty call experiences, sex drive changes, yoni eggs, porn and more! Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who wonders if she’s become asexual in her 30s but still wants to date. For Girl Boner® extras, sign up for email updates at augustmclaughlin.com.

We’ve all heard “you are what you eat.” But how does our dietary lifestyle influence romance and intimacy? Victoria Moran, multi-published author and host of Main Street Vegan, joins August to explore what plant-based eating has to do with great sex, navigating different-eater relationships and more. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener whose marriage is suffering due to different political views. Sign up for occasional Girl Boner® extras at augustmclaughlin.com. 

Matchmaker Marla Martenson joins August to discuss soul mates, ways to attract one, dating mistakes and more! Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who's dating for the first time in years and can't seem to find guys who desire more than casual sex. Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com. 

Nipples: are they sexy or sexualized? What can cuddling teach us about consent? And what can you do if your partner isn't as affectionate as you'd like? Jean Franzblau, sex educator and founder of The Cuddle Sanctuary, joins August explore all of this and more! Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in on expressing your desires without criticizing your partner. Sign up for occasional Girl Boner extras by email at augustmclaughlin.com.

From consent and vibrator necklaces to fabulous fashion goals, this episode is chock-full of practical tips, funny stories and adult slumber party game fun. Stylist Rayne Parvis and dating coach Erin Tillman join August for the last episode of the year! Dr. Megan Fleming shares "2 truths and a lie" about sex therapy clients. Sign up for Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com.

LGBTQI advocate, counselor and openly intersex comedian 7 joins August to discuss their journey to self-acceptance, non-binary gender idendities and ways to heal from addiction. Dr. Megan Fleming shares thoughts for a listener who finds sex less enticing without alcohol. Sign up for Girl Boner extras at augustmclaughlin.com.

Bigger isn't necessarily better, especially when entering a small penis pageant! But smaller penises can bring other perks, too. August interviews Rip Van Dinkle, a contestant in the Smallest Penis in Brooklyn pageant. Learn about Rip's experience, small penis humiliation as a fetish and more. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in on ways to embrace any body part you're not thrilled about. For Girl Boner extras, sign up for email updates at augustmclaughlin.com.

Hungry for hotter sex? The secret may have little to do with actual sex. Kait Scalisi, MPH of PassionbyKait.com joins August to explore contextual keys to better sex, coping with emotional triggers, potential perks of anal play, sexy gifts and more! Dr. Megan Fleming replies to a listener whose partner’s BDSM style reminds her of her abusive ex, triggering embodied trauma. For occasional Girl Boner® extras, sign up for email updates at augustmclaughlin.com. 

Vibrators, cock rings, erotica and more! August chats with Adam & Eve's Katy Zvolerin and sexologist Dr. Victoria Reuveni. Get the scoop on popular sex toys, orgasmic yoga, solo play for stress reduction and why so many toys marketed toward women are shaped like animals. Light up your holidays Girl Boner style with special discounts! You'll also hear about the sexiest gifts several listeners have given or received, plus Dr. Megan's advice for a listener who wants to gift her boyfriend a toy and address erectile dysfunction at the same time. For Girl Boner extras, sign up for email updates at augustmclaughlin.com. To save $30 at TalkSpace, sign up at talkspace.com/boner.

VR webcam girl, activist and entrepreneur Ela Darling joins August for a chat about sex and VR! What are the potential pros and cons? And can sex robots replace humans in the bedroom? Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in for a listener who made a sex tape with her boyfriend and has been judging herself harshly ever since. For Girl Boner extras, sign up for email updates at augustmclaughlin.com. 

Do parts of the brain shut off during orgasm? Sex therapist and scientist Dr. Nan Wise joins August to explore her latest findings, orgasm fMRI studies, sexual pleasure and more. Dr. Megan weighs in for a listener: is using your vibrator every day risky for managing chronic pain? For Girl Boner® extras, sign up for email updates at augustmclaughlin.com. 

Does size matter? What if your partner's penis is so large, penetration is painful? Or smaller than you're used to? London Keyes, an award-nominated porn star, joins August to discuss her career, why she's leaving the adult industry and all-things-penis, from blow job tips and pleasure myths to the potential perks of double penetration. Dr. Megan Fleming weighs in a for a listener whose partner's large penis has her reaching for ibuprofen. For Girl Boner extras, sign up for monthly email updates at augustmclaughlin.com. To save $30 at TalkSpace visit talkspace.com/boner.    

If you struggle to experience orgasm or wonder how you can repair your relationship after a betrayal, you're not alone. Shadeen Francis, MFT joins August to discuss common sexual and relationship challenges and ways to address them. Megan Fleming, PhD weighs in for a listener who's about to start couples therapy, but her husband is far from enthusiastic. For Girl Boner extras, sign up for monthly email updates at augustmclaughlin.com. To save $30 at TalkSpace, visit talkspace.com/boner.  

Difficulty becoming pregnant is common and not often discussed. TV producer and co-creator of Bubblesandbumps.com Simone Tai has been out to change this, ever since enduring her own challenges with infertility, miscarriages and in vitro fertilization. Simone chats with August about her journey, how the challenges affected her marriage and sex life and more. Dr. Megan Fleming shares thoughts for a listener whose sex life with her husband has slowed to a halt since their IVF treatments and birth of their daughter. For Girl Boner extras, visit augustmclaughlin.com. To save $30 off your first month at TalkSpace, sign up at talkspace.com/boner.