Dr Karin Love & Life

Today we are getting back to basics! One of the reasons I started Love & Life was to share my journey to finding love, not settling along the way, and building a community to support other women in similar situations. So here to discuss her own journey finding love later, I'm joined by Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield.What do you do when the thing you’ve prayed for never seems to arrive?For many single women, the journey can be filled with confusing messages, unwanted advice, and painful assumptions. You’re told you’re too picky. Too independent. Too successful. Too intimidating. And as the years pass, those voices can only get louder.Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield shares her story today on how she too (like me) found love later in life. We discuss singleness, waiting, healing, loneliness, and the surprising ways God works in seasons that don’t unfold according to our timelines.Together we share our stories of becoming brides later in life—after decades of unanswered questions, surrendered dreams, heartbrea

How much influence did your siblings really have on the person you became?Most of us spend years examining the impact our parents had on our lives, but what about our sibling dynamics or lack thereof for only children? How much of your identity, your confidence, your relationships, your career choices, and even your marriage were shaped by the siblings who grew up alongside you?In this follow-up conversation on birth order and family systems, Karin and Elliott explore the often-overlooked influence siblings have on one another—from childhood decision-making and identity formation to dating patterns, marriage dynamics, leadership styles, and lifelong relationships.Together they discuss why younger siblings often measure themselves against older siblings, how brothers and sisters unintentionally shape one another’s interests and ambitions, and why the same family can produce children who are remarkably different from one another. They also examine the role birth order may play in friendships, marriage compatibi

In this conversation, Karin and Elliott’s oldest brother, Dr. Warren Anderson, joins Elliott and Producer Tim for a personal discussion about family dynamics and birth order primarily from the viewpoint of firstborns. Elliott, Warren, and Producer Tim unpack the psychology behind birth order theory, sibling identity formation, and the different ways children adapt to pressure, conflict, expectations, and approval. They explore the tension between responsibility and freedom, leadership and loneliness, structure and authenticity, and how even loving families unintentionally shape emotional patterns that follow us into adulthood.From academic pressure and rebellion to music, ministry, vocation, leadership, marriage, and emotional burnout, this episode wrestles honestly with the complexity of becoming yourself while still carrying the influence of the people who raised you.So if you’ve ever felt the weight of expectations, struggled to understand your family dynamics, wrestled with leadership fatigue, or wondered

Why do we compare ourselves to other people so constantly? Why do some relationships inspire us while others leave us feeling anxious, defeated, insecure, or exhausted?In this episode, we unpack the psychology of comparison, competition, conformity, and identity—and how these forces quietly shape the way we move through everyday life.Drawing from Elliott’s sermon this past Sunday, which explored the relationship between Mary and Martha from scripture while tying in the work of social psychologist Leon Festinger’s on group dynamics and social comparison theory, we explore the tension between authenticity and belonging. Why do we feel the need to fit in? Why do we instinctively measure ourselves against other people? And how do those comparisons either motivate growth or slowly destroy our peace?Together we wrestle with the emotional pull of social media, family systems, personality differences, sibling dynamics, performance culture, and the subtle ways comparison impacts our confidence, relationships, spiritua

Today we dive into what is commonly known as the “placebo effect” and the power our brain has to shape our beliefs and reality.  And of course the way we experience our reality shapes our identity, relationships, and the stories we tell ourselves.What happens when your expectations begin shaping your reality? Can the mind actually influence pain, healing, confidence, and even the way we experience love and suffering? And what do the placebo and nocebo effects reveal about the way we move through life?In this conversation, we unpack the psychology behind belief—how our thoughts, labels, and internal narratives can either move us toward freedom or quietly trap us in cycles of fear, dysfunction, addiction, and relational pain. Are we becoming what we believe about ourselves?Together we explore how expectation impacts everything from mental health to marriage, addiction recovery, emotional resilience, and spiritual growth. We discuss the tension between acknowledging pain without becoming defined by it, why suffe

We’ve all been there. Done the work. Completed the hard thing. Only to find that it seemingly didn’t matter. The outcome we hoped for fell short. It can be devastating. I did all the right things, didn’t I?We can feel shame or even anger.So what do you do when the pursuit for success, influence, and affirmation becomes a trap feeding ego, pride, and control? How do we stay rooted in truth—and find peace amidst life's chaos?In this episode, we dive into the mindset shifts needed to resist the ego-driven temptation to seek external validation.Join us as we explore the deep connection between authenticity and spiritual freedom—why even Jesus was despised when he healed and how embracing rejection can lead to real influence. We break down how ego, pride, and the illusion of control sabotage growth, and how real resilience is found in surrendering these false gods to God's sovereignty.If you've ever wrestled with feeling unseen or been disappointed when results don’t match your expectations, may this e

I think we can all agree that things feel heavy right now. Wars. Culture Wars. The politicization of our health and, well, everything! It never stops.And when things feel heavy and like there’s chaos all around us it can feel disempowering. What can I actually do? What do I have the power to change? What can I turn to?In today’s episode Karin and Elliott wrestle with these questions we all face. They talk us through various situations and examples of the ways we can find ourselves carrying the weight of the world on our shoulders and feeling unable to make a real change. They take us through various reframes and help us see underlying motivations for these various issues. What role does fear play? What about trying to control people and situations around us?  What role does faith play? Is prayer enough? What does it look like to be grounded?Join Karin and Elliott as they wrestle through these issues and offer us some perspective, guidance, and soul care as we navigate the world around us. Dr. Karin & Past

Wrestling with addictions is a part of the human experience we all face — to our phones, screens, routines, and even good things. In this episode, we explore the neurological, spiritual, and psychological roots of addiction, revealing how everything from our experiences, wiring, culture, faith (or lack of it) can shape our lives, minds, and who we are.Join us as we unpack the science behind behavioral addictions—how habits like compulsive phone use mimic drug withdrawal in the brain—and why their physiological effects are much more similar than you might think. We break down the latest in mental health language shifts from "substance abuse" to "substance use," and delve into the powerful role of language in destigmatizing struggles we all face. You'll discover how addiction isn’t just about substances—it’s intertwined with human biology and spiritual longing, revealing how dependency can become both a trap and a pathway to spiritual intimacy.We'll explore topics including: the neur

Elliott and I reflect on Easter and how we can integrate the miracle of Christ’s resurrection into our daily lives.We talk about the freedom that comes from surrendering to Christ’s calling and how we can submit to His expectations of us.Spoiler alert:  this surrendering and submitting stuff goes against our natural urges—which is why we need supernatural help!We then move into sharing real-life stories and practical applications on how to move through relationships and hardships that come our way. What do you do when even family or friends disagree with what you believe God is calling you to do? Whether you're wrestling with doubts, facing difficult scenarios, or simply seeking fresh motivation to follow Jesus with courage and joy, you'll leave inspired to embrace the foolishness of the Gospel and walk boldly in the resurrected life.Dr. Karin & Pastor Elliott AndersonWebsite: http://loveandlifemedia.com/Empowered Dating Playbook: smarturl.it/EmpoweredDatingBookInstagram: @dr.karin | @pastorelliot

Take charge of your thoughts—even when it feels like you can’t change them.Elliott and Karin unpack the powerful belief that keeps so many of us stuck: “I can’t change my thinking.” They explore how our brains are wired with a negative bias—and how that wiring can quietly shape our beliefs, relationships, and sense of hope.What are you telling yourself on repeat? • I can’t change. • I’ll never get past this. • This is just who I am. • There’s no way through this.These thoughts don’t just sit in your mind—they take root. They shape your identity, your relationships, and your ability to move forward.But what if that belief isn’t true?In this episode, Karin and Elliott explore the following: • Why your brain defaults to negativity (and how to challenge it) • How “stuck thinking” becomes a false identity • The difference between “I can’t” and “this is hard” • How to begin rewiring your thoughts through small, intentional shifts • Why change often starts outside the biggest problem you’re facing • How fear and pas

After a few months off, Elliott is back! And he's just released his newest novel: When Love TransformsToday we discuss insights on marriage, crisis management, and the transformative power of faith. We go in depth on his latest novel, personal challenges, and the importance of surrendering to God's plan in life's trials.You can purchase Elliott's new book When Love Transforms here: https://a.co/d/0hbtoaUG Dr. Karin & Pastor Elliott AndersonWebsite: http://loveandlifemedia.com/Empowered Dating Playbook: smarturl.it/EmpoweredDatingBookInstagram: @dr.karin | @pastorelliottanderson

We’re back with The Smart Stepmom, Laura Petherbridge! We continue our discussion about stepfamily life by picking up where we left off in part 1.Specifically, Laura and I discuss the following: Current trends with stepfamilies.For example, the term “bonus mom” is now commonly used instead of “stepmother.” Is this helpful or hurtful?Custody changes—moving from mothers having full custody to 50/50 arrangements.Why children tend to have a harder time connecting with stepmothers as opposed to stepfathers.The many stepfamilies in the Bible and how Laura believes God views stepfamilies.Whether you’re personally part of a stepfamily or not, you’ll be blessed by Laura’s warmth, wit, and wisdom. Please join us! Laura Petherbridge, The Smart StepmomWebsite: https://www.thesmartstepmom.com/Dr. Karin & Pastor Elliott AndersonWebsite: http://loveandlifemedia.com/Empowered Dating Playbook: smarturl.it/EmpoweredDatingBookInstagram: @dr.karin | @pastorelliottanderson

I’m so pleased to introduce my personal stepmom coach, Laura Petherbridge, to the Love & Life family! Laura is an author, speaker, and coach. She specializes in supporting clients as they navigate the complexities of modern relationships. She works with couples, women, and single adults sharing with them what God has taught her as a childless stepmom. Laura shares truth fromScripture, along with wisdom from personal challenges. In part one of our conversation, Laura and I discuss all things stepfamily. Specifically, we tackle the following:• Expectations—those we realize we have and those that surprise us.• How bio parents perceive their children vs. how stepparents see their children. • The most important thing stepparents can do to help the family gel.• What bio parents need to understand about their spouse’s experience as a stepmother or stepfather.Join us for part 1 of our deep dive into stepfamily life!Laura Petherbridge, The Smart StepmomWebsite: https://www.thesmartstepmom.com/Dr. Karin & Pasto

I’m thrilled to welcome back to Love & Life, Jenna McCarthy. Her newest book was just released and is co-authored with Dr. Pierre Kory called: The War on Chlorine Dioxide: The Medicine That Could End Medicine. She’s also the author of Yankee Doodle Soup for the Fringy, Tin Foil Hat-Wearing Conspiracy Theorist’s Soul and The War on Ivermectin: The Medicine that Saved Millions and Could Have Ended the Pandemic with Dr. Pierre Kory. Picking up where we left off, we continue to process our parallel journeys navigating a country and world that we don’t even recognize anymore. How do you process everything that’s culturally and politically these last few years?How do you navigate the isolation you can feel from family and friends?What does moving forward look like? What can we do? What are practical ways we can push back and find trustworthy voices? And how does Substack play into all of this?We discuss this and so much on the show today! Jenna McCarthySubstack: https://jennasside.rocks/Dr. Karin & Pastor E

Valentine’s Day is right around the corner. It’s a holiday that brings up a lot of emotions for people whether you’re single or not. Elliott is back today to discuss various strategies and modalities for approaching Valentine’s Day that honors our past and encourages us to embrace growth and change regardless of our relationship status.  He specifically shares his experiences working with both students and therapy clients, highlighting how our formative years and relationships shape our pursuit of love. Elliott emphasizes that healing those wounds can lead to healthier and more fulfilling connections.  So if the idea of love to you feels complicated, chaotic, or even painful, this discussion dives into how you can rewire your attachment style, nurture genuine intimacy, and find peace regardless of your relationship history or status.Ultimately, we hope no matter what your relationship status is this Valentine’s Day, that this episode gives you practical steps to finding healing, fulfillment, and peace.  Dr. K

Today I’m speaking with Rob Pikula, who I met at the Indiana Children’s Health Defense. Rob is an advocate for medical freedom and shares his experience dealing with many personal trials and how he overcame those hardships through the power of shifting his mindset, understanding his triggers, and learning to live presently.  Rob shares how his health freedom advocacy began with a life-altering event—a heart attack that revealed to him the limitations of conventional medicine. After hitting various dead ends within the current medical system, Rob sought alternative treatments and started to question the medical protocols that had been imposed on him. This pivotal moment set him on a path of research and self-discovery, leading to a deeper understanding of health and wellness. Rob’s journey is a powerful testament to the importance of health freedom, personal empowerment, and the role of mindset in shaping our realities. May you be empowered by Rob’s story and encouraged to take control of your own mental, phys

Today I’m joined again by Dr. M. Nathaniel Mead and Dave Wayne as we continue the conversation Dr. Mead and I began in Ep. 391 Covid: Find out What REALLY Happened on The Covid Index. In this conversation, we dive into the ways censorship, corporate influence, and technological manipulation have distorted evidence-based medicine, suppressed free speech, and accelerated societal fragmentation. We also discuss the profound impact of mass formation and psychological manipulation during COVID — from the suppression of dissenting voices to the rapid artificialization of lifestyles, food, and even human identity. We break down:* The decline of genuine science and the rise of scientism during the pandemic* The dangers of centralized media, censorship, and reliance on AI for knowledge* How artificial environments, chemical exposure, and disconnection from nature are subtly rewiring human biology and psychology* The importance of reclaiming personal autonomy, free speech, and practices like mindfulness* Practical step

We are continuing to discuss what real change looks like in 2026. We start off in the middle of a Midwest snowstorm, which takes out Karin’s power mid-recording, but Elliott and Tim pick up the conversation and continue to discuss how Elliott’s clients have embraced his A.C.E. acronyms from Ep. 390.The conversation leads into what do we do when life happens? How do we stay present and grounded in the midst of chaos? How can we reframe difficult circumstances? How do we battle the internal dialogue we can all find ourselves struggling with? These patterns, beliefs, and habits that are ingrained into us. What does real transformation look like?Elliott gives practical application that gives us a framework for how to face these challenges and keep moving us forward! This is the time of the year when New Year’s Resolutions start to drop off. May this conversation help give you the tools and belief to keep going! You can take charge of your thoughts and take charge of your life in 2026!   Dr. Karin & Pastor Ell

Last November, I attended the Children's Health Defense Annual Conference in Austin, and I was able to connect with so many medical freedom activists and dissidents and so many people who are still concerned about COVID. Yes, even 6 years later - we need answers!At the conference, I got connected with The Covid Index, founded by researcher M. Nathaniel Mead, MSc, PhD.Since the late 1990s, Dr. Mead has authored over 55 peer-reviewed scientific papers, contributed to numerous books, served as an editor for two peer-reviewed scientific journals, and worked as an integrative-medicine research consultant. Mead is also the lead author on several peer-reviewed papers on the Covid-19 mRNA vaccines, co-authored with Drs. Peter McCullough, Stephanie Seneff, Jessica Rose, Paul Marik, William Makis, and other notable scientists.He joins me on the program today to discuss where we are today and the work that The Covid Index is doing to grow and build an expansive dictionary of evidence to the many falsehoods that were

On the heels of last week’s episode, we are continuing to discuss how to thrive in 2026! Today, Elliott and Karin dive into various modalities to help us strategize and take charge. They explore the importance of concrete planning in areas like sleep, nutrition, and personal habits, emphasizing the power of self-control and conscientiousness. Elliott takes us through two acronyms that he uses in his personality class he’s teaching this spring:A.C.E.Accept, Change, EngageAcknowledge, Consider, EmoteKarin then walks us through her practice this year, highlighting a fruit of the Spirit each month and the habits, practices, and mindset changes that can come from it. Finally, the conversation also touches on recent changes in health recommendations and their impact on current and future generations. Join them as they share personal insights, practical strategies, and the significance of aligning habits with values for a healthier, more intentional life in 2026!Dr. Karin & Pastor Elliott AndersonWebsite: http:/