Head Boss In Charge (h.b.i.c.)

Paul & Shimina take a shallow dive into respectability politics--a social phenomena that allows people to approve or disapprove the actions or behaviors of a member within a community based on personal biases or anticipated negative reactions from society to said behaviors. How does respectability politics play out at work and in your personal life? Your co-hosts share their experiences. Respectability Politics - https://mediadiversified.org/2015/01/08/what-are-respectability-politics-and-why-do-we-subscribe-to-them/ http://bigthink.com/alicia-wallace/everyday-respectability-politics https://everydayfeminism.com/2015/11/respectability-politics-black-women/ Betsy Devos Stays Unprepared - https://www.politico.com/magazine/story/2017/11/01/betsy-devos-secretary-education-profile-2017-215768 Nasty Former Univ of Hartford Girl - http://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-41839501 Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Cred

Do things ever get too much in life, to the point where you numb your emotions to get through the day? Paul & Shimina talk about the idea of numbing and its effects on the self and our relationship with others--be it at work or in our personal lives. Your co-hosts also play a fun game called, “Dinner, Drinks, Bar fight!” Listen, and play along with us! Rose McGowan Tries It https://blavity.com/rose-mcgowan-knows-she-messed-up-n-word-comparison-apologizes-for-stupidity-lapse?utm_content=bufferac9ab&utm_medium=social&utm_source=facebook.com&utm_campaign=buffer Lupita Nyongo tells the truth about Harvey Weinstein https://www.google.com/amp/deadline.com/2017/10/harvey-weinstein-responds-lupita-nyongo-sexual-harassment-op-ed-1202192376/amp/ Why we still teaching about Pilgrims? http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4998398/Apparent-slavery-recreation-causes-school-district-apology.html Shonda Rhimes: 3rd black woman inducted into TV Hall of Fame https://www.vanityfair.com/hollywood/2017/10/shonda-rhimes-tv

Stay in your lane… stop swerving! Have you encountered experiences in your professional and personal life, when people take the liberty to swerve in your lane? Shimina and Paul define this concept in their lives, provide examples, and potential solutions on how to respond to habitual lane crossers. Your co-hosts also play a fun game called, “For the Culture.” Listen, and play along with us! Little Richard Shenanigans http://www.pinknews.co.uk/2017/10/07/little-richard-says-hes-no-longer-gay-says-it-is-unnatural/ White Supremacy in Charlottesville...Again http://www.theroot.com/richard-spencer-and-his-tiki-torch-bitches-are-back-me-1819259689 U.S. Mass Shootings https://www.theroot.com/this-is-only-the-deadliest-shooting-in-u-s-history-bec-1819112938?utm_medium=sharefromsite&utm_source=The_Root_twitter Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T

Do you ever feel limited by the English language? Are you able to find the words that exactly define how you feel? Human emotions and experiences are expansive, and they sometimes take more than one English word to explain such emotions. Research shows that defining our feelings can help us better regulate our emotions and weaken negative emotions, but it’s not always easy to find the right word. Paul shares a list of emotions you may have experienced but couldn’t put into words. https://advice.shinetext.com/articles/7-words-for-emotions-youve-probably-experienced-but-never-knew/ Aaron Hernandez and CTE Story https://www.usatoday.com/story/sports/nfl/patriots/2017/09/21/aaron-hernandez-cte-suicide-murder-new-england-patriots/690651001/ Piers Morgan's Obsession with the N-Word http://mashable.com/2017/09/21/piers-morgan-tweet-sorority-singing-kanye-west-lyrics/#fyExINzv1iqJ Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credi

Paul & Shimina celebrate their one-year anniversary (30 episodes) since starting Head Boss In Charge. Celebrate, laugh, and reflect as they honor today’s episode by discussing key pop culture moments since the year 2000, but in the context of where they were in their lives, how they responded, and how those moments personally influenced them, and the world today. Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

This week Paul and Shimina discuss making mistakes at work, and how we recover from them. Your co-hosts explore mistakes in the context of their professional careers--both clerical and political--both big and small. Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

People of color often get mislabeled as being intimidating. What does that even mean? Where does that come from? Paul and Shimina explore how intimidation precipitates in the workplace. They also discuss how certain traits may appear as intimidating, when more often than not, these traits are considered positive attributes in a leader. The following article is referenced in today’s episode: https://www.aconsciousrethink.com/2925/13-signs-you-have-a-strong-personality-that-might-scare-some-people/ Lil Duval on The Breakfast Club - https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/morning-mix/wp/2017/07/31/i-dont-care-she-dying-comedian-lil-duval-says-he-would-kill-a-sexual-partner-if-he-learned-she-was-transgender/?utm_term=.fe37a16bdcc4 AirBnb’s Response to protests and violence in Charlottesville, VA http://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/ahead-far-right-wing-rally-virginia-airbnb-cancels-accounts-n790716 Uber's New Exec Bozoma Saint John on Sexism, Embracing Fear, and Bringing Her 'Whole Self' to Work - https://www.glamo

“Fear of missing out” (aka FOMO): the pressure to participate in all events, consume all types of media, or be in proximity of all experiences in order to feel a sense of fulfillment. This feeling is real! Paul and Shimina discuss the many shapes of FOMO and analyze how it may affect both the professional and personal life. Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

Therapy is often a taboo topic within the black community and various other racial groups. However, we feel that people are gradually feeling more comfortable in going to therapy and sharing their experiences. Paul and Shimina discuss the various perceptions of therapy, as well as obstacles, realizations, and the benefits. Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

This week Paul and Shimina provide words of wisdom to their “colleagues” based on personal situations and experiences that are either recurring or one-offs throughout their professional lives. Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

Stand-up meeting time! As managers, Shimina & Paul interview people all the time. As it’s interview season, your co-hosts share their professional opinions on interview etiquette--from the standpoint of both the candidate and the employer.

Shimina explores the various factors that hold us back from making decisions or moves in our life that actually may be for the better. Factors include fear, lack of planning, making ends meet, criticism, confidence, and social constructs such as race and sexuality. Bill Maher apologizes on 'Real Time' over using racial slur: 'I did a bad thing' - http://money.cnn.com/2017/06/09/media/bill-maher-real-time-comments-racial-slur/index.html Turns out, the joke was on Kathy Griffin - http://www.miamiherald.com/opinion/opn-columns-blogs/carl-hiaasen/article155412344.html 18 Revelations From Comey's Senate Testimony About Trump And Russia - https://www.buzzfeed.com/davidmack/james-comey-statement-senate?utm_term=.ri3byd7NN5#.naRNPZAgg4 A timeline of the Trump-Comey saga - https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.cnn.com/cnn/2017/06/10/politics/trump-comey-testimony-timeline-what-we-know/index.html Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.c

Paul brings Shimina into a fun conversation regarding what makes us hot and bothered. This week, you’ll learn some common and maybe not-so-common things that are on our list of pet peeves--from interaction with society, to social media, airport culture, dating, and public transportation. Robert Caro Wonders What New York Is Going To Become - http://gothamist.com/2016/02/17/robert_caro_author_interview.php My Family's Slave - https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2017/06/lolas-story/524490/ Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

Shimina brings up the topic of “emotional tax”--the weight of obligation that black people, and other minority groups, carry in order to be successful in the workplace. This mindset and level of consciousness is not a choice, but rather a way of living that other folks do not have to worry about. This weight sometimes translates into poor mental, emotional, and physical health. Paul & Shimina dive deep and share their personal stories related to this research. Emotional Tax: How Black Women and Men Pay More at Work and How Leaders Can Take Action - http://www.catalyst.org/system/files/emotional_tax_how_black_women_and_men_pay_more.pdf ACLU Issues Texas ‘Travel Advisory’ - http://thehill.com/homenews/state-watch/332579-aclu-issues-texas-travel-advisory Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

TLC said it first… what about your friends? Paul & Shimina kick back and talk about friendship etiquette or rather “friendiquette.” They even reflect on their own attributes, both strengths and weaknesses, as it relates to their personal roles in friendships or group environments. Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

What’s Up With Millennials? This week, Paul & Shimina reflect on an interview with Simon Sinek (@simonsinek), where he gives us a fascinating view on Millennials in the workplace. Tangentially related topics include the generational divide, parenting, instant gratification, depression, technology, and empathy. Simon Sinek on Millennials in the Workplace - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hER0Qp6QJNU Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

How is professionalism defined in your industry? Paul & Shimina discuss professionalism and office culture. They also share their frank opinions on what’s considered unprofessional in the workplace. White man kills black man NYC - http://nbcnews.to/2okYYzh Democrats introduce MARALAGO Act - http://thehill.com/blogs/floor-action/senate/325651-dems-introduce-bill-to-publish-mar-a-lago-white-house-visitor-logs Zimbabwe Therapy Grannies - https://www.facebook.com/aljazeera/videos/10155325277218690/ Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

This week Paul and Shimina discuss when to walk away from situations or experiences that need to end. One of the most powerful things we own as human beings is the power of choice. Your co-hosts even take some time to convey experiences that they need to walk away from currently. Checkout Tami Roman’s @OfficialBonnetChronicles Instagram rant on Ben Carson - https://www.instagram.com/p/BRWT6f9jru9/ “Georgia couple gets prison for racist threats at child's birthday party” - http://www.cnn.com/2017/02/27/us/georgia-couple-confederate-flags-threats/ Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

Our friend and head boss, Dynasti Hunt, takes the mic to share aspects of her career and advice as a Vice President of Human Resources. You can follow Dynasti on Twitter (@dynasti.hunt) and LinkedIn (linkedin.com/in/dynastihunt/). Also, check out her new leadership blog barraisedleaders.com, and get more resume building tips from her other website resumeslay.com. Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)

Paul and Shimina do something different this week! For the first time, we invite a guest to our show. Our colleague and head boss, Rosalind Cohen-Baruch, joins us to discuss her versatile career and transition from the non-profit education sector to the private sector, as a human resources professional. You can follow her on Twitter (@RosalindCB) and LinkedIn (linkedin.com/in/rosalindbaruch). Follow us on Facebook (Head Boss in Charge) and Twitter (@HeadBossPod). Email us a question at headbosspodcast@gmail.com. Song Credits: "Bossy" by Kelis (feat. Too $hort) "The Boss" by Rick Ross (feat. T-Pain)